Snooki on Why All Moms Need to Make Time for Good Sex

05/11/2016 at 07:30 PM ET

Nicole “Snooki” Polizzi isn’t about to let her life as a mom change the way she feels about some of her natural human desires.

Case in point? Letting Alysia Reiner know on the newest episode of PEOPLE’s Mom Talk that Polizzi knows what’s really going on during weekend getaways the Orange Is the New Black actress has with her husband.

“We try and go on vacation, just the two of us, at least once a year,” says Reiner, 45, of the short trips to help the couple reconnect with just a little time away from daughter Livia Charles, 7.

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“Just for a long weekend,” Reiner adds. “And have that deeply romantic, just-about-us time.”

“Just sex,” says Polizzi, 28, with a nod and smile.

“Sex with noise,” Reiner clarifies while the other women laugh. “Because it’s like … I had sex this morning, but it was really quiet!”

Polizzi — mom to Lorenzo Dominic, 3½, and Giovanna Marie, 19 months — knows exactly what she means.

“Just being, like, a porn star,” the former Jersey Shore star says.

“Exactly, porn-star sex is really what vacations are about!” Reiner agrees with a laugh. “Those quiet quickies are awesome, but you need a little more sometimes.”

— Jen Juneau

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Snooki Irrelevant on

What? Pretending for cameras? No thanks.

Guest on

I always thought her to be an idiot, and her latest statement does nothing to change my mind. Nothing good comes out of porn. It has ruined many relationships and marriages and has caused many men to commit acts of violence against women and children. Porn is a scourge on the world.

Sarah on

So really, this isn’t very much to do with Snooki. It’s just that she has (somehow) better name recognition than the person who actually said those things.

Freonpsandoz on

What kind of “porn star sex” does Snookie like? I’m guessing ass-to-mouth.

Becka on

Yes, let us all take parenting advice from a woman who thinks getting drunk is a necessity in parenthood. Go away.

Shalla on

She’s right. Many women neglect their husbands after babies come and neglect themselves. Good sexual release/relief is important. Make a date night, visit a store for “toys”, roleplay. I’ve been married 26 years and four kids later, my husband and I still go at it 3 times a week.

DerpaDeeDooDah on

Snooki always smelled like Sex to me, that’s because she’s a tramp and she flaunts it well.

Most guys like that or at least notice it. I’m as red-blooded as all of them.

pcc on

Thanks, but considering Snookie’s husband got caught looking elsewhere for sex even though they have been together only a few years, I’m not inclined to take marriage advice from her.

Fromjerseyshore@gmail.com on

Why are you featuring stories on this girl? She is no role model for anyone…

Sonia on

Oh yadda yadda yadda! Good on paper…but in real life when you don’t sleep much, your dear children put your house upside down, you can’t keep up with your chores, you have to take a rendez-vous to take a shower while your hubby goes out everyday to work, socialize, have fun with colleague, check out the hot secretaries around, sometimes, last thing on a mom’s mind is to blow his lolll Enough with the guilt, let the moms resurface and be a woman again on her own terms….

Jules on

I love how so many of these people in the world think they are so “GOOD” at it because of the “NOISE”!!!! Give me a break!!!!

mic on

bet she gets good and drunk, so she can have good sex hey snooki?

Elvis33 on

This might be the only person dumber, with less to offer than a Kardashian.