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Nancy O’Dell: Daughter Ashby ‘Not a Fragile Flower’

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At age 3, Nancy O’Dell‘s daughter Ashby Grace is already learning to hold her own with her two big brothers.

“Ashby is so tough,” says O’Dell, who also has stepsons Tyler, 15, and Carson, 10, with husband Keith Zubchevich.

“She can always defend herself at school because she has to do it at home. She’s not a fragile flower!”

She’s also managed to change her night owl mom into an early bird.

“I used to so not be a morning person,” says O’Dell, who is promoting the Morning Squeeze video contest sponsored by Florida Orange Juice. But since becoming a mom, the newly-named Entertainment Tonight host regularly rises at 5 a.m. to get her emails and organizing out of the way before the kids are up.

“Also, when you have a toddler and she’s ready to go to bed at 8 or 8:30 at night it’s like, ‘Time for me to go to bed too!’”

Mornings are about to get even busier for O’Dell, who will begin appearing on Entertainment Tonight along with outgoing host Mary Hart in January.

“When ET first started, I watched it and thought, ‘That would be the coolest job,’” says the former Access Hollywood host. “And here it is. To take over for a TV legend is such an honor. Mary is such a classy lady.”

Also in January, O’Dell will begin hosting Your OWN Show: Oprah’s Search for the Next TV Star, a reality competition on OWN: The Oprah Winfrey Network. She is also the author of a new book, Full of Love, which offers guidance on scrap booking in conjunction with Creative Memories.

“I’m a fourth-generation scrap booker,” she says. “I have a love letter my great-grandfather wrote my great-grandmother when they were dating! It’s so neat.”

Today she carries on the tradition through the Album of Hope Initiative to help parents create their own scrapbooks for their kids.

“The moment you take your child’s picture and put it in a scrapbook, you’ve just told them they matter,”  O’Dell, 44, explains. “I saw that so much the other day with my daughter. She was looking at an album I had made of her when she was a baby and saw this picture of me with her. She said, ‘Mommy, you love me so much.’ I said, ‘You’re just the most wonderful little thing.’ And she said, ‘Yep, I’m awesome!’”

Next up for O’Dell: Hosting FOX’s New Year’s Eve special.

“I’m like, ’2011 must be my year!’” she says with a laugh. “I feel like the female Ryan Seacrest!”

– Michelle Tauber

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8 or 8:30 is a bit late for a 3 year old’s bedtime 0_0

- megan on

No it’s not…
My just turned three year old goes to bed at 8. He’s not tired any earlier than that because he naps in the afternoon. Sometimes he is still lying awake in bed until nine or so.

- Ashley on

It’s not late. My 3 year old sleeps from 9 til 8. Sometimes I wish she would go to sleep earlier, but I love that she doesn’t get up until 8! She just takes a good afternoon nap.

- Miche on

I agree, Ashley.

My son, who just turned three a few days ago, goes to bed around 8:15. He takes a nap in the afternoon so he isn’t tired until then. Works out fine for us.

- Taylor on

No, it’s not late if that’s what works for the family. As long as the kid isn’t tired at school, or cranky in the afternoons, and so on, then what’s the problem? My kids (3 & 1) go to bed after 9 every night. Because of my husband’s hours, it’s the only chance they have to see him during the work week. They sleep in later than the ‘average’ kid, but our priorities are straight.

- jessi on

My bedtime when I was little was always @ 10pm. I am not a morning person-always been a night person, so I would be up late + not be able to sleep any sooner. Same now.

- Mia on

Same with me, Mia. I always fell asleep after 10! That’s still the earliest I can fall asleep.

My parents tried an early bedtime, but I couldn’t fall asleep before a certain time, no matter how exhausted I was.

- Erika on

My 21 month old son gos to bed at 8 and gets up at 7:30 or 8am.

- Amber on

Growing up I went to bed at 7am until I was probably 10 but my mom said I was always tired…and I believe her! I have a 3 and 5 year old. Both took naps until just recently when my oldest started kindergarten. No naps in school so she sleeps from 7pm to 7am. :) My 3 year old still needs a nap but goes to be an hour later than her big sister. This is what works for OUR family. :) I’m sure when my youngest joins her big sister in school she will also need an earlier bedtime!

- Sus on

Ashby is such a beautiful little girl!

I’ve never met a three year old that goes to bed any earlier than eight or so but it really does depend on the child and the family!

- Tee on

I think 8 is early. my kids dont get home from school untill 4 so dinners not til 630 or 7 so its usually 9 before they fall asleep because i want to be able to spend time with them!!

