Moms & Babies

Celebrity Baby Blog
Jan 28 2010 06:00 PM ET
Comments (17) Permalink

Billie Piper Laments the Trauma of the Public Tantrum

Jon Furniss/WireImage

In a candid new interview, Billie Piper opens up about the highs and lows of first-time motherhood. “It’s so hard,” she admits, “and when people say, ‘Oh, it will be a breeze having your next child,’ I can’t really imagine how.”

Noting that making 15-month-old Winston James a big brother would plunge her right back into sleep deprivation, Billie says that she already has her hands full during the daytime hours with her firstborn, who has started having tantrums. She confesses,

“It’s so embarrassing when you are out in public because you feel like everyone is staring at you.”

Husband Laurence Fox is “really cool” with Winston and “makes a great dad,” Billie says, but there were some growing pains along the way as the couple adjusted to life as a family of three. “We laugh a lot because now all our photographs are of one of us with him, rather than any of us together as a couple,” Billie notes.

Although initially Laurence and Billie, 27, planned to alternate jobs so that one parent was always with Winston, the approach “failed miserably” according to the Secret Diary of a Call Girl star.

Fortunately, Billie’s mom Mandy was able to step in and care for Winston while Billie shoots the Showtime series.

“My mum has been brilliant and Winston gets great treatment. I am very lucky to have great people around me.”

Click below to read about how Billie got back in shape after Winston’s birth.

She also counts herself among the fortunate few who reclaim their pre-baby bodies in a matter of weeks — six weeks, to be exact! “I am glad I did it,” she says. After taking a few weeks to focus solely on Winston, Billie says her strategy was simple: “I just ran a lot and ate less.” The lifestyle demands of a television actress have motivated her to begin thinking about a different career path, however.

“I have actually started to look at what I could do other than acting. I don’t want to be away filming when Winston is older and I am toying with the idea of writing or producing a TV drama.”

When asked whether she would encourage Winston to follow in her footsteps, Billie appears to have resigned herself to what seems inevitable. “Look at Laurence’s family — there are three actors so Winston will probably want to act too,” she points out. “What can you do?”

Revealing that she’s hoping for three children overall, Billie is clearly elated with the turn her life has taken. “I am loving being a mum,” she exclaims. “It’s very hard to articulate what it’s like without sounding too clichéd but life feels complete now we have Winston. I am really happy and such a softie with him.”

“There is no choice in what time I get up in the day but I don’t mind as I make so much more of the days now I am a mum. It’s brilliant and he knows exactly what he is doing. He just has to smile at me and I can’t resist.”

The new season of Secret Diary of a Call Girl airs Mondays at 10 p.m. on Showtime.

Source: Daily Record

Comments (17) + Add a comment

Wow, I think she looks completely different with darker hair and without glasses.

- Angela on

I can relate to being embarrassed by your child’s tantrums; I always feel the need to tell the people around me, “she really doesn’t act like this at home!” lest they think I haven’t raised my child correctly. lol

- M.J. on

Dear heavens! Has it been 15 months already?

- Silly Mama on

Angela – I was going to say the same thing!

- mrsh on

I loveeee Billie Piper! She seems so awesome and I love her in Secret Diary!

- P. on

We have a child with Autism, who frequently tantrums in public due to sensory integration issues,and our care factor for what total strangers might be thinking of us has dropped to zero. Too busy trying to help our child to be bothered with what strangers we’ll never see again may be thinking – especially when they should be minding their own business!

- Celeste on

ok – her earlier interview where she said how in love she was with motherhood making more sense now…. she is actually away on a movie/tv set while someone else deals with the actual toddler 9-5 (at least).

- katie on

With my first child, I use to be so embarrassed if she had a tantrum in public. With my second, I just care a lot less. Oh well, what can do. I don’t make a big deal about it, I let me child have their moment, and then it passes quickyl. All kids do it one time or another. Generally people around us barely even seems to notice, and if one does—-screw ‘em. They obviously don’t have kids!!:)

- Belle on

I understand her being embarrassed and I’m sure I’ll be the same way even though I know it’s not a big deal. ALL children do it at some point or another so anyone who has children completely understands. The ones without children may not but oh well!

- Laura on

Katie, I may be reading more into your post than there it to it, but how does her working on a set 9-5 or whatever make her less in love with motherhood?? I’m a working mother and I am completly in love with being a mother!!! That comment just rubs me the wrong way.

- jessicamom#3 on

katie, it seems unfair to say that she only loves motherhood because she isn’t an active parent. we don’t know how often billie is at work or how long her work days are. billie’s mother is watching her child so he is with family. a lot of kids have grandparents/daycare/etc. watch their kids when they’re at work. that doesn’t make them uninvolved parents.

- Sarah K. on

Hey, Katie, I am a widow mother of two children at the age of 35. I have to work to support my family. Luckily I have a mother, stepmother and my grandparents that take the time out to watch my kids. I love my kids and love being a mom but just because I don’t stay at home with them 24 hours a day doesn’t make me less of a mom and I am getting sick and tired of people assuming that if you have help raising your kids with either nannies, relatives or so forth you should not be working and loving motherhood.

- Tara on

A friend of mine worked with Billie recently on her series ‘Secret Diary of a Call Girl’ – he said she’s lovely, good fun, professional, and is obviously in-love with her son. The series filmes for 6 months a year, about 8-9 hours a day. And if it didn’t, it wouldn’t make Billie less of a mother.

- Marie on

no no no – did NOT mean that she loves her children LESS or that she is in some way not a REAL mum. calm people.

just meant that most full-time SAHMs gush a lot less about the experience of motherhood…. i suppose it is their reality 24/7 and like anything that you do all the time it gets repetitive and grinding. most working mothers (P/T or F/T) seem to gush about how much they “LOVE” motherhood maybe because their time with their kids is more of a special time… more novel and fun.

no judgements… just observation. i was both a SAHM and a P/T working mum so this was also my experience (though not universal by any means… some SAHMs look like they are hooked up to happy gas and some working mothers are bored by the kids they only see at weekends)

- katie on

katie- Actually, from what I’ve read, actors filming a TV series aren’t always working from 9-5. Basically, I think it tends to depand on the day. Sometimes you might only need to film for a couple of hours, other days you may have to film all day and even well into the evening, and some days are in between. :)

- CelebBabyLover on

Oh, and katie, your intial comment DID come off sounding like you were criticizing working mothers. I realize now that you didn’t mean it that why, but I can see why some other commentors got a bit defensive at first. :)

- CelebBabyLover on

I’m a working single mother of a 4yr old boy, and i work Three hours from home, my boy stays with my parents, i call him everyday, i see him every weekend, i LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART, even though i’m not there everyday to see his progress and all, but i know what goes on in his life, EVERYDAY, there are many ways to love your kid unconditionally.

- True on

Advertisement

Add A Comment

PEOPLE.com reserves the right to remove comments at their discretion.




Get Moms & Babies Everywhere

Advertisement

celebrity bloggers

most read stories

Valentine's Day Sweetness

Squeals & Deals

Sign-up for the Mom's &s Babies Free Weekly Newsletter

Free Weekly Newsletter

Mom Said It

"Your child's not looking at you and going, 'Mmm, I love a clavicle. Let me nestle into that.'"