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Baby Boy On the Way for Jane Carrey!

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The next few months will be a whirlwind beginning to a new life for Jane Carrey, and the 22-year-old singer couldn’t be more ready. Due with her first child on March 3rd, Jane reveals to Entertainment Tonight Canada that she and her fiancé Alex Santana are thrilled to be welcoming a baby boy — whom they’ll be naming Jackson Riley — come spring.

“I’m excited about it because I never really got along with girls growing up,” she explains. “I was a little afraid that if it was a girl that she would not like me, you know? So I’m very happy about the boy.”

Before the baby carriage arrives, however, Jane and Blood Money rocker Alex will tie the knot in a “not too fancy, very laid back and cool” wedding later this month.

According to the mama-to-be the countdown is officially on! “It kind of dawned on us three weeks ago that we still had a bunch to plan before the wedding, so now we’re [rushing] to get things done, but it’ll work,” she says. “It’ll be the day before the wedding and we’ll find out everything’s okay.”

While last-minute details are still up in the air, Jane insists that one thing is for certain: her father, actor Jim Carrey, will be on hand to walk her down the aisle! “Of course he is, he better!” she laughs.

And while marriage and baby may be happening in conjunction, Jane says it was a simple coincidence. “[Alex] asked me to marry him and then I found out that we were going to have a baby. The baby wasn’t planned exactly, but our future was,” she explains. “It was going to be in there somewhere, we just didn’t know when.”

Finishing up her second trimester, the Jane Carrey Band singer — who craved red meat and onions and not much else the first month of her pregnancy — has moved past her aversion to food and admits that lately, she will devour anything in her path. “It’s not really a specific anything, it’s just more like, ‘Food now, thank you very much,’” she laughs.

To that end, Jane has developed a hankering for donuts!

“I’ll smell donuts when donuts are nowhere near and I’ll be like, ‘Who’s got donuts?’ There’s no donuts in the building.”

In an effort to keep the extra calories in check, Jane has taken up prenatal Pilates, but laughs that the routines have yet to show results in her favor! “I’m trying to stay in fairly good shape, but it’s not working very well because everything still doesn’t fit,” she confesses. “I do Pilates and then I go to the gym three times a week when I can for the most part…so that my butt doesn’t fall down on the floor.”

Click below to find out why you can find Jane waiting tables — and how dear old dad wants her to move back in!

Determined to balance motherhood with her music career, Jane — who shares that baby boy is “already drumming right now” — is ready for the challenge that the combination has to offer. Hopeful that she will be “at peace enough” to juggle the responsibilities, she says she is finally achieving her goals.

“I’ve always wanted to be a mother…and I’ve always wanted to do music, so to have the two together, it’s just awesome. It’s a dream come true.”

Although she relies on her famous father for emotional support  — “He’s been wonderful. He helps me with my music career a lot, which is really nice,” she shares — Jane stands on her own two feet when it comes to financial independence. In addition to her singing career, the expectant mom is waiting tables to make ends meet.

“Everyone’s got bills. I have my own family so we support ourselves. We have our own little family that we got started now and [we're] saving up!”

That said, Jane reveals the proud grandpa-to-be has already hinted about having his daughter and her boys join him at home!

“He’s so excited. Both my parents are so excited, they keep calling me [to say], ‘I can’t wait to have a little rugrat running around the house.’ My dad [says], ‘The house is so full of life when children are here. I miss you living here.’ I’m like, ‘That’s not going to happen again!’”

Source: ET Canada

– Anya

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congrats to jane and on jim becomming a grandpa

- Jessi on

Good for Jane for having a “real” job and congrats to her on her pregnancy. It must be nice to know that if you and your family get into financial trouble, huge amounts of cash are just around the corner!

- Seraphina on

It’s kind of an odd comment about not wanting a girl because she never got along with girls. A child is different from your peers. I have a cousin who wanted only boys because she didn’t like girls (what’s not to like? so confused) and she got 3 boys! So there you have it! Anyone else think that was a strange comment?

