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Heidi Klum Says Her Family Of Six Are 'All One'

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Three months after welcoming daughter Lou Sulola, Heidi Klum is enjoying both her successful career and her new life as a mother of four. And while baby girl’s birth may be a memory by now, its lasting effect continues to shine — quite literally!

Gracing the cover of InStyle‘s February issue, Heidi reveals her husband Seal surprised her with the perfect push present: a sapphire ring. “Blue for Lou,” she laughs.

And Lou’s impact on her mama doesn’t stop there. Having wanted to “dress stylish and sexy” during her four pregnancies –despite her baby bumps — Heidi has collaborated with A Pea in the Pod to launch her own maternity line, Lavish. “I got the idea to design clothes for women like me who want to be fashion forward even with a baby on board,” she says.

Her Motherhood Maternity line, appropriately titled Loved, says it all, Heidi notes. “Everything is about love when you’re pregnant,” she muses. “The baby’s being loved by you, the baby’s being loved by your husband, by the grandparents, by your children. And you’re being loved by everyone: ‘Can I do this for you? What can I get you? Do you want some M&Ms?’”

Despite her take on the benefits of pregnancy, Heidi jokes that she wasn’t as fortunate! “Not that I get that kind of attention!” she says with a smile.

However, it isn’t all blue skies for Heidi. After gaining 45 lbs., the model is determined to get the weight off by cutting carbs, exercising, and breastfeeding. “My boobs are on a schedule!” she jokes. Revealing that she is still sporting maternity pants — belly panel and all! — Heidi insists she is no different from any other new mama.

“You don’t walk out of the hospital and get right back into your 27s.”

Click below to read about Heidi’s feelings on children and nudity, and why she and Seal renew their wedding vows each year.

A stickler for manners and family dinners, Heidi and Seal are more relaxed when it comes to their children seeing them nude. The couple’s bedroom includes “beautiful, artistic” photographs of the couple in the buff, and although she doesn’t bring it to the kids’ attention, Heidi has no qualms about wandering little eyes. “It’s not like, ‘Hey, Mom and Dad are naked, come check it out!’” she laughs.

“But if I go to the bathroom and my kid walks in, I’m not going to be like, ‘Oh my God! Close the door!’ They see their parents naked all the time. We are not ashamed.”

With Heidi and Leni recently changing their surnames to Samuel — although Heidi continues to use Klum professionally — the family is as united as ever. “I want us all to have the same name,” she explains. “So my husband, the children, and me, we’re now all one.”

Their commitment to one another includes an annual renewal of their marriage vows, a necessity for the on-the-go family. “We’re still for a minute and stare into each other’s eyes,” Heidi shares. “Because if we don’t take that time, then it’s karate, then it’s ballet, and then there’s Christmas, and my husband’s flying off to tour around the world.”

For now, Heidi’s hands are certainly full, but the mother-of-four is already planning for the future as she and Seal grow old together.

“At 65 I’d love to be on a boat with my husband, floating around, our kids visiting us with their friends, dropping anchor whenever we want.”

Heidi and Seal are also parents to Johan, 3, Henry, 4, and Leni, 5 ½.

Source: InStyle; February issue

– Anya

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love love love this family… I hope I can find someone to share life with like Heidi and Seal!!! :)

- btw_2010 on

What an amazing family! I always like to read about them. Also love her views on naked-ness, I’ve been living in germany for five years now and after seeing how comfortable many people are here with their bodies, I think it’s a great attitude for the kids.

Does anybody know if she speaks german with her children?
Just curious as we are raising our kids bi-lingually, my german husband speaks german with them and I only speak english.

- baroquebabies on

I too can relate to the nakedness. My sons are 6 and 3 and although I walk around modestly, they are very aware of a woman’s body. They are very respectful and protective of their own bodies, as well as mine. I love my boys!

- acorrado on

Gosh. I ♥ this family!

- {JeLisa} on

I feel that kids should be comfortable with their bodies but at some point i would not want my daughter seeing her dad naked at an age that would not seem innocent.Like when she notices a man’s private parts.

- g!na on

I cannot tell you GREAT it is to hear that she is still sporting her maternity jeans, 3 months postpartum!!! I’m 6 weeks postpartum and am right there with Heidi…. belly panel & an extra 45 pounds!!