- mommyof2 on

When I was a baby, if my parents sent me to bed anytime before 10:30pm, I would wake all night for feeds. If I had my last feed was at 10:30pm, I would sleep right through to 8am. I come from a family of night owls – only my Dad goes to bed before midnight on a weekend, and even when I have to be up at 6:30am for work, I’ll go to bed at 11pm. I’m an insomniac (stress-related; it has nothing to do with the late bed times as a baby)- going to bed any earlier would be a complete waste of time, because I’d just lie there and stare at the ceiling.

Needless to say, I intend on training my kids to go to bed at 10pm and get up at 8am so I can get the sleep in. It all comes down to training them when they’re little. If you’re going to send your kid to bed at 6:30pm, its going to get up at 5am – no one needs that much sleep, not even a baby, especially if they’ve had naps during the day. Besides, I know too many people who have young children and after working till 6pm at night, go home and tuck their kids into bed, effectively never seeing them but for that small window in the morning, bedtime and weekends – personally I want to spend more time than that with my kids.

- Ratty on

I have 2 kids (2 and 14 month old) and they both are in bed by 10pm! They take a nap during the day and will not go to sleep any earlier. They sleep until about 9am. If it works for them, it works for me. Each with their own.

- mother of 2 on

Um Why are all the comments about sleep?

- Kewky on

I’m also a night owl, and when I was a kid, I would often hide in my closet and read on school nights (weekends were a lot more flexabile as far as bedtimes were concerned!) when I was supposed to be in bed, because I simply wasn’t that tired (the flashlight under the covers method never worked for me!)!

- CelebBabyLover on

Wow, Megan, judgmental much? That’s pretty ignorant of you to expect people (especially those who work unconventional jobs) to conform to your expectations of appropriate sleep times.

- The Wozzy on

My 26 months old is still on 7pm – 7 am schedule (plus nap). But sometime before 3 he will definitely transition to a later bed time. A 3 year old doesn’t need as much sleep as an infant or even a young toddler. 8 pm is great for a little girls bedtime!

- martina on

Kewky, I wondered the same thing.

I really enjoyed this article. I thought the scrap booking story was so cute!

- Jill on

@ Jill I loved that story too.

And high five to Ashby for not being “a fragile flower.” Welcome to the club little one!

- Kewky on

My 2 year old sleeps 8 to 8. But more to the point of the article.

I appreciate her pointing out that her daughter isn’t a “fragile flower”. My daughter is 2 and I am expecting another little girl in about 6 weeks, and I HATE it when people make assumptions about my daughter based on her gender. I’ve had people say “oh you’re lucky you don’t have to worry about xyz because you’ll have girls” Things like getting dirty, playing rough, or being loud.

My daughter is pretty rough and tumble. She has some very girly toys, some boy toys, and most of what she plays with are gender neutral.

- Jenn on

I have three little ones…and none go to sleep before 9:30! they sleep till 7 and no nap! If they do ever go to sleep earlier they get up earlier..shes on a great schedule. I love her anyway!

- lisa on

@Kewky: Valid question, and I realize it was a rhetorical question, but I’m going to answer you anyway. All the comments on here are about sleep because no one can disagree with anything a celebrity says or does on this site without tons of people jumping all over them and telling them why they are wrong for not agreeing with – and gushing about – the celebrity in question.

- Rose on

I have a pretty, darn tough guy who’s 8 years old, who’s a big tease, but to my astonishment his 3 year old sister can make him cry. I have to get on her case more then his when it comes to that. Though, I am hoping she carries that to adulthood and is able to hold her own real well and not take crap ; )

- camilla on

I have 7 cousins and a younger brother (ranging from 3 to 17 in age). Only one girl in the bunch (she’s 7 now). And I think she’s probable the toughest of ALL of them. I think she had to be to defend herself!!

- Sarah M. on

Rose- I think most of us have more of a problem with the WAY some of the negative comments are said than the actual comments them said. That being said, I haven’t seen any truly negative comments towards Nancy on this post, nor do I see anyone jumping on anyone else. We’re just sharing how different people, kids included, can be when it comes to when they’re ready to go to bed! :)

Also, you have a right to your opinion, but the rest of us have the right to ours, too. As long as people aren’t getting nasty, opinions from all sides are perfectly fine. :)

- CelebBabyLover on

@CelebBabyLover: I don’t agree with that. I have seen people disagree with something a celebrity has said, and do it in a respectful, polite manner and that person still gets verbally attacked and lectured by the niceness police.

For the most part the disagreement in this thread has been tame (with the exception of the person who called megan judgmental) but this is the one and only time I’ve ever seen that happen. Every other thread where there is disagreement of a celebrity in any way, the person gets verbally attacked.

- Rose on

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