Lisa Loeb: A Fan of the Baby Belly Rub!

05/11/2010 at 04:00 PM ET
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Many expectant mamas make it quite clear once their baby bumps start to bloom: hands off!

However, while pregnant with her daughter Lisa Loeb was left longing for the occasional belly rub.

“I didn’t get a lot of people asking to touch my stomach which I was sad about,” she admits in Pregnancy‘s May issue.

What she did get, however, were the frequent — and at times, inconvenient! — trips to the bathroom.

“My husband and I took a trip to Arizona to see the Grand Canyon and we literally stopped at every gas station we saw along the way. I had to pee every 10 minutes.”

With the arrivalΒ of Lyla Rose, now 5 months, not only did Loeb become a first-time mom, but the singer also entered into a “secret society” she never knew existed — filled with information she wished she knew prior to delivery.

“We’re trying to get her to sleep on her own instead of getting her to fall asleep before we put her down,” the “Stay” songstress, 42, explains. “Sometimes this whole sleep thing is like a hazing ritual for new parents. And the thing is, no one warns you about it. It’s crazy!”

However, Loeb is quickly learning the ropes of motherhood, a result of the numerous resources available to new parents. And while she agrees each family must make their own decisions, she is hesitant to suggest raising children off pure instinct.

“People say when it comes to motherhood, you should follow your intuition. But this is not really true,” she points out.

“The best thing you can do is research for yourself and do what makes sense for you. If you trusted your intuition, you’d feed the baby and feed the baby some more. But that’s obviously not what you should be doing.”

Fortunately, in addition to baby books, Loeb has a strong sense of family to fall back on. “Because of that I can keep things in perspective,” she says. “It’s rare that things work out so well.”

— Anya Leon

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Nicole R. on

Why shouldn’t you follow your instinct if it tells you to “feed the baby and feed the baby some more”? Newborns need a lot of milk and comfort, and constant nursing provides them with both! πŸ™‚

I am also a fan of evidence-based parenting practices, but it seems strange for her to say feeding your child is “obviously not what you should be doing.”

Angela on

I think she meant that overfeeding your baby (“feed the baby and feed the baby some more”) is something you shouldn’t do, and she’s right.

B.J. on

What is her daughter’s name? I can’t recall ever hearing it. I had such a crush on Lisa Loeb back in the day! I’m wearing glasses inspired by her right now πŸ˜€

Sarah M. on

B.J – I think it’s pronounced ‘Lilah’, just spelled ‘Lyla’. I could be wrong, though. πŸ™‚

B.J. on

Thanks Sarah. Either way, love the name!

CelebBabyLover on

B.J.- It says in the post that her name is Lyla Rose. πŸ™‚

NovemberPomegranate on

Um, you can’t overfeed a newborn. You should feed on demand, and listen to their cues.

mae on

She’s so right about the sleep issues. I have a six month old and we are still working on getting him to sleep through the night. It can be pretty rough but overall it is so rewarding. LOVE Lisa Loeb and happy that she has found happiness with her husband and now with baby Lyla πŸ™‚

cm on

5 months isn’t a newborn and trying to get on a schedule at this time is great.