But as time has passed, Wilkinson’s been consistently unsure if she’s really ready to take the plunge.
“We did plan on having another kid pretty soon,” she recently told PEOPLE. “Every day our mind changes.”
Wilkinson, 27, explains that even just about a month ago, she went from assuredly wanting another little one, to changing her mind right after a visit from her best friend.
“Hank and I were in the kitchen and I was scooping some watermelon and I was like, ‘You know what? Let’s have another baby within in a couple of months,’” the Kendra on Top star says. “I don’t know. It was just a sudden spark. And he was all excited and we kind of just made this decision.”
But when Wilkinson’s pal brought along her newborn son, the thought of having more kids running around made the former Girls Next Door star cringe.
“I just got really nervous,” she explains. “The baby was crying and had poopy diapers. And I just got an instant baby phobia. I looked at Hank behind my best friend’s back, and I shook my head, ‘No.’”
But Baskett didn’t want to accept his wife’s negative answer. “He really wants another baby,” Wilkinson shares. “He was like, ‘Look how cute he is,’ and I was like, ‘No!’ The reality set in and I was like, ‘Oh, God.’”
The antics of Wilkinson and her two main men can be seen on Tuesdays at 10 p.m.
“Reality TV is what I’m used to,” the mom says. “I love people getting a chance to be in my life. [Hank and] I are not parents who have completely killed our social life and party life. We are parents who still embrace our youth. We just love to share that and it makes for good TV.”
– Dahvi Shira