- Candace on

I LOVE everything Heidi says about her family… and most in this article…

yes, of course there should be a time when they aren’t able to just walk in on mom and/or dad when they’re not clothed… but trust me, as a mom who took it all day by day, kids definitely are the ones who know when it’s time. They all too quickly reach an age where they’d rather not barge in on us in the bathroom, no matter how much fun we’re having (IE, shower, bath, BUBBLE bath), or even enter the bedroom without a… “Mommy, ummm.., you’re dressed in there, right?”

Heck, before you know it, you have a 6yr old asking YOU to “please make sure I’ve at least got my underwear on before you come in, even to put away my clothes”

It all goes too quickly.

- Kat on

I think this family is great. I love her view on her kids being comfortable with their bodies and nudity. We’re born naked we shouldn’t be ashamed of our bodies it doesn’t mean to show it off to the entire world, but it’s good to have a high self esteem and be proud of what we have. Way to go Heidi!

- Nella on

They definitely seem like a cool family, Had a chuckle at the thought of all the casual nudity (imagine getting to see Heidi Klum and Seal in the buff! :O ; but, good for them for promoting a positive self image.

- Xan on

This woman needs to learn when to stop talking! I’m not a hater, but seriously? You just don’t share this kind of thing, especially not with the world.

- que cera on

Love, Love, love Heidi Klum and all of her children are so adorable!

- Nicole09 on

Nudity isnt anything to be ashamed of thats right over here in Germany there was a lot of that going on at beaches,lakes in the 70s and 80s….people still do it today!
I dont see whats bad about girls seeing a mans privates…they see it in teenage magazines,at the Pool (where we go and part of it is a nude area)

So much i wanna write to the subject but I bite my tongue,lol

- Simone on

Between their views, their sincerity, and their four gorgeous kids, i think i’m in love with this family.

- Luna on

And you’re being loved by everyone: ‘Can I do this for you? What can I get you? Do you want some M&Ms?’” Glad it was this way for her. Love you Heidi but your making this 29 week pg mama get hormonal while sitting at work after fighting my 3 y o off to daycare, scarfing a bagel-that no one asked if I wanted or made for me or held while I drove in traffic. I wish someone would ask how I was today much less if I wanted some M&M’S.

- April on

*NOTE TO SELF… must read everything Heidi says! LOL SORRY!

- April on

yeah, like i’m going to let my 12 yr old daughter look at her dad’s penis. There’s a limit and some things are left to be modest & decent. My daughter was little when she saw her dad naked(3). doesn’t remember! Now, she’s a teen and things are different! Her innocent eyes don’t need to see a man naked she’s just a child. When she’s grown she can look all she wants! Something is very wrong if you let your teenager see her dad naked. OMG, if i saw my dad naked when i was a teen i would be so grossed out! My eyes, My eyes! lol surely would blind me!

- g!na on

I think the point was that they’re comfy with their children seeing them as they are. All the kids are young so they probably won’t remember. Some of you make it sound like they’re naked all the time and performing child abuse, when it’s not. Americans are so weird about their bodies, every other country it’s not perverted that your relatives happen to see your child run by naked (not talking about a teen, i’m speaking about, you have family over, your 5 year old streaks to her room)

She and Seal will probably be more cautious as Leni gets older. But honestly some of you act like you’ve never accidentally seen a family member naked while growing up. People bathe and change clothes. It’s not some taboo to see a naked body, for non sexual/perverted reasons, to clarify.

- Alice on

^ when your 5 year old streak naked to run to her room, AFTER A bath.

- Alice on

I think the naked pictures are fine, but children should also be taught to respect privacy. If someone is in the bathroom, or a bedroom with a closed door, kids should be taught to knock.

- dfgdfgd on

to g!na – I still clearly remember BOTH of my parents, nude from a shower or getting dressed (in completely non-sexual instances, they were discreet with that of course) and I’m not traumatized. I think when we make a big deal about it, that’s when kids start to worry about it. I’m GLAD my parents didn’t shield me, as if to be ashamed of our nakedness, because I feel like I have a more relaxed view of nudity. Do NOT mistake that for being lax about what’s appropriate. But I don’t see the harm in seeing your parents nude if it’s in a non-sexual way.

For those wondering, I’m in the US :)

- Marie on

Simone – What teenage magazine do you have where it shows men’s privates?

- Becky on

@Becky: German teen magazines show naked bodies.
@g!na: What would happen to your daughter’s eyes if she saw a naked man?
The difference is, seeing a naked body is nothing special here, so children don’t freak out if they see a woman topless or a man naked.

- Ella on

@baroque babies:

I’m pretty sure I read before that her children are all bilingual, think she said it was something she felt if parents each spoke a different language you owed it to your children to pass it on.

