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May 31 2010 02:00 PM ET
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Sarah Jessica Parker Says James Is Smitten With His Sisters

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It took a few months, but James Wilkie has officially fallen head over heels for his fraternal twin sisters Marion Loretta Elwell and Tabitha Hodge, who will celebrate their first birthday next month.

“It was an adjustment and we worked very hard to make him feel like his whole world hadn’t changed,” a proud Sarah Jessica Parker tells David Letterman of her daughters’ arrival.

“But then something happened in March, when [babies] turn seven or eight months they’re really interesting to other people beyond their parents, and he fell in love with them.”

Now happy to take on the role of doting big brother, the 7½-year-old won’t stand for anyone laughing at his sisters — unless, of course, it’s his own doing!

“He said, ‘I wouldn’t mind at all if I made fun of them all day long, but I would hate to hear anyone else make a joke about them,’” the Sex and the City 2 actress laughs.

“I also reminded him that should apply to his mother, it shouldn’t just be about his sisters.”

With her son gearing up to start second grade in the fall, Parker feels her and husband Matthew Broderick‘s decision to place him in an innovative school works best for her child.

“He’s in a progressive school, an experimental school — a risk on our part, I understand — and he’s going to be going into what would be called the 7s,” she says, adding that James will turn 8 only a few weeks into the school year.

“Since he is, for the moment, more on the diminutive side, some might call it a Napoleon complex, because he is so mature and such a brainiac.”

– Anya Leon

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I don’t understand. Is her son in grade 7 already? Wow that would be amazing.

- Charlotte on

Hmmm….not sure about the confusion about his age. It says his age twice, which is 7. And says he’s gonna be 8 in a few weeks and says he’s starting second grade in the fall

- Lauren on

Charlotte – I think the name 7s probably applies to his age, not his grade. Although I might be wrong.

- understudied on

I believe 7s is indicative of the age group. It’s a progressive school which basically means it is run differently than your A-typical school.

- harley on

@charlotte, no i don’t think 7s is 7th grade. i don’t know about those types of schools but i don’t think its 7th grade.

on another note, i love this family. i love how SJP and matthew have made sure james is growing up away from the television and mindless activities. he’s growing up to be a cultured and intelligent kid. its annoying how every kid his age is already a “gamer” who nobody can pry off the game controller.

- izzy on

Why are you confused? There are 4 references to his age being 7 going on 8.

- Lauren on

James is seven years of age, putting him in second grade in the fall.

- meghan on

Charlotte-
I think that maybe since its an experimental school they might go by age rather than grade. Like the 7s is all 7 year old kids ect 8s all 8 year old ect. Just a thought

- ashley on

I don’t think he’s in grade 7. I think instead of calling it 2nd grade they call it the 7′s because most kids in 2nd grade are 7 years old.

- Ashley on

No, I think he is a class of & year olds. It sounds like their school does not use “grades” but goes by age levels instead.

- Gigi on

My school did the numerical grade things too, and yes, 7s refers to the ages of the children.

Huh. They live on the block I grew up on…I wonder if it’s the same school. if it is, they chose well.

- Molly on

The article says he is 7 almost 8 and starting second grade in the fall.

- Lauren on

Agree … actually had a teacher tell me my son was “behind” the other children because they all like to play on the class iPods and know all the games and my son prefers the puzzles and books. They are 4 and no, I have not exposed him to video games yet. He already reads and can put together 100+ piece puzzles on his own but is “behind” because he was unaware of sonic the hedgehog. Anyway, lots of alternative and experimental schools refer to grade by years so this is fairly typical. Always interesting to me how earthy and natural they seem in contrast with her persona. Interesting :) .

