Jenna Jameson Hopes Sons Won’t Question Her Past

What beautiful babies!

Jenna looks great, those boys are adorable :).

I think she’s kidding herself.

She is dillusional at best. They will find out & it would be better if she told them.

Adorable babies. Jenna deserves all the happiness. I wish her well. Sure are alot of judgemental people around here. I guess you all never made any mistakes in your lives? Always perfect decisions? Yeah, that’s what I thought.

Hate to say it but if she really wants to put it behind her she might seriously consider changing her name. It’s one of the most famous porn names out there.

People’s lives change. I think she’s doing a wonderful thing for her sons, and I wish her the best of luck. As for telling them what she did prior to becoming a mom … when they’re ready, she’ll know what to say.

Aww, I haven’t seen them since she first took them home from the hospital. They are gorgeous! Jenna looks great and I think she’s right. Her kids will know her for who she truly is as a person and first and foremost as a mother. What the heck do we know?

gorgeous babies and beautiful mama! What a nice photo 🙂

Those little guys are going to grow up to be real bruisers!

unlike many of you, I don’t hate jenna, nor do I judge her. she hasn’t hurt me personally, and I believe everyone has a right to live life the way they see fit as long as it does not directly harm another.

The porn industry has taken more of a toll on Jenna than it has any of you.

and to those who say they “don’t agree with selling your body in any way shape or form”… what about people who do manual labor, or athletes, or models? I think what you meant to say was that you are morally against the sex industry.

It’s your right to feel offended, but it’s not going to stop it. Pornography is as old as the ages and has been around since the begining of time. Women are usually much more opposed to it than men, mainly because it makes them insecure about their own sexuality and challenges their ideas of womanhood.

As long as Jenna is honest with her sons about her profession they will love and respect her. But if she is conflicted about it, then they probably will be too. The main problem they will face is not going to be grappling with their mother’s past, but with the cruel judgement of society.

Based on what some people say about Jenna, I imagine that once her sons get older they will feel the need to defend their mother from hateful comments and may end up getting in a fight or two.

With that said, I’m happy for her to be in this phase of her life. I think her babies are incredibly beautiful and wish them all the best.

Kinda hard to hide that past! Her boys are beautiful.

wow Jena talk about denial. She will be known for years I mean its been about 10 years maybe more since she started and she is still pretty well known for what she has done. It has nothing to do with being a hater. As a self respecting woman and women we wouldn’t have done what she did. She did it for money and now shes rich as hell! Let me feel sorry for her, her biggest issue will be when her boys find out she had sex with every porn star in the country!

Am glad she has left her old life behind her and we are no one to judge her because we are not perfect. She looks great and those babies are beautiful and she is a mom just like any other and we all have our past which its not perfect. So Jenna keep going forward and don’t look back and you are a wonderful mom!!!!

Everyone has a past, she can’t deny it and I hope that she tells them about parts of it before they find out on their own. But luckily many of the women who post here won’t have that problem because they have lived perfect lives on any scale.

She can’t change the fact she was a porn star, she’s not in denial. There would be outrage if she said ‘when they’re 5 I will sit them down and tell them all about Jenna Jameson and how I changed the porn industry’

Being a porn star isn’t the worst thing to be, not saying it is something I would chose or would want my daughter to do. But she never hurt anyone, she was never anything terrible. I would much rather have Jenna Jameson as my mother than a drug dealer, addict, prostitute.

She is also not the first porn star to have children. Tyger Drew-Honey, Jake from Outnumbered, is the son of 2 porn stars. He seems perfectly well adjusted and happy. I’m sure he is well aware of his parents careers and its not done him any harm.

Anyway, back to Jenna. Her boys are beautiful (almost wrote twins but I thought that would look like I was complimenting something else), they look so like Tito.

@Jena and @Mikki

I totally understand the “not judging part” but what is wrong with you guys? What is with “you all never made mistakes?” you are calling what she did a mistake? How do you know that it is a mistake? Did Jenna say that? And why do you assume that “all of us” made mistakes? Who gave you the right to assume that? what are you sure about “all of us”? And how can you equalize average mistakes made by people to doing porn? I don’t care about Jenna’s past but you don’t have to bring people down just to put her on a pedestal. No, none of us made mistakes that are as bad as doing porn, so there!!!!

I’m not the same person I was before I had kids, and I’m sure this is the same for Jenna. Who cares what she did before, the fact is that now she’s being the best mother she can be.

