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Mark Wahlberg Rolls With the Punches – Literally!

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Not much has changed for Mark Wahlberg when it comes to being the family punching bag! The youngest of nine, the actor was often at the mercy of his older brothers growing up, and now the father-of-four admits his eldest son Michael has happily taken over the tradition.

After recently taking him to see boxer Manny Pacquiao, Mark tells Jimmy Kimmel that Michael has found his new passion in life. “My son is obsessed with boxing,” he reveals. Fortunately for Michael, who turns 4 next month, dad’s role as Mickey Ward in the upcoming film The Fighter means a boxing ring in the family’s backyard. His opponent? Dad!

“As soon as we got home he wanted to go in the ring and just pound the crap out of me,” Mark says.

“He puts on the gloves, tells me to get on my hands and knees and to put my hands behind my back and he just punches me as hard as he can. Fun for him, not fun for me because literally I was like, ‘This kid is staring to hit hard man!’ I had a bit of a headache.”

While proud that his son is “learning to hit and not be hit,” which Mark calls “the name of the game,” Jimmy is quick to point out that all of the boxing lessons may mean trouble down the road on the school yard.

“We’ve actually had that call once and now he knows that it’s only play with Daddy in the ring and that’s it,” Mark explains.

Click below to read how Mark keeps his kids appreciative of their good fortune, as well as the one thing he and Rhea wish for.

Noting that he and his wife Rhea Durham are “definitely hands on parents,” when it comes to raising their brood — which also includes Ella Rae, 6, Brendan Joseph, 17 months, and Grace Margaret, 5 weeks — the actor notes that the family’s fun-filled backyard makes time spent with their kids a dream.

“We got it all,” Mark says, running down the list. “The basketball court, the little football field in the back, the driving range and putting green, little playground area, a pool with cliffs and the slides.”

Still, Mark insists his kids remain aware of just how lucky they are. “I want them to appreciate everything,” he shares. And, made obvious by Ella’s recent willingness to donate all of her toys to the children of Haiti in the earthquake aftermath, Mark and Rhea consider their job well done.

“The thing about my kids is that they really care about other people. They go to church, they go to Catholic school, and they’re really aware of a lot of people who are less fortunate.”

As for whether there will be any new additions to the family, Mark jokes that the only thing he and Rhea are praying for these days is a bit of rest!

“My wife wanted four, she wanted two boys and two girls. God was so good and gave her everything that she wanted and now we just want some sleep,” he says with a laugh.

Source: Jimmy Kimmel Live!

– Anya

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They’re cute…seem to be good parents. I’m now incredibly jealous of their house…even though I assumed they had the goods…hearing it is different ;-) !

- eljika on

I love this family! They seem so adorable!!

- Heather on

Caring father, good looking, great actor, gorgeous wife and cute kids, could he be more perfect? :) Sounds like his kids are really grounded and I hope he and Rhea get some rest soon!

- Jessicad on

I always feel bad for any person who has two under two. I know that some people love it but at some point they have to feel tired by all the over work. I’m glad that Ella is such a good kid, wanting to donate all her toys to Haiti. They’re blessed times four.

- Luna on

don’t think i would take a 4 year old to a boxing match, but i guess mark was raised kinda street level so he wants his kids to know how to fight.

- fuzibuni on

Luna, ITA. We have over 3 years between our two and am soooo glad now. I know some people prefer closer gap (and some don’t plan it that way of course, ‘suprises’ and all!) and cope when you have to, but for sanity, hubby and I like having the bigger gap personally, esp once daughter turned 2 had son already at school about 4mths, which makes life easier (plus one on one with your youngest/last child) without there being a huge gap either, works for us anyhow. That’s not to say I don’t appreciate how lucky we are to have two healthy kids, love them to bits, but if you can plan it……not what I’d want to be honest either.

Look after an 11mth old 2 days a week and when it’s him & our 2 year old life is certainly full on so it confirms for me we did the right thing, LOL. He’s a lovely kid but two under 14mths, full-time, would be crazy! Sound like a great family though, teaching their kids to appreciate what they have. Also love the name Ella.

- Sam and Freya's mum on

my mom wanted her kids close together, and whoa, did she pay the price. She had my sister and I two years apart, then my brothers came along a year and a half later. She didn’t know she was having twins until she was in the delivery room because it was before ultrasound was standard.
So, she had a three year old, a one year old and twin newborns with colic… all with no help, and my dad working long hours to help pay for it all.
while it was her choice to have her kids close together, I think she nearly went mad dealing with us. not recommended for most. what i saw her go through nearly turned me off from ever having kids to be honest.

- fuzibuni on

my kids have a huge age gap. i got married and had my daughter when i was 18 and then got divorced. then got remarried and had my son three years later when i was 35. so now i have a 3 year old son and a daughter that will be 20. they love each other and he talks about her all the time and then when she comes over they drive each other crazy because she is always texting on her phone and he is mad and does stuff to drive her crazy. then he dont want her to leave!!! its a love hate relationship! lol. i guess it dont matter what age your kids are, there will always be sibiling rivary! my husband has two boys age 21 and 18. he said they were terrible when they were younger and never stopped fighting. so he said our 3 year old is enough! dont want to go through that again..lol!

- smile on

I had two under two (they are now 3 and 19 months) and it’s HARD!!!!!

- LuLu on

My two are 17 months apart, planned that close and I love it. SOOO GLAD I didn’t end up with twins the second time around though. Two in diapers was not too bad and we will be done with diapers all the sooner. Not for everyone, but for us it works.

- Carrie on

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