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09/17/2013 at 03:00 PM ET

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It’s fun to be one!

On Saturday, Melissa Joan Hart welcomed 55 friends and family (including 35 kids!) to the backyard of her Connecticut home to celebrate her youngest son Tucker McFadden‘s first birthday — and the unbearably adorable afternoon went off without a hitch.

“This is the first party I’ve gotten excited about in awhile because I had the energy and the time to spend on it,” Hart, 37, tells PEOPLE exclusively.

With her teddy bear picnic theme in mind, the mom-of-three started planning the perfect party for her baby boy, turning to her latest obsession — Pinterest! — for inspiration.

“My new love is pulling together a theme by posting ideas on my boards and making it come true,” she says. “It was such an easy theme to work with and it’s all doable at home, which I liked.”

In an effort to keep it kid-friendly, Hart — who wore her Posh Mommy necklace for the big day — and her husband Mark Wilkerson served finger foods with a little help from Katie’s Kitchen, including mini PB&Js, mac and cheese bites and fruit skewers. Adults sipped on sangria while the younger guests enjoyed lemonade.

As the infant and toddler guests lounged on blankets adorned with stuffed animals in the grass, the older children enjoyed sack races, bocce ball, croquet, bubbles and time on the trampoline.

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The Melissa & Joey star lightened her workload by checking off much of her to-do list the night before the big event. “The drinks can be preassembled and then put on ice, snacks can be divided out,” she says. “We kept it simple, but everything looked beautiful.”

The hardest part proved to be inserting the straws into her milk and chocolate chip cookie set up, which included glasses topped with the sweet treats. A dessert table offered an assortment of bear-shaped cookies stored in Itzy Ritzy snack bags and take-home Dine food jars from Zoli, where guests could stock up on goodies from the colorful candy buffet.

“I tried to keep it as trash-free as possible. Most everything was recyclable — the drinks were in mason jars, the cake was served on plates and with utensils the kids could take home after,” the actress says. (She used items from Skip Hop‘s Zoo collection.) “Even some of the snacks were served in reusable bags.”

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For the birthday boy’s big treat, Hart came across a cute cake on Pinterest and then asked a local bakery, The Cake Boutique, to tweak the design by adding a teddy bear topper to the tiered creation.

“Tucker had his own — it didn’t have any strawberry or Oreo pieces in it like the rest of the cake, so nothing to choke on and a little less sugar,” she shares.

Come time to blow out his birthday candles, Hart says, “Tucker was so confused! He was so mesmerized by everyone looking at him that he didn’t know what to do.”

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She continues, “He just started clapping! Once everyone sang to him, Mark and I put his fingers in the cake. He was shy at first, but then figured out what to do and went crazy.”

After Tucker took his time taste-testing the dessert, his proud parents began to tidy up — only to realize the family dog had joined the cleaning crew.

“When he was done, we ran him inside to clean up and when we came back out, Copper had eaten the rest,” she says with a laugh.

While each child went home with a goodie bag filled with Mabel’s Labels and Funkins products, the family asked guests to forgo gifts. Instead, those that wanted could make a donation to Save the Children in Tucker’s name.

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Now having celebrated the major milestone of a first birthday with each of her boys — Hart is also mom to sons Mason, 7½, and Brady, 5½ — she admits she has yet to shed a tear during the fun festivities.

“I’m not a super emotional person, except when I’m pregnant. I’ve never been one to cry happy tears — even at my wedding. Mark had tears down his face and I was just so excited to actually get married,” she explains.

“I’m very in the moment, but both Mark and I really try to relish the baby days because we know how fleeting they are.”

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Hart’s most recent reminder of Tucker’s fast-approaching toddler years include the coming addition of a few teeth — plus the possibility of showing his loyalty for the family’s favorite football team.

“He’s really into pointing, clapping and waving good-bye — those are the newest things,” she says. “My husband swears he can say, ‘Roll Tide’ (the University of Alabama’s rally chant), but I don’t know about that. Although he certainly hears it enough!”

The family of five has been enjoying their summer on the East Coast, but will return to Los Angeles for a few months once Hart’s show Melissa & Joey starts filming. Despite the temporarily bicoastal schedule, the actress makes it a priority to put her children’s childhoods first.