It’s not the same, but my mother was a topless dancer when I was growing up…I have never, not one day looked down on her for that because I know she did what she had to do to make sure I always had what I needed. She wasn’t perfect, neither am I, nobody is!

Yes, I agree, one can never escape their past, but Jenna is doing everything she can to give those boys a good life. I’m sure they’ll know about it all when they’re older, she may not be doing movies anymore, but come on, neither is Ron Jeremy and we all know who he is! But I have faith they’ll see that she gave up everything that made her who she was to become the new improved “mommy version”, and they’ll realize just how important they are to her.

I applaud her, and I applaud her community for accepting her for the person she is now!

Um… they will find out about your past!! How embarassing!!

So porn stars shouldn’t have kids. It’s okay that essentially everybody’s teen sons watches their films but they can’t have some of their own? Riiight. Hypocritical much?

She never says she hopes the boys don’t find out about her past, that’s the headline that CBB put up, it’s an attention grabber but a complete fabrication of what’s in the very short article (same photos/articles as the Miranda Kerr pic).

Nor does she say that she will try to hide anything, she just says that she doesn’t believe that in the long run, it will be what matters. What will matter is that she quit and left everything else behind to JUST be their mom. End of story.

I’m sure they will find out…who knows maybe when they are teenagers Americans won’t be so uptight and puritanical about sex.

Wow, Amy, because she chose to do something that you morally oppose, she shouldn’t be having children?

That’s what’s called self-righteous.

I always believe in redemption. Yes, she was a porn star. That’s a fact. But she is a mom, now and you have to give her the credit for leaving that life behind so she could be a better mom to her children. People can change if they really want to, and she wants to.

I think it would be worse if she didn’t tell her kids and as teenagers they happened to stumble upon their mom ‘performing.’

If I were in her position, and I really wanted to put the past behind me, I would change my name…obviously by continuing to ‘promote’ herself (her website and tv and print interviews) she is consciously keeping her name and herself in the spotlight…

Adorable boys!! Love the curly hair!!

I’m sure one day Momma will tell them about her porn past and the fact that she’s one of the smartest, most successful women who was ever in the porn business!!

Have any of you ever read anything about her?? She is quite a successful businesswoman!! She has nothing to be ashamed of…

kudos to her for turning her life around for her boys (and that includes her husband), and to the negative people out there, just shut up! it’s you who make change difficult for them because you are judgemental and you never believe in them. why can’t we all just be happy that there is one person in this world who is trying to do good, not only for him/herself but for the people that they love??

i think jenna jameson is taking one step at a time, i’m sure she will tell her kids about her past, but it is not an easy thing to explain something like that, especially in a world full of people who like to throw stones at other peoople.

to jenna, let your little guys know who you are and at the same time, instill a positive attitude in them, let them know that having an ugly past does not mean that they could never be proud of you, in fact, it is what should make them hold their heads up high because their mama is a strong and beautiful woman who made everything possible for them!

so cheers to you!

Wait a sec, fuzibuni…women are more opposed to porn than men because it challenges their idea of womanhood and makes them insecure about their own sexuality? Since when does the porn industry show a realistic and healthy sexuality?

It DOES show a great deal of violence toward women, it objectifies them, it paints a false picture of what arouses most women. I personally don’t think that there is something so grand about a guy coming on my face and I don’t think it makes me puritanical to think so.

As for Jenna, I feel sorry for her. She was beaten and gang raped as a teenager and addicted to drugs starting in her late teens. She says she can’t watch her own sex scenes. So I really don’t think she has some “healthy” sexuality worth emulating.

Think how she must have come to this profession. So I am glad for her that she got out of it and is making a life without it.

I, personally, wouldn’t choose a job in the sex industry, but why all the assumption that she considers it a mistake or something to be ashamed of?

Like a previous poster said, she has been very successful in her life, and not just by performing in porn movies, but by being a savvy businesswoman who built an empire around her name and it still making money off of it.

Good for Jenna!! She chose to get into her career and now has chosen where she wants to be in her life now. She gets to devote all of her time and attention to her children, and with time she will know how to talk to them about her past.

It’s absolutely ridiculous to say that she should not have had children because of her profession. A good percentage of celebrities that are featured on this website have acted in some serious sex scenes and appeared nude in front of the camera. Or what about other celebrities who have used drugs extensively throughout their youth? All of their children are bound to come across these facts sometime down the road.

Obviously it is different from porn, but if you suggest that porn stars (both active and former) should not have kids, then I’m sorry, but to me it would seem that any man or woman should avoid having children because of some past behavior that is not accepted by the majority of society.