- Sarah on

Everyone has different comfort levels when it comes to their own bodies and the bodies of other people. I don’t see anything wrong with either perspective, and think it’s really up to the individual/family to decide what is best for them. There are certainly cultural differences that come into play. Americans are, generally, a bit more puritanical about nudity. It goes back to our founding and seems to be hardwired into us. Not all of us, but many. I, personally, am not at all comfortable with my body, but this is due to severe self-esteem issues that come from the way my mother spoke about her own body, other women’s bodies, etc. When you grow up around someone who places too much emphasis on appearance, at the expense of anything else, that’s when your body image will suffer. I don’t think you will have body image issues though if you happen to grow up in a “nakedness is private” home, as long as the other messages you get about physical appearance aren’t incredibly warped and negative.

- mrsh on

I’m pretty sure that seeing my mom breastfeed my baby sister when I was 12 is what put me off breastfeeding my own kids, people need to think about the long term effects of what their kids see and don’t see at certain ages.

But I love the Samuels, I have nothing but admiration for Seal for stepping up and being the dad Leni’s biological father could never be bothered to be. You can see any time they are together that they truly truly love each other, it’s something for us all to aspire to.

- Jennifer on

That’s you Jennifer. Seeing breastfeeding from a young age made it normal to me and surely gave me a firm stance on why I wanted to do when I had a baby. That’s how it’s been for a lot of my girlfriends too. So great long term effects here.

- C on

Alice- I couldn’t agree more! I also noticed that people seem a lot more worried about Leni seeing her father naked as she gets older than Henry and Johan seeing their mother naked. Why is it horrible for an older girl to see her father naked, but fine for an older boy to see his mother naked?

That being said, I think Alice said it best. Americans DO tend to be very weird about nudity (and this is coming from someone who is an American herself!). A naked body should not, IMO, be some taboo thing, and of the many children who have seen there parents naked at some point, I highly doubt that any of them end up traumatized for life because of it!

Really, we Americans need to get over thinking of the naked body as purely sexual (not saying that ALL Americans think like that, of course. I don’t, and I’m sure there are plenty of others that don’t either. I’m just speaking in general terms here.)!

- CelebBabyLover on

Remember Heidi is european and europeans especially germans and swedes are all about the nudity:)

My husband and I don’t have problem for our 3 yo to see us naked. Maybe will come a time that he is not going to want to see us naked but till then is all good:)

Love Heidi and her beautiful family. So excited for the new season of PR.

- Mrs.B on

I’m a Brazilian female, and my two brothers and I grew up seeing our parents naked – not in an 24/7 kind of way, but if we happened to knock while they were changing, or need something from the bathroom while they were in the shower, it wasn’t as if they made us cover our eyes or wait till they were done to come in. Up until I was 7 or 8 I was always showering with my little brother and my dad, and even though it stopped when we reached puberty, I still saw my dad naked a few times and I’m a perfectly fine, un-scarred woman. My brothers and I were more private about our own bodies, and after turning 12 or so we never showered/changed together.
But if it’s your parents, the bodies that made you, you should be able to look at it without disgust, shame or any sexual connotations. That’s what I think, anyway.

- ASM on

I remeber bathing with my dad when he was little, bits and all, it was normal. And even now at 19, family law is that knocking is encouraged but if I or my mother is in the bath, its perfectly acceptable for the other/my little sisters to come in to the bathroom & pee or wash hands. Number 2s get privacy as does my step dad, but we’re girls and its no big deal.

- Gem on

Jennifer- i agree with you what kids see and don’t see at certain ages! Let me put it why American have to care because of a certain thing called CPS! if a child at 8 or 9 yrs old (girl) takes a shower with her dad and tells her classmates about his penis etc… i’m sure there will be a phone call to the home and things can get sticky. In our society you have to be very careful. There are many rules etc. and CPS has more rights than you can think of! All these bathes etc. can be innocent but in the eyes of CPS they think differently. NO, i never had a problem with CPS but a lady i knew had a problem because her son (5) took bathes with his older sister who was 8 yrs old and he told his teacher what a vagina was and said he loved bathing with his older sister and love dto see it! well, it turned into a problem that i wouldn’t want! Just take responsibilty as a parent and some things are left to be private!

- g!na on

I saw my parents naked all the time. I also have four brothers and have seen them naked more times than I can count. Am I traumatized by it…uhm NO!!!

