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Naomi Watts Says Life is 'Chaotic,' Contemplates a Third Child

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Actress Naomi Watts has babies on the brain! Settling into their life as parents to two boys — Alexander ‘Sasha’ Pete, 18 months, and Samuel ‘Sammy’ Kai, 7 weeks — has been no small feat for Naomi and her fiancé, actor Liev Schreiber, as the two often find themselves multi-tasking. Breastfeeding Sammy, Naomi laughs that they have yet to move past the “period where I’m chasing my toddler whilst feeding my baby. You’re nursing and watching your toddler climbing up on a chair or about to pull himself down on to something and it’s pretty nerve-racking.”

Despite the chaos, it only takes one look at her beautiful baby boy for Naomi — who confesses, “I love babies” – to feel a motherly tug at her heartstrings that leaves her hopeful for a baby girl. “I look at this little baby and even after quite an intense birth — they say you have amnesia as women — I would go a third. It would be nice to have a girl,” says the actress. First, however, she must convince Liev, which from the sound of things, may not be so easy!

“But you should see our house. It’s pretty chaotic right now and I keep making fun of Liev because he keeps walking around going, ‘No more babies, no more babies,’ like Rainman or something. We’ve definitely got our hands full right now.”

Click below to read about Naomi’s return to work and how Liev is a hands-on dad!
With life on the home front filled with changing diapers and soothing babies and movie opportunities knocking at the door, Naomi finds herself identifying with the community of working moms, as she feels her levels of guilt stretched in all directions. “And what’s hard is — and I think every woman must feel this – you just feel guilty…guilty that you’re not there for the babies enough. And you also feel guilty that you haven’t given your work as much time as you normally do,” admits the actress. The weight on her conscience comes after a hiatus for Naomi, who, for the past few years, has dedicated herself to starting a family. “I have slowed down. Pregnancy and babies tend to do that. The International is the only film I have done since being a mum,” she says, adding,

“Once I met Liev I felt I wanted more time to myself and for us to spend time together and then the pregnancy and the baby. Then last year he was shooting in Australia and I like to be there, and then I got pregnant again. So that’s kind of how things have gone, but now I do feel like I want to work this year.”

Once the 40-year-old does return to work, she has little to worry about when it comes to leaving her boys with their “fantastic father.” Crediting Liev with being an “incredibly hands-on dad,” Naomi shares that the proud papa is utterly “adored” by Sasha. “In fact, when I’m in the room it’s like I don’t exist,” she notes. However, with a rough and tumble father who also takes time out to fulfill his daddy duties, Naomi admits it’s quite obvious why the rambunctious toddler shows favoritism!

“Daddy plays rough-house. I try to, but I’m just not as fun as daddy. But it’s not just the playtime stuff for Liev. It’s changing diapers, he does everything with me.”

The International is in theaters February 13th.

Source: Entertainment Tonight Canada via PEOPLE, The Daily Telegraph

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I hope they have more… they seem like great parents and I can’t wait to see SAmmy!!!

- Mary on

Another mother lucky enough to be blessed with a child coverting a child of the opposite sex.

Be thankful for the two wonderful little boys you have.

- Renee on

Naomi seems so sweet and level-headed in all of her interviews. I like her. She seems like just a real mom who has a job as an actress. Sammy is adorable!

- Gina on

Renee,

I’m sure Naomi is thankful and over the moon about her two boys. I don’t think that is diminshed by the fact she’d like a daughter.

- jen on

She seems to love her 3 boys (Leiv/Sasha/Sammy) but it’s understandable she would like a girl. Maybe we’ll hear a pregnancy announcement this year? Keep it consistent lol 2007, 2008, 2009

- Mia on

And another poster criticizing another woman for one comment that we don’t know the context of. If there’s one thing that we can be relatively sure of (as sure as we can be of someone we don’t know), it’s that Naomi is totally in love with her boys. She’s given plenty of interviews where she makes that abundantly clear. I see nothing wrong with her saying that a little girl would be nice – it’s true. Little girls are nice too.

Anyway, I have fallen in love with this family through CBB! Sasha is one of the cutest kids out there. He’s got such a serious little face but at the same time seems like such a happy kid. And I think Sasha is a really sweet name for a little boy, but if, when he grows older he decides it’s too “young” he’s always got Alexander to fall back on.

- alice jane on

Renee- did you think that interview came off as though she wasnt grateful to have her two small boys? I got the opposite, that she loves being a mother, but that she has a preference for her next baby. Im sure deep down lots of mothers and fathers have feeling, and there is nothing wrong with it.

- iluvallbabies on

Naomi’s boys are gorgeous. She and Liev are a lovely couple and I wish them all the best. But I can’t believe how many celebs are now having their kids in their forties! It used to be so rare and now we seem to hear about it all the time. I realize we have made medical and technological progress and all but aren’t there still significant risks to both mother and baby at this age? They all make it seem so easy but I highly doubt that it is.

- Myra on

Myra, Im 31 and I have to agree- I haven’t got children, (we are going to try next year), but even then I think Im leaving it a bit late!!

- iluvallbabies on

Here Myra, is a link to a good article for starting off some research on advanced maternal age (the medical term for pregnancy over age 35). You’ve got me interested in the subject! I’m in the same boat as you, iluvbabies, only a wee bit older and not trying yet ;)

- sat on

I think we all have preferences. Why is is not ok to say you want a girl/boy but ok to say you want a child that sleeps well, or loves books like you do, or toilet trains at 2? Isn’t it all much of a muchness? Personally gender is no biggie for me, but I would love to have just one child that didn’t look and act like a replica of my loud, happy, sporty husbad.