- amkz on

Jackson Riley is actually on my name list. Cool!

- kt on

Very cute! Hopefully she delivers that day, it’s my bday!

- LiL on

Congrats to her!!! :)

*I also think it’s kind of a strange thing to say you don’t like girls-especially when you ARE a girl, and I have heard it COUNTLESS times from preggo friends and family members. My own mother said she never wanted girls because she “didn’t get along with other girls” and that all of her friends growing up were male. But, I think everyone is entitled to wanting whatever gender they want. I would prefer girls, but it doesn’t mean I hate boys or wouldn’t love my boy as much as a girl. :)

- Ryan on

‘amkz’, yes I thought that was a little odd. I actually thought the whole interview was a little immature. She sounds very, very young, which she is, and though she is working hard on her own, it still came off as her sounding very immature for her what her immediate future holds.

- Sam on

For many celebrities featured on this website, their “real” jobs just so happen to be acting, singing, writing, etc. Just because they’re not conventional 9 to 5 careers does not make them any less deserving of the term. While some celebrity children are raised in an environment surrounded by entitlement, others are not. If she was in financial trouble, perhaps her parents would help her but that’s not something unique because she’s Jim Carrey’s daughter. I know plenty of adults whose parents have or are helping them here and ther financially. These individuals are by no means wealthy but they do so because they feel it’s a way they can help their children.

Amkz, I don’t find her statement to be strange. Some people prefer one gender over the other for a number of reasons. As long as a child is loved unconditionally, I see no problem.

Personally, I love my sons. If I had four more, I’d be thrilled. That doesn’t mean I would love a daughter any less; I just love having sons. You’d be surprise how many people give me grief for that.

- Liliana on

I’ve also heard the “don’t like girls” thing but it doesn’t seem odd to me. It’s like Tori Spelling or Lindsay Davenport (not sure that’s the right last name). Especially since for Jane it’s the first child, she doesn’t know about the parent-child relationship. Her peers is all she knows. She would probably be happy either way but I guess she was afraid she’d have less to share with a girl (which probably would have turned out not to be true). She just feels more secure having a boy.

She sounds very mature to me, having her own job and supporting her family, planning her wedding and everything… she’s obviously not a bridezilla but it doesn’t mean she’s not into it. She’s taking everything in stride pretty well. I wish them all the best for their pregnancy and wedding!

- Alice on

Immature? Give me a break.

- Ashleigh on

I agree it’s always strange to me when girls say “I never got a long with girls” usually the girls that I know who have said it are the ones who steal guys from their friends or aren’t very nice but Jane seems like a very down to earth girl.
I am the exact opposite. I love my girl friends and I am not an overly girlie girl I just love that companionship. I can’t wait to have daughters!

- Bren on

My mom wanted a girl during her first pregnancy, because she didn’t know the first thing about boys. She ended up having three sons, then me. She adapted and they turned out pretty good! I think we all have preconceived notions about which gender would be “easiest to handle” based on our life experiences. We realize only after parenthood happens that those notions don’t apply to your children.

- meghan on

I’m a tomboy, so I’ve always had this hope that I’d at least get a boy somewhere along the way. I relate to girls, but I always have wondered, if I have one, if they’d turn out to be really girly. It’s not that I don’t want girls, I just understand boys (or tomboyish girls) better. Also, she seems pretty mature to me.

- Brittany on

Yes, immature, but perhaps a better way to say it, is also how I did say it ‘very very young’. She is young, she sounds giggly and her comment about thinking a daughter wouldn’t like her sounds quite immature in my mind. I’ve never heard that before, seems like something a younger person might say. Just my thoughts.

- Sam on

My brother and his wife are expecting their first baby. They really wanted it to be a boy and were quite shocked when they found out a little girl was on the way. They said they just weren’t sure what to do with a girl whereas they felt that raising a boy would be easy. I personally found it a bit strange (although I’m happy to report they have adjusted to baby girl’s fast approaching arrival just fine). If I end up with one of each, I’ll be happy :) I would, however, feel like there was something missing if I had all girls or all boy. Maybe some would find that strange.