I grew up on an island, nudity did not equate sex. My parents taught us to love our bodies and that they were a gift and as such we must take care of them. It was completely natural to see parents, aunts, uncles in some stage of nudity.

Kids aren’t thinking about sexuality from nakedness, that’s the adults job and then they teach kids to hide themselves and make kids feel almost ashamed that they even glimpsed someone in their naked forms.

Get over it people, we came into the world with out a stitch of clothing on our bodies and when we die, we may be covered in clothes yes but after our bodies have decayed and turned to dust…the damn clothes are still there!!!

If parents approach their kids in a neutral way about nudity there would not be an issue.

I love the Samuel family and I’m sure their kids will be just fine and when they are older they will be appreciative of the fact that their parents taught them to love the bodies they are in.

- Brownsugar1313 on

CelebBabyLover – mothers are different than fathers. Our first connection to the world is through our mother – we came out of her vagina, and sometimes she breastfeeds us – it’s all completely non-sexual, both to girls and boys.
A grown man’s penis IS a sexual thing – it’s “out” there and can be quite scary for a little girl. I remember my dad taking a bath with my brother and me when I was very little (like 3 or 4) – and I was very scared of his penis – it can scar a child for life and have an impact on the child’s own sexuality (esp. a woman’s sexuality).

- Maya on

Maya- I agree, my niece was totally scared of her dad’s penis so he stopped showering with her. Nobody told her to be scared but it’s out there and is external & can be scarey too see.

- g!na on

They make a cute couple. Renewing their vows yearly seems like a great idea for them especially due to their hectic schedules.

- Cathy Carpenter on

Maya- Well, techincally, kids don’t know they came out of their mothers’ vagina until their parents tell them (and actually, not all of us came out of our mother’s vaginas. Some of us came out through an incision in our mother’s belly!). Also, the last time I checked, our fathers were just as involved in our creation as our mothers. :)

- CelebBabyLover on

I also want to add that I saw my dad naked a few times when I was a child, and I am certainly not scarred for life because of it. I’m sure I probably wondered why his intimate parts looked different from mine the first time I saw him naked, but I don’t remember ever being scared of his naked body!

Bottomline: From what I’ve experienced, heard, and read, I think girls being scared of their fathers’ naked bodies and being scarred for life because of it (particularly that last part) is the exception, not the norm. :)

- CelebBabyLover on

Sorry about the triple post, but I meant to add this to my first post: Maya, how do kids know that a man’s penis is a sexual thing? The fact is, they don’t…..unless an adult (or possibly a teenager sibling) tells them. It is my belief that, if a child is taught that a naked body is a perfectly normal, and most of the time, perfectly innocent thing, then they are not going to be scared of naked bodies and/or be scarred for life because of seeing a parent or other relative naked!

- CelebBabyLover on

How about wrapping your heads around the fact that nudity is different for some cultures? What is not appropriate in the US or Australia may be thought of differently in Germany. Nudity is simply acceptable in some cultures and even from family to family. I had a high school friend whose parents were often nude in the house. I just had to wait outside while he got them to put a robe on and I was cool with that. Different strokes for different folks!

- apple on

OMG, here we go again! I totally agree with Brownsugar1313 and Alice. We walk around naked all the time. In fact, my three year old is a nudist! The minute we get home, she strips off. Everyone in this neighborhood seems to have HUGE issues with it when she goes thru the sprinkler on OUR lawn naked. So effing what? She is innocent. She also takes baths with both of us, and never mentions body parts. It just doesnt matter to her. In fact, My husband is European and I am not a prude, so when the girls get to be like 5-6 they will not see as much of us naked. But I wont make a big deal of it.We need to seriously LOOSEN UP people, and stop affixing SEX to everything. I wish I could be so free…to go outside and play naked in the sprinkler!! In fact, I used to!!! The only reason people are paranoid about nudity is religion: Islam, Catholicism…they go conquer an Island like Hawaii and take peaceful natives who wear almost nothing and are comfortable with it…and make them cover up and be all shy about their ‘sinful’ bodies. How have they managed to ruin many cultures and countries with that garbage! Besides….Americans throw sex in our faces day and night, yet….gawd forbid we actually SHOW anything to the kids who share a home with us. Try turning off the effing TV and showing them the wrong images of the human body. I used to live in Australia and nudity is not a big deal. They show it on regular tv all the time. It’s comical and is usually part of the story/gag. DUH. get the stick out, America, practice what you effing preach, seeing as there are so many damn preachers here. Hypocrites.

- Jax on

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