- Fevvers on

I’m totally in love with this family. They seem so happy and the kids are really loved!

Renee, I’ve been trying to have my first baby for two years, I take no offense at Naomi saying that she hopes to have a girl someday. I don’t know who wouldn’t want to experience the parenting of both a boy AND a girl.

Myra, I starting trying for a baby at 29. No success yet (at 31). A friend who is 48 has just had her fifth baby (naturally and an accident). These things do happen and there doesn’t seem to be a rhyme or reason for it unfortunately.

I hope we get to see another Watts-Schreiber baby!

- Kirrily on

Renee, for the love of Pete! There is nothing wrong with wanting a child of the opposite sex. It’s not like she loves her boys any less for being boys. I’m sure she’s plenty grateful for her little men. It’s not abnormal to want a child of the opposite sex by any means. It doesn’t make you less of a mother or less of a human being to desire something which you don’t have.

- Harley on

I didn’t see her coming off at all about being ungrateful to have her two little boys. But who after two boys doesn’t dream about a little girl or a mother of two girls about having a boy. I do remember Brooke Burke saying how nice it was to finally have her little man. Was it so wrong for her after 3 daughters to feel a desire to have a son??

I’d love to see Naomi and Leiv with a baby girl someday but even another little man would be nice (and I’m sure they’d agree). But if not she can always adopt!

- JM on

I am pregnant with my second son and I don’t think there is anything wrong with her saying she would like to eventually have a girl. There is nothing wrong with having one of each if that is what you want Renee and I am sure she is thrilled with her little boys.

Personally, i am so happy I am having another little boy but I know that I will eventually want to try for another child and would also love to add a girl to my family. But that doesn’t change any love for my boys!

PS, this family is so cute! I just adore them!

- D on

I’m a bit more annoyed that they had to make a Rainman crack. I love kids too, including my son with autism. Please, Naomi and Liev, continue to have beautiful babies. But it would be nice if you didn’t have to make goofy remarks about disabilities at the same time.

- Sarah on

Well, I have two boys 2 1/2 and 5 and we are going to start trying for our third this spring. I fully admit I hope my next (and final) child will be a girl. Will I be upset or any less happy if I have a third son? Of course not, but I would love to experience parenting a girl as well, and that’s where the desire stems from. It’s pretty natural.

- Brandi on

I agree with Sarah about the Rain Man crack. Rain Man jokes are considered quite offensive in the autism community.

- Christina on

Sarah,

I have TWO sons with autism and let me tell you life is hard enough without looking for things to get upset about like some comment about Rainman. I’m shocked by how sensitive people are about every little thing. So far someone’s been upset about the baby gender thing, the maternal age thing and now the Rainman thing. Do you realize how many posters seem to be looking for things to whine about? Why are you so lonely or angry that you need to reach out in such a negative way to strangers on a celebrity baby site? Can’t you try to be offended by things that are actually offensive? I come here for cute pics of kids, some of you seem to come here to vent.

- PickASmile on

At what point do you give up “trying” for the opposite sex child. Is it after the second child or the sixth? I am from a family of five.. all girls by the way. Love what you have.. these are living creatures not a card collection. Some will be offended but come on people!

- Amy on

My gosh, lighten up about the Rainman comment. I did not get the feeling that it was said in a negative way, just that Liev repeats the same phrase over and over again. With regards to the question, “when to give up” trying for a particular sex…My brother and sister-in-law, finally gave up trying for the boy they so desperately wanted, after 5 girls. With the first birth, I went in the delivery room after the birth and they were still referring to their daughter, as a boy..I had to remind them several times, that it was a girl…By the fifth one, I think they got the message, it just wasn’t meant to be.
This is one family I love reading about…

- Diane on

With so many celebrities resorting to IVF to conceive to have their cake and eat it too….I’m sure they will get to CHOOSE to have their baby girl next.

Its the everyday ordinary people who can’t have ANY children that should take offence at how offhand someone that has just had a baby a few weeks ago is already wishing for another.

BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE

- Renee on

Renee, calm down. I am sure she is very thankful to have her two children. Wishing for another does not make her a bad person. I am guessing that you have struggled to have a baby of your own, and I am truly sorry for that. It’s not fair to struggle for something you want so badly and see others achieve it so easily. I had to watch my neighbor cuddle her second baby who was born just two days after the child I lost would have been due. At the same time a friend from college, who never even wanted kids, also had a baby. But being mad at them doesn’t help me heal and being mad at Naomi doesn’t bring you any closer to achieving your dream.

- finnaryn on

Renee,
You need to calm down. My daughter’s conception was the result of infertility treatment, and after experiencing pregnancy loss.

And you know what? Just a few short weeks after giving birth, even knowing what I had had to go through to just get the one precious little girl I have, I was already looking forward to doing it again! I loved being pregnant and I loved the experience of giving birth to my daughter.

And none of it means I am not eternally grateful for the beautiful little girl who smiles at me everyday.

- Kate on

Renee I think you need a hug :)

- iluvallbabies on

i normally don’t comment on these but i just had to jump in at this one! Renee’- i think you need to calm down and back off! As someone who lost any chance of having a child due to ovarian cancer at age 20 i am not at all offended by this comment! i think its wonderful that she loves being a mother so much that she would want to have another, its pretty obvious from other interviews that she adores being a mother! i am now 26, married for 5 years and i am ready to start a family! i know that it will take a while and i just hope that i am blessed with a child through adoption. but the thought of getting angry or upset at someone else who is able to have a child? that i just cannot wrap my head around!

- elizabeth on

I love Naomi and her family so much, they’re adorable and so sweet. They make me cry because they’re just such a wonderful family. As regards to her wanting another child and a