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“Now that we have Tucker, everyone will come out. We tried with me going back and forth and it was just too much — it’s not an easy schedule. The boys like traveling, they adapt easily and make friends all over, but we really try not to let the business of life get in the way, no matter how hard it is,” Hart shares.

“They know Connecticut is their permanent home. I want them to have as much normalcy as possible, to feel grounded and grow roots.”

She adds, “I love that they go to great schools, take their classes, play with the neighbors and then sleep in their own beds at night. It’s important to me.”

Adding to her already full plate is the Oct. 29 release of Hart’s memoir, Melissa Explains It All, an autobiography she penned while pregnant with Tucker.

“I was trying to figure out what to do with my time, since I wouldn’t be on camera. I pitched the book, they were interested and I ended up spending most of my pregnancy with a computer on my lap typing up chapters between errands and naps,” she says.

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Despite her good girl reputation, Hart reveals some of the pages are anything but, touching on the highs and the lows.

“I’ve led a very blessed life and that’s reflected in the book, but I am a little nervous because I seem to have this girl-next-door vanilla reputation — and I’m lucky to have it! — but I’ve definitely had my fun and made some mistakes, so I couldn’t leave those out,” she explains. “It’s a very honest book — there are shoutouts to everyone who has molded my life, both good and bad. I’m excited to see what people think.”

As she continues to achieve both personal and professional success, Hart — who says she’s “always wanted four kids” — plans to enjoy her fit form for just a bit longer.

“To be honest, I’m enjoying my body too much! I have so much energy lately, and I feel really lean. Plus, I don’t mind the compliments,” Hart, who regained her svelte shape with the help of Nutrisystem, jokes. “I worked too hard and I’m not ready right now to get pregnant.”

– Anya Leon with reporting by Sarah Michaud

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bebe on

Her husband is cute! Oh yeah, and so are the kids.

Marcy on

Cute family. The oldest little boy is really cute.

Shopgirl on

The Cake Boutique is the greatest! They made my kids first birthday cakes too. Love them! Great party too!

Valerie on

Her husband is HOT! She is so lucky.

Jen on

her kids are so cute and her husband is HOT. i love that they decided no gifts and instead to donate money to charity

Whitney on

I met them right before she got pregnant with him. They are as good looking in person… Her oldest is a spitting image of her, her middle son looks more like daddy and Tucker must look like the milk man (just kidding). Adorable family… However I’m a LSU not Bama fan

jenelle on

Love her!!!!!

micky on

Beautiful family

Aleshia Whitlow on

Poor baby! They should be teaching him to say “War Eagle” not “Roll Tide”!! What a beautiful family.

Rachel on

I think that she has some of the cutest kids in Hollywood!

Marie on

Love this family ! And their kids are so adorable !!!

FrenchLady on

Ah!!! When you have money, sky is the limit!! Wonderful party to remember!!!

Eleonor on

Her husband is so hot! Her kids are cute even I dont like the way they cut their hair!

iluvjimmy on

how gorgeous is this family?!!!

CCex on

She’s great.

stacey on

Cutest little boys ever. And wow, is she lucky………..that husband…………gorgeous!!!!!!!!!!!

Sara Weeks on

I love her dress!! Does anyone know who it is???

paige on

They have a beautiful family. Very good looking, too.

Lars on

I think you made a typo, she can’t be 37?

guest on

I have always liked Melissa. ever since the days of “Clarissa explains it all” to one of my fav shoes now “Melissa and Joey”. What a beautiful family.

Happy 1st Birthday Tucker!!!

taylor on

CUTE FAMILY!! There all so cute!

Crystal on

What an adorable family! The boys are getting so big and HANDSOME! Love the party ideas!!! :)

Laura on

LOL. I know, the kids are adorable, but just to be shallow, all I’m thinking is, “Wow, her husband’s hot.”

Lady on

She is 1 lucky woman….her husband is soooo handsome & her boys are beautiful!

Brooke on

Love her!!

And I believe this is the first post I’ve seen with no negative comments.

Amber on

They have a beautiful family. I was raised in Connecticut and I love it. I feel so grounded there! I wish her beautiful family all the best!

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