Best of luck to Jenna, she has two beautiful boys that will give her the most fulfilling job ever!

@Alice: Okay, got it. Thanks. Your original comment was just kind of hard to understand.

I do agree that it’s hypocritical to watch porn and then judge a porn star. But I think you’re jumping to conclusions that everyone who is judging Jenna has watching porn. Some people don’t.

ecl
Saying that porn makes women “insecure about their own sexuality and challenges their ideas of womanhood” as fuzibuni put it does not equal your translation that “the porn industry shows a realistic and healthy sexuality”.

I seriously can’t see the correlation you could have seen between those two ideas, but it’s a little problematic since you based your entire post on putting your words in someone else’s mouth.

You’ve clearly completely misinterpreted and therefore missed the point of fuzibuni’s post, so why don’t you tone down the drama and get your facts straight before hitting the post button next time.

So we have to go all puppy talk on this otherwise we’re haters, judgemental, self-claimed perfect people, etc etc. Some of you really need to get a grip.

Of course the kids will ask about what she did, especially after they see her movies, unless she burns them all, but i doubt she’ll be able to do that as technology seems to keep things now forever. There are movies from porn stars from the 70s so you bet her own will be around easily for the next 20 years. She was a mega porn star. And she was supposedly proud of what she was doing, defending her profession from head to toe. I still remember that E!Channel show on her.

Of course now it’s different because she has kids. Now she understands that porn is simply not the kind of lifestyle you wanna go by. Her kids will have to be mature enough to deal with bullying in school if that’s the case. She’d have to be really open with them about her past. We all deserve to redeem ourselves, and get a second chance. Sooner or later we all have to answer questions about certain things we did in the past and aren’t really proud of.

And i hope im not labelled “hater” or “perfect-gem” or any other silly term just for stating my opinion.

I’m not making fun of the kids, but why does this picture look so odd? the coloring of everything looks odd.

Children will rarely question the integrity of their parents when they have a consistent healthy relationship. What’s more is that those children will know their mother as a caregiver, not as a porn star.

To Ash:
I simply meant that the porn industry does not make me insecure about my sexuality since what is shown is so destructive and fake in many ways. I see how my wording was confusing, though. I just never like the implication made in many of the posts that if women were more secure with themselves, they wouldn’t be upset with porn. But I don’t think I was being dramatic in any way. I was just pointing out the problems with porn. I am not opposed to all porn, but I do think most of it portrays women in a harmful way. I stick by my original statement.

Wow good for her! I am so impressed she breastfed twins. Well done Jenna.

P.S why so quick to judge her people? We are all mums trying to do our best.

I found it kind of ironic that Selene said:
“I would much rather have Jenna Jameson as my mother than a drug dealer, addict, prostitute.”
What is the difference between a prostitute and a porn star? They both have sex for money. It’s odd that one is legal and the other is not. I guess making more money for it makes it legit.

the babies are beautiful, love their hair! I think this picture is awful of Jenna though.

Alice, I agree. I have to wonder how many of the judgers here have husbands, sons, brothers, etc. who watch porn or who maybe even watch porn themselves. The reason why Jenna is so famous and wealthy is because a lot of people (mostly American) were paying to watch her.

Amy, she shouldn’t have had kids? Give me a break. That is such a self-righteous comment. Should people who watch porn also not have kids? That would definitely solve over-population. With all of the horrible abuses children face, if the worst thing that happens to her boys is that their mother was a porn star before they were born, something tells me they’ll be ok.

Selene – Thora Birch is also the daughter of former porn stars.

Man you people are so judgmental. She was savvy enough to know she wanted kids and to be financially independent so she made sure that she had her business in order so that she could quit and not have to work again and pay for all of it inc her kids’ university education. How do you all like them apples?

Very well said, ecl.

Ok I’ll be the one to say it. I LOVE porn and LOVE watching Jenna perform! She is amazing!!!

Awww, those boys are both gorgeous with awesome heads of hair 🙂

I don’t really know who this Jenna Jameson is so I won’t comment on her life, but she has two beautiful sons.

I don’t think women who do or did porn dwell much on the future, normalcy or their reputations. Then they chose to insert themselves back into a “normal” world but their kids will suffer the consequences in the social realm. This does not mean that an adult film star cannot be a good parent; it just means that there will be extra weapons to use against her boys when they are teased.

However, I am more concerned with her sons watching their father beat their mother and their mother remaining in the relationship. Their issues will buy a therapist a Lamborghini one day.

As long as she is always honest with her kids, so they are never surprised with the information, I don’t think there will ever be an issue.