- brannon on

Brannon- Oh my goodness, I can’t believe that! How horrible for you and your son! Good for you for raising him with simple entertainment and not rushing out to buy him every single piece of technology geared towards children! Overall, I think that the children in this country are spoiled with technology and wouldn’t know how to entertain themselves without it. (Please do not jump on me for expressing my opinion politely. I’m simply making a generalization.) I saw a kid walking through the mall the other day with his little hand held video game. He wasn’t watching where he was going because he was so caught up in his game. I almost couldn’t move my wheelchair to the side quickly enough… he would have run right into me! And then his mother gave me a dirty look like I was the one not paying attention! Hearing stories like the one about your son really make my day!

- Tee on

Brannon – if someone said that to me, I’d pull my kid out of the school immediately.

- Mrs. R on

Unfortunatley Tee, my family owns a retail business and I see this all the time. Cause you know, “you can’t expect little Jaydenn’s parents to teach them how to interact and behave in public, and shame on you for not basking in the glow of my speshul offspring. B/C you know, s/he can do no wrong.” I actually saw a couple whip out a portable DVD player for their children…in a restaurant.

- dee on

It’s kind of scary to hear these stories (and to see it everyday) about small kids who are experts on iPods or who walk around with their portable dvd players. Even kids with something as “simple” as a cell phone – no 10 year old needs to be texting their friends. Sometimes it seems like it’s to a point where so many people think imagination = bad, electronics = good.

Back to the original point…. I really love reading stories about Sarah Jessica Parker and her family. They really do seem very down to earth and family oriented, and James Wilkie sounds like quite the personality to have around.

- alice jane on

my niece is 6 yrs old and is in the 1st grade. she will be 7 in june so she will be in second grade . IF HE IS TURNING 8 YRS OLD WOULDN T IT BE MORE LIKE 3RD GRADE? it seems he would be behind if not?!!! just a thought lol

- gina on

yeah i guess he’s turning 8 yrs old but if 7s is similiar to second grade it seems he started kindergarten late! my daughter is 6 yrs old too and she will be seven next week and will be in second grade too. James will be 8 in the second grade so he is much older but im sure it was the parents decision to start him late!

- gina on

I was at a professional ballet performance last week and some parents brought a child with a nintendo ds!! It would be awful sitting behind that because of the light of the screen.

- Anna on

“I actually saw a couple whip out a portable DVD player for their children…in a restaurant.”

Yup. Saw that yesterday. No, sorry, that was two weeks ago. Yesterday it was a 4-year-old playing on a hand-held video game. Probably the children of the parents who bow their heads to pray to their Blackberries every five minutes.

- Lauren on

my son also attends a progressive school without typical “grades” (ie – 1st grade, 2nd grade, 3rd grade etc) but i’d be surprised if “7′s” means a class of all 7 year olds… most progressive schools group kids of multiple ages together in each class (next year my son will be in a class with what would be 1st and 2nd graders in a mainstream school) as progressive education believes in the benefits of having kids of multiple ages in a class together.

- amandamay on

Dee- It’s crazy, ain’t so? My little nieces have those handheld games but they are only allowed to use them on very long car rides. (with headphones!!!) My doctor shares a waiting room with a pediatric doctor and all seven of the children in there waiting with me were either playing the little video game or playing with their cell phones. For crying out loud, what happened to reading a book or coloring?

- Tee on

@gina – I don’t know the rule in NY but in some states you have to turn 5 before a certain cut off date when entering kindergarten. It’s usually like the last of day of August or September. But I think in some places the date is December 31st.

- dee on

Finally a Sarah Jessica Parker story I can relate to. Unabashed promotion of one’s child as being the “brainiac” of all brainiac’s – and needing a “special” school because he is soooo “special”/innovative.

Hon – your kid is your kid. That’s why you promote him as the wonder kid he is. Good for you – the only difference however between “enlightened” SJP and her fortunate hubbie is millions of dollars to waste on “innovation” in the name of progressive parenting. Other than that absurdity – I applaud her unabashed promotion of her child. Nice to read, for a change.