- que cera on

I don’t think the comment is odd. But yes she has to understand that just because you as a teen or adult don’t get along with girls doesn’t mean you wouldn’t get along with your own child! Girls are catty though which is one reason why I myself would rather have guy friends then girlfriends but it doesn’t mean I don’t know how to get a long with them if need be.

Just think about how cool this will be for little Jackson. Jim Carey is your grandpop and Jenny McCarthy is your step grandma!

- JMO on

I think the identifying with one gender over the other thing is the reason most prefer what they do. I never got into sports or rough-housing, and always had girl friends…so I feel like I would “understand” a girl a bit better…but, I know I would be thrilled and overjoyed regardless. The only time the “preference” gets under my skin is when it’s a guy wanting a boy because he has to carry on his family name. That just gets under my skin in the WORST way!!! Drives me crazy!!! It’s like, “what is this, 1909?” I don’t like that at all. I think it’s sexist and annoying.

- Ryan on

I too was/is one of those people who likes hanging out with guys more than girls. All my friends were guys and I loved it that way. It did have a downfall however when I wanted to be in a relationship and all the guys I knew were friends with me and thought of me as a friend/little sister and couldn’t picture me as girlfriend but they were very protective of me and I loved that. I had very few girl friends and still to this day have just a few girl friends. I just relate to guys more. I hate drama and growing up, in school, girls were just all about drama, and guys could care less. And they took forever to get ready which drove me crazy. My husband always tells me how much he loves the fact that I can be showered, dressed, make up on, out the door in 15 mins. That doesn’t mean I don’t like girls though and even if I didn’t, I couldn’t imagine not wanting a girl for that reason. I have a little girl and was thrilled to know I was having a little girl and she is one of my best friends. One person I worked with didn’t relate to girls and had 2 boys and didn’t want anymore kids because she didn’t want the risk of having a girl. She did not want a girl at all (I couldn’t imagine if she had a little girl!). I guess I am just different to where even though I didn’t get along with girls, that was with friends and didn’t mean anything (the thought didn’t even come in my head) when it came to having a girl of my own. I know Jim’s daughter was pretty heavy growing up. I wonder if it had anything to do with that. Maybe she was picked on badly by girls. Just a thought, I don’t know for sure.

Very excited for them! Jim would be the most fun Grandpa ever and that’s awesome he is so involved with her and her baby and sounds very supportive. I also really admire her for the fact that she is working and saving up when I am sure she could just have everything handed to her. What a great thing to teach her child that you have to work for what you want. I am excited to see this little guy.

- Becky on

I’m happy for Jane and her family. She sounds very down to earth, and I’m sure she’ll make a great mom.

As for her sounding immature with a couple of harmless comments? After visiting this site for years, I can honestly say that what she said is no different than what other celebrities, who are in their 30′s and 40′s, often say. It’s okay to find her statement about not wanting a girl a bit odd, but it’s not entirely fair to blame it on her age. She may be incredibly well-rounded and mature for all we know. Besides, I know many mature women who, as first time expectant moms, sounded absolutely giddy when talking about their future plans. Is it okay for a 30 year old woman to come across as excited, but not for a 22 year old?

And as for the gender comment, which I also found a bit strange at first, I guess it makes sense if you consider the fact that she didn’t have sisters and apparently didn’t have many close female friends. It’s probably natural to not know what to do with a little girl if you never bonded with them while growing up. Obviously the relationships you have with friends are completely different than the ones you have with your children, but for first time parents there’s really nothing to compare it to. So I guess it’s not really that crazy for her to admit to having a preference for one gender over the other.

- shalay on

Yeah, some people go to extremes…My own mother said she always wanted two boys…she got two boys and immediately had her tubes tied. She was only 28. It’s kind of sad cause now that she is older (mid-fifties) she says she regrets it and wishes she would have had a girl. Go figure!