I have a dark and shady past. I have always been upfront and honest with my kids about it. They know I had a very hard and rough life as a kid, it influenced me to make a lot of stupid and bad choices as a teenager. I got pregnant, I was 17 with a baby to support and I was a stripper….I ended up with a drug problem, I made a lot of stupid choices with wrong men, I dabbled in porn.

BUT….my kids were *ALWAYS* well taken care of, cherished, loved and provided for. It’s been a long road, my younger kids didn’t experience what my oldest did with me, but they all know the truth, because not only do I never want anything to ever come out of my past to blindside them and totally rock their worlds to the core, but I also want them to learn from my mistakes the best that they can so they never have to experience the horrible things that I have.

My life is totally different now. I am happily married, I am a Christian, I am active in my church, my kid’s schools, sports programs, my community…..I am honest and upfront with people close to me about my past because I don’t believe in hiding things, that’s how you get into trouble, by trying to be phony and something you are not.

I am who I am now, because of who I was then. I am and always will be a work in progress. As will Jenna.

I don’t have anything to comment about Jenna but to a previous poster – Maria – if you think all porn stars are having consensual sex then you don’t know a lot about the porn industry. When you (general you) watching a porn film there will be many times you are watching a woman being raped. Some women, like Jenna, choose to do, many more are forced into it.

i think that when they reach the age of reason (different for everyone) that moment when they understand, past, present, future, and the impact your actions have on it she should sit them down and tell them the truth about her past job. i think as long as she approaches it with pride, her kids wont think much of it. because what she did in the past brought her to her present and her two beautiful baby boys.

i know when i found out my brother did porn it didn’t bother me cause he said it all with pride in his eye. he did it. should he have? no. even he will tell you that. but you can not change your past regardless of how badly you want to. so accept you past, love yourself, and know that everything in your past led you to this moment here in time. and as long as you are happy with where you are now that your past doesn’t matter.

everyone can have their opinion of porn industry, prostitution, motherhood, marriage, and so many other things. but that doesn’t allow us to tell others how to live their lives. as long as the kids are taken care of, loved than everything else doesn’t matter. if her and tito are good to each other and he know about her past than our opinion does not matter, since he is the only one who should have the right to be upset about her being a porn star.

I doubt they would ever find out, firstly she most likely goes under another name in her personal life (like many celebrities do).

Secondly by the time these boys are teens, she will look alot different then she did when she was in porn.

She will just look like any other regular mum. If by some chance they do find out she will deal with it, and tell them the truth.

QUIT JUDGING HER!!!! NO ONE IS PERFECT! What a judgemental world we live in!!!! Her boys are simply adorable, and that is what matters most. To the ladies that are throwing stones how miserable and unhappy are you.

The boys are definitely some cuties and she seems to have her priorities in order. Everyone has a past some good, others not so good.

Taunting and teasing really is getting out of hand and at the rate it’s going *praying for a stop* kids aren’t looking for a parents past in order to taunt and tease. I can only imagine what parents are raising these taunters and teasers hmmmm……..

OMG who cares if she did porn and if she would decide she still wants to do it that would be her business!!!!!

Her boys are handsome and she is beautiful!!!!

Also I might add that I doubt they’ll be the only children in their school whose mom did porn. It’s not like they’re going to grow up in Hendersonville Kentucky. Huntington Beach California. Think about it.

i think cbb needs to re-evaluate their headlines. this is the third story in the past few days in which the headline relays something entirely different than what the article conveys…jenna jameson never says she hopes her sons don’t question her past, just that she hopes when they do, all the love and stability she’s provided for their entire lives overshadows any/everything else.

and yes, i know she “changed the face of porn”, but in a decade or two, will she really be that recognizable? i certainly couldn’t tell you who the biggest porn stars were 20 years ago. perhaps they/their friends will stumble on it (if they’re looking up her name, probably), but i really don’t think when they’re in high school, they’ll be watching vintage porn, especially with the every changing technologies. they’ll probably watch something circa 2000 and laugh hysterically at how outdated/tame everything seems….

Why is it we don’t ever vilify the men who created the porn industry, men who run the porn industry, men who help the porn industry to continue? Come on ladies, let’s stick together. So she did something you wouldn’t do? So what!

I don’t want to get into a huge feminist issue here, but I will say that lots of these women are forced in the industry, whilst others do it because of poverty.

In any case, I think those who leave their children while they go off to do drugs, or come home drunk every night are far worse exemplaries for parents.

And to the person who said her sons would look up her work on the internet….seriously? I highly doubt that.