- Roseann on

here in memphis tn…you have to be 5 before the begin of aug to go to kindergatren.kids this days,i have a 3 year old,when we go out to eat..i bring some cars and they usally have the color sheet and he colors.the only time he get is portable dvd is on roadtrips and that only at last resort! i see it all the time with parents.

- celia on

A lot of schools are actually refusing to allow boys born after May 1 to enter kindergarten on time, even though they meet the district’s September 1 birthday cutoff. Any school district that wants to try and hold back my May 6th-born son has a fight on their hands!

As for keeping your kids away from technology – my daughter started kindergarten reading at a 2nd grade level but she quickly had to learn how to use the Macs they use in their almost daily computer class – I thought I was doing her a favor keeping her away from all that stuff and yet she is behind. Limiting your kids to books and puzzles seems like the best thing to do but the reality is they need that exposure to technology as well nowadays. You need to figure out the right balance.

- Jennifer on

I personally think the routine use of electronic games/TV/Video by children under 6 is deplorable – they all need to learn to amuse themselves with something other than constant electronic entertainment stimulation.I actually saw parents who brought in their ONE year old child into a family restaurant, sat her in the highchair, and got out her personal DVD player and put in a movie for her- they had no other children.They proceeded to have conversation without including her at any point.That is pathetic.As far as SJP comments- sounds like she may keep him in the 7′s even though he is turning 8 in the fall, because he is short(according to her.)In reality, all around the USA most 7′s who are turning 8 after September 1 are in the second grade-it used to be after December 1, but it is now changed.

- woeisme on

The technology comments are interesting. I work among a lot of techies and personally think a lot of these gadgets are a waste of time, overrated, and expensive. But my kids have been exposed to most of these items, and it is probably a good idea in today’s world to be well-rounded in both technological and non-technological areas. Both of my children love to read and have always done so (my daughter just graduated with a degree in philosophy, so reading and writing are obviously critical in that area), but they also have (and use) many of the technological gadgets. While an Ipod for those younger than five seems too much (I still don’t have one!), I don’t think the handheld game systems for those six and up is excessive, if played in moderation. Or a DVD player for long trips. But I feel for today’s kids and their parents with the technological pressure that is put upon them. No one wants to feel “left behind.” But I think a lot of the technology hype is a lucrative scare tactic.

- AE on

My kids are allowed to use a handheld game in the car, while we are at the pediatrician (I have five kids so it’s a lot of waiting), or as a special treat. Most of the time though, they play outside, board games, or color. Don’t get me wrong, they’re all really great on the computer for their age level, but they’d prefer to read a book than play Sonic the hedgehog.

- Luna on

i know this 8 year old kid who is the most spoiled kid ever. he ONLY eats hot cheetos. and i mean ONLY eats hot cheetos. he eats them for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. if you want him to eat anything else, you have to give him money. he spends ALL of his free time on the computer, playing games. his mom made him a facebook just so he could play farmville. i tried to help with him with his homework, and he can barely read!!!! he can barely speak either. he stutters and mispronounces words, but if you ask him about his newest game, he’ll talk about it for HOURS (literally, i’ve heard him.) he has 1 friend at school and this kid is the exact same. this kid has a 3 year old cousin who ONLY eats hot cheetos too. he wanted to give me one and he actually told me hot cheetos give you muscles. how sad is that. their moms had these kids young, at 17 and 19. they don’t care what their kids do as long as they’re quiet and not making messes.

this scares me. the future of our country is in the hands of kids who are used to blowing up the enemy with their game controllers and who can’t even read simple words at age 8.

- maryanne on

lets not get too smug people.

if it is good for the kids it is good for us too. How many of you regularly turn off the tv/shut off the computer and talk, draw or read of an evening??

i think more leading by example and less self-congratulatory moaning about other people’s parenting….

- bo-peep on

I just wish she’d stop going on about how short her kid is. She’ll give him a complex.

- ms on

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