- Ryan on

I’ve always wanted boys since the most treacherous kids on the playground were always girls.The only people mean to me when I was 8 or 9 were girls. It got better with age but I’d always prefer the way boys handle disagreements.
I know that a mother/daughter relationship has nothing to do with the one between peers,as a matter of fact these precious angels were the sweetest creatures with their mothers.It doesn’t mean thatI wouldn’t have loved my daugther if I had had one, or that my realtionship with her wouldn’t have been great.It’s just that hurtful experiences make me feel more optimistic about the way boys interact with their peers.My mind and reason know it’s not accurate,that it’s a generalisation but my guts and heart can’t help it.I can relate to Jane Carrey on this topic.

- Cécile on

I actually thought that the off-hand mention of Jane’s “aversion to food” was the weirdest part of this post. She just seemed a bit too concerned about her potential weight gain and the post reads as if she went from one extreme of not eating much of anything to eating everything in sight. There should be a happy medium in there somewhere.

- Tiger Lily on

amkz- I think maybe she just meant that she doesn’t relate well to other girls and wouldn’t really know what to do with a daughter. I have heard many many people feel the same way.

- HeatherR on

In regards to her being glad she’s having a boy, I know plenty of women who are much older than her who only wanted girls for some reason. I myself would have been fine with a girl, but was very happy when I found out my son was a boy when I was pregnant with him.
I think some people just think they’d be better parents perhaps to one sex than the other for different reasons.
Congrats to her and her fiance! It seems strange to think of Jim Carrey as a grandpa! :)

- Julie on

How can you tell she’s giggly from a written interview? Even if she was so what she has the right. I don’t see her sounding or acting immature at all. She’s taking responsibility for herself & her new family. Congrats to her.

- QT on

haha! Jenny McCarthy is going to be a Step-Grandma! That is just too funny :) (and I love Jenny, just think it’s hilarious.)

- momof4 on

Kudos to Jane for being proactive about supporting her family! There is zero shame in waiting tables to make ends meet and seriously, that’s a pretty refreshing thing to hear considering how wealthy her dad must be.

- Erica on

I dont think her comment is odd. When I was younger I always said I wanted to have a boy (which I eventually did). That’s not to say that I would’ve been upset if I had a girl but just that I could never really see myself with a little girl – if that makes any sense. Strangely enough though, once I was actually pregnant, all I wanted was a healthy baby (we didnt find out the sex before birth. So my perspective changed during pregnancy.

- Cape Town Mum on

Makes me sad to hear about the gender stereotypes that are alive and well! If you don’t want a catty daughter, don’t raise her to be that way. I’m often reminded how I’m bringing up my little girl in an environment that is so judgemental against girls and it is the responsibility of all of us to change this.

To all of you who didn’t get along well with girls growing up – I am very sorry for you and especially sorry that you are carrying this ridiculuous notion around that the ‘cool’ mean, queen bee high school girl was representative of all of us. Wrong, wrong, wrong.

- Jen on

@Lilliana

Yeah, sure, most parents would help their kids out but Jane Carrey is the heir to millions and millions of dollars. One day all of that (or most of it depending on Jim Carrey marrying or having more children) will be hers, so it’s a different thing choosing to be a waitress now knowing that eventually all that money is coming, and that her Dad could spare her a couple of millions without even blinking. It’s not a terrible thing and it doesn’t make her spoiled but the reality is she will never have issues with money, period. And that is the very definition of privilege.

- Seraphina on

Seraphina, maybe so but as you said, there’s nothing wrong with that. Besides, Jim’s young and seems healthy so that day is far off. Either way, it’s not her fault her father’s a successful actor. As for now, she’s taking pride in providing for her family herself.

- Liliana on

I can relate to her comment. I am so happy to be having a little boy! I really didn’t want a girl as my first child. Maybe down the road but as my first? No thank you!
The family is sad as they wanted a girl to “spoil” which was one of my biggest concerns in the first place. People tend to think girls should be pampered and babied and spoiled and boys should rough and tough it out.
I plan to raise my boy to be a well rounded kid.. he will have dollies and strollers for his dolls, he will have trucks and tractors, he will wear pink AND blue and yellow and whatever..
And while I hate the idea of spoiling, why don’t family say they are going to spoil a boy? Why is it always the girl who gets that?
Ugh.