Noam I agree. At the rate the world is changing, her porn past will be a joke to her kids down the road. They’ll be busy having virtual sex with their virtual partners on their computers. Hell they’ll probably envy her for having had REAL sex lol.

I don’t know…wait until they hit the high school age and all their buddies are making comments.

TOO ALL OF YOU HATERS – stop judging her !! Thats not our job to do ! All that matters is that she has made raising her kids the top priority in her life !! THATS AWESOME – With being given those 2 Beautiful Gifts from Above she is now doing her best work :))) God Bless you Jenna and Family

They’re not even two yet. Talking about this topic with the boys is waaaaaaaaay in the future.

Cute kids..If I were the kids, I’d be more embarassed about my names then I would be about what my Mother did in the past…

My step son was horrified when he found out his mom was a stripper so I am sure one or both of her sons will have that horror. Her past will bite her and what if one of her sons watched one of her movies? Did she ever think of that? Disgusting!

Ria,
Just so you know, Jenna Jameson built a porn empire on her name. While I do agree that the porn industry is predominantly controlled by men and that some women are forced into it and therefore victimized, sometimes people make a choice that that is what they want to do. And if you’re gonna work in porn, I’d much rather be a women and pulling in plenty of cash, unlike their male counterparts.

Jenna is a millionaire, she never has to work again, because she took her career as a porn actress into being a porn entrepreneur and a very successful one at that.

@Lilliana you said it perfectly! I couldn’t agree more. I too applaud Jenna and the community for accepting her.
I do not agree with her lifestyle prior, but I certainly congratulate her for moving past that and making her children her #1 and making the changes she has made. It takes courage and her children will see that.

She looks beautiful and her sons do too. Who cares about what she did for a living prior to becoming a mom, what’s important is that she loves her kids. For the people who stand in judgement…check your husbands and boyfriends drawers, they’re probably hiding her movies from you!

Jenna your beautiful…past, present and future…congratulations on a gorgeous family!

How would any of you feel if you just learned that your mom is was hugh porn star….

I know how I would feel/thing about it.

Yikes…. glad I don’t have that looming over my head!

Thoses kids are ardorable – what a gift!

I think Jenna is doing the best she can. Her boys are Adorable! Kudos to her, she obviously gets what she wants when she sets her mind to it. Who doesn’t have a past? You go Jenna, you obviously love your children and that is a great thing.

Jenna is Awesome. I’m not a prude so I have watched and owned some of her movies. She has done well for herself financially and has chosen to do something different with her life now. Awesome for her and her kids. When the time comes to have a talk with them about her past, I hopw that they are understanding and know that their mom loves them and that’s all. No need to go into great detail about her porn career. They will hear about it and make their judgement for their mother themselves. You don’t have to be an ex-porn star for your children to grow up and make a jusdgement about their parents themselves. Luckily for everyone else they don’t have a porn career to explain to their boys. Love Jenna, & the boys are gorgeous.

I don’t hate Jenna. I like that she is a smart cookie. I don’t care what she did to make a living. She hasn’t hurt anyone. She built an empire, made money and is also quite generous from what I have been told. Her children are beautiful. I do think she should change her name back to Jennifer though. If you don’t want to be remembered for what you did in your past, then go forward and change your name back to your birth name. For those who keep saying porn stars shouldn’t have children, Diane Lane’s mom was one, and Thora Birch’s parents were both porn stars. I think there are a lot worse a child can do than having parents that work in the adult entertainment for a living.

I have been a fan of Jenna Jameson for years. Jim is right, her real name is Jennifer Marie Masoli (not sure of the spelling).

Her son’s may not ask her but her son’s friends sure will (or their dads!)

@ Kat: “People just need to relax and focus on their own families, instead of tearing down other women. Maybe if we stopped hating ourselves so much, we would stop hating each other too. Why do we do this to each other? I wish women would learn to stop fighting each other and support each other. Why not just applaud her for turning her life around and being the best mom she can be for her adorable boys? Hatred, spiteful, bitter and jealous comments don’t solve the problem.

If you hate the way women are treated in life and in porn, then do something about it. Respect yourself and respect other women. The more we do that, and live that out in front of our kids, by EXAMPLE, the more respectful they will be toward women in the next generations. It starts with one woman refusing to make a snarky comment about another, and learning to love yourself, your body and who you are as a woman.”

Thank you so much for posting this. Well said, I say the same thing all the time in a myriad of situations similar to this. Women need to start supporting other women and STOP tearing them down. Period.