Honestly. My name is Helena Grace too. Haha.

“So many gossips just fueling your own flames here.”

“Very sad adults have to act like this toward others.”

and absolutely none of your second paragraph included first-person (singular) pronouns which are necessary when speaking of one’s self. But then again if you feel that way about yourself then nothing I said was wrong. You do hide behind a computer screen pretending to be perfect. You said so yourself.

The rest of my writing up there that was not in response to your writing and did not directly concern you, was not for you. I am fully capable of writing (and speaking) just for myself.

I do not go on gossip message boards because I don’t have to. The reports and statements from both sides can be found online in interviews if you care to search for them. Sad, yes, but when the media is involved then what do you expect.

Maybe you’re quick to pretend behind a computer screen cause you find it hard to put yourself in that place but the truth is I don’t have to. I’ve been in numerous situations of which you know nothing and can easily put myself in many others especially when it’s clear how a situation could have been handled on all ends to avoid a media mess.

There were simple agreements that may not have been kept. That is the main part, not their feelings toward each other. As the mother, in a advance, I would need to keep your feelings out of it for a moment and think straight enough to do what I need to do as a competent parent. There are people I would ask to do it for me, set it up, the end. I would have a much easier delivery. If I did my part and not him then I have evidence and no blame. How hard is that? I don’t like him and don’t want him in the delivery room, ok, but I would need to get over myself and whatever hurt feelings I have if I think purposely keeping a willing father from his child is a smart decision and is going to help me in any way especially when I could jeopardize custody matters.

Whatever reason she had if she didn’t contact him like he said is not good enough to me and if she did and he didn’t show up his excuse is not good enough either.

So like I said before, speak for yourself. If you have a hard time finding the facts not rumors and being able to say ‘this is not what I would do. I would handle it this way’ then maybe thats just your problem. I’m not going to speak for others but I know its not mine.

Also just a thought, had he abused her I’m sure potty training and the pool wouldn’t have been the top issues as of late. Neither party is innocent but has there been a reason presented in their case for why he shouldn’t see his children?I haven’t seen any.

Pretty much everyone is quick to pretend to be perfect behind a computer screen regarding what they and others would/should do in various scenarious, especially on this website, but the truth is if you probably don’t know how you would handle the situation until it was happening to you. Those of you who don’t know the truth you really should be ashamed for fueling the gossip flames and spreading worst case scenarios while picking apart this family.

It says a lot when people who actually HAVE had some similar stories like this gave their two cents yet the gossips shoot them down and continue to pick apart Kelly and sometimes Daniel. It shows that some just take joy in gossiping and instigating instead of trying to give the benefit of the doubt in a situation they barely have the truth on. Very sad adults have to act like this toward others.