As much as I’d love a daughter some day I prefer this one be a boy.

- Sarah on

I think it is so wonderful to hear that she is taking responsibility for helping to provide for her growing family, rather than just kicking back and letting her dad take care of it just because he has the money. So many celeb kids these days are nothing more than pampered, spoiled, lazy brats whose idea of a job is going to a club. It’s refreshing to see one who doesn’t take advantage of her father’s success. I think she sounds young and thrilled, and I wish her all the best in her marriage and upcoming parenthood. Many congrats!

And how lucky is that kiddo? Jim Carrey for a grandpa? That is fabulous!

- Shannon on

I don’t think she sounds immature at all! When I baby-sat, I typically got along much better with the boys than the girls. That’s not a peer thing! I just found out I’m having my second boy!! =)

- mmh on

Raising children is difficult, but I think raising a girl as a first time parent seems daunting. When I think about having my own children, I would like to have a girl and have that really beautiful mother-daughter relationship with its complex up and downs…but then I think having a son would be simpler in away because for one reason or another having a boy is perceived as easier.

- Electra on

Seraphina – how do you know that she’ll inherit her father’s “millions and millions”? For one thing, he could blow through it all long before he dies leaving her with nothing. For another, he could choose not to leave it to her. If I’m not mistaken Bill and Melinda Gates for example have said repeatedly that their children will not in fact inherit the vast majority of their fortunes – charity will. Just because you’re the child of someone famous and/or wealthy doesn’t mean that you’ll automatically end up that way.

- Tia on

I am 21 with a 16month old daughter and I didnt want a girl–now I couldnt even imagine having a son. Mother daughter relationships are always hard, however I think that some mothers and their sons have a weird relationship.

- Jaclyn on

I do see red flags when women say they do not get along with other women. My best friend is one of those women! I tend to be the girl who these women make an exception for – probably because I am very unthreatening. But I just cannot understand having men as best friends – in my experience growing up, the boys were always a pain in the neck! I just think these women want 100% of the male attention and cannot stand any female competition. That’s a huge generalization, I know, but I am suspicious nonetheless. And on a side note, it is why I am not terribly fond of Angelina Jolie. She does not seem to have any female friends.

On another note, I do wish parents would not favor one sex over another, for whatever misguided reason. All children have unique personalities and do not always fit nicely into the boy/girl stereotypes. On the other hand, I don’t necessarily suggest what Sarah says: “I plan to raise my boy to be a well rounded kid. He will have dollies and strollers for his dolls, he will have trucks and tractors, he will wear pink AND blue and yellow and whatever.” It can also be traumatic to have the opposite stereotype foisted upon you. Read about little Bertie in the Scotland series by Alexander McCall Smith …

- AE on

I don’t think her coments are immature at all of course my mother was about her same age when I was Born nearly 25 years ago though with me my parents didn’t find out the sex until the It a Boy/Girl moment in the delivery room about six months short of her 23rd birthday

- Courtney on

Going along with the “Mother / daughter relationships being hard” thing, my mom and I could not be farther from that. She and I are like best friends and we have been since I was a teenager. I think that sometimes there are too many people that place an unfair gender bias on their children. Whatever happened to just wanting a child that had all their fingers and toes?

- Jessica Williams on

Jessica my mom and I are the same way. We are attached at the hip! We tell each other anything and everything and always have. My friends used to tell me they wished my mom was their mom because of how laid back and cool she was. Of couse she was a mom when she had to be but yes you can be friends with your kids as long as your kids know the boundaries. My brother and I NEVER once tried to overstep them. We knew mom could harm us in any way if we did lol. So we were able to have open communication and know that we could go to her for anything. And now in my mid 20′s I still feel that way. I also think that’s why I’d enjoy a daughter more just knowing the bond I had with my mother I’d want to experience it with my own. It’s about how you raise your kids and in what environment you raise them. I wouldn’t say I got a long great with girls only cause I was probably more mature then most of them but it never interfered with my relationship with my mom.

- JMO on

Jaclyn, I don’t understand what you mean by a “weird relationship between mothers and sons.”

- graciesmom on

@ Tia.

I think billionaires who choose to leave their money to charity like Bill and Melinda Gates are amazing, but well and truly in the minority of wealthy people.

Jim Carrey isn’t an actor whose had one or two leading parts and making a good living. He’s had a huge amount of success and like most parents it would probably be his pleasure to give or leave money to his child(ren) and partner. Again, nothing wrong with that.

I just think it is ridiculous to suggest that Jane Carrey will never end up with any of his money. Why shouldn’t she? There’s nothing wrong with that. All I’m saying is that there is a difference between being a waitress and “paying your way” because if you don’t you won’t have money to feed your children and pay your bills and being a waitress who is the daughter of a very wealthy man! That’s the only point I’m making.

- Seraphina on

AE- Just curious: What gives you the impression that Angelina Jolie doesn’t have any female friends? We rarely see her hanging out with male OR female friends. Also, Gwen Stefani has talked about her friendship with Angelina (she even talked about how either she loaned Angie a dress or Angie loaned her one- I can’t remember which- while they were pregnant with Zuma and Knox and Viv respectively).

Also, Angie was even in a romantic relationship with a woman at one point (not saying there’s anything wrong with that!). So obviously she doesn’t have issues with women. :)

- CelebBabyLover on

Wow Jaclyn what a strange comment. Mother daughter relationships are always hard? What gives you the right to say something like that. You can not just speak for everyone! I have a daughter and I have no idea what you mean by what you said. Also, the relationship between me and my mother couldn’t be better!
I think it doesn’t really have to make a difference whether you have a son or a daughter. It’s more about personalities.
And, you didn’t want a girl? I can never understand how a mother (to be) can say/think something like that. A baby is the greatest joy in the world and you should be very grateful if you are lucky enough to have a baby, boy OR girl!!!!

- Nika on

I can kind of understand where Jane is coming from. My mom had troubled relationships with females her entire life (her own mother, her friends), so she seemed to be harder on me than she was with my brother. There are other issues that play into our situation (I was the oldest, my brother had learning delays…) but, ultimately, she was a better mother to him than she was to me. So, for her, it was better to have a son. Now, as adults, our relationship is better but it is still strained at times because she continues to hold me to different standards than my brother. To her, my brother will always be the victim (even though he no longer has any delays, and is actually experiencing a much easier life than I am). There were many times during my childhood where my mom would tell me I was “bad” or “mean” or “not a good person.” I do feel that part of her hostility was because I am a female, and she has bad associations with other females.

Now, I don’t have many friends (male or female), so I don’t have a bias either way. I was picked on by just as many boys as girls growing up :-) I love having a daughter, and would have loved a son, too. I’m not carrying my personal baggage into my relationship with my child, and I think that’s the key. I do think it’s a bit immature to say, “I don’t want a girl, because I don’t get along with girls.” But, there are a lot of women that wouldn’t do well with a girl for this reason, even if it is subconscious. So, I guess we should be glad that Jane at least realizes this about herself.

- finais on

Whoever said Jenny McCarthy will be a step-grandma:
Wrong! She is not married to Jim..so she is not Jane’s stepmother. Therefore she won’t be stepgrandma.

- amy on

amy- I was thinking, that, too. However, I think what they meant is that Jenny will basically have the role of step-grandma. :)

- CelebBabyLover on

My mother never got along w/ females growing up and told me she prayed for boys. In the end, she ended up w/ four boys and me the lone girl in the middle of the pack and lemme tell ya…we love each other but we are as different as night and day.

We dont agree on much, never got along but if I needed the shirt off her back and vice versa, there would be no questions asked it would just be given.

To that end I understand where Jane is coming from. My mother says its easier to raise boys than girls. I think its the opposite because it was always my brothers getting in trouble…go figure :)

- Dee on

Lets go back to the case here: Jane Carey becoming a mom and Jim Carry a grandfather! I love the thought of seeing Jim with his grandchild! Or even hearing him talking about the baby. I never saw him with Jane as a child, probably because when he got famous I think she was already 7 years old, and her parents sheltered her from the media spotlight! Think about Jenny McCarthy becoming a stepgrandparent, still in her thirthies, and little Evan becoming an uncle, or maybe he`ll be more like a big brother for this baby. Since Evan is autistic he might never get married and have kids of his own, so for Jenny, with him being an onlychild, Janes child(ren) is maybe the only grandkid(s) she will have. So I`m so happy for this little family welcoming a baby into their lives.

- Tanya on

Some of you who have problems with women not liking other women need to get over yourselves, because you sound like the very ones who are dramatic and catty, and who would give other women problems. And, regardless of what some of you think, it is not always about “100% attention from men”. Sounds like you think there’s a sleazy motive. WRONG. Fact is, with guys, they don’t get dramatic or gossipy, nor do they endlessly talk about their boyfriend/husband when times are good, and whine about them when times are bad. Unlike most women, men keep it simple and actually talk about intelligent issues instead of living in a self-absorbed bubble.

- A on

I also think she sounds very very young and immature. BUT, I’m so impressed she is waitressing that it cancels out the questionable comments. Wow.

- christina on

Sounds like she’s got her head on straight to me. Nothing wrong with good honest labour. And also nothing wrong with admitting that you prefer a boy over a girl or vice-versa… it’s honest. I was personally really upset when I found out I was having a boy, but when he arrived it didn’t matter one bit – I love him more than words!

- Baby Carriers on

“I was a little afraid that if it was a girl that she would not like me, you know?”

I’m sure the baby would ‘like’ her… of course it would! Past experiences with other females have nothing to do with how your child, especially an infant, percieves you. I wonder what she would say if she was having a girl? But still, her opinion is her opinion. I love the name Jackson Riley! All the best to her.

- Eliza on

Well, A, just because some women in the comments are critical of gender stereotyping does not make them “catty” or “dramatic”. We are just sensitive to the negative light females have historically been put in. We feel it is harmful and offensive to all women and we should not be shamed for pointing it out.

Also, most women I know do not live in a “self-absorbed bubble”. Many women I have known are kind, compassionate, and intelligent. Ofcourse, there are women who I do not care for, but they are not the majority not by a stretch. (Same with men).

- Denise on

Well said, Denise.

A – spoken like a true A.

- Jen on

I have to apologize for my last post. I am sorry to A for saying that. I am just so surprised that a human being would make such demeaning generalizations. I can’t imagine I would change your opinion. I just hope that you someday find yourself amongst some intelligent folks. The smart ones usually travel in packs. And you can find us everywhere, we’re literally all over the place. We’re easy to identify as we’re not surrounded by giant bubbles. And we’re teaching our daughters AND sons our ways.)

- Jen on

Eliza- I could be wrong, but I’m guessing she meant that if she had a daughter, the two of them might not get along down the road. Sort of like how Tori Spelling said before finding out Stella’s gender that, while she wanted a girl, she also feared having one due to the fact that she has an extremely rocky relationship with her own mother.

- CelebBabyLover on

Thank you, Denise. I should not have generalized about women who cannot be friends with other women (and I admitted it was a generalization), but it does seem problematic if a woman has such a poor outlook on her own gender. Men and women do tend to discuss different things, but it hardly makes women less intelligent. I have been surrounded by men (because I have been involved in some typically male-dominated areas – such as law and politics) with very strong, vocal opinions on “intelligent issues.” I have discovered – and again this is a generalization -that these men often play the same reel over and over. They don’t tend to analyze an issue any more deeply than women – they are just more forceful about it.

I have had very interesting conversations with women on politics, evolution, religion, etc… But it is also nice to just sometimes talk about babies, hence why many of us visit this site! But a little baby girl should not be saddled with preconceived notions of women. Enjoy your baby girls!

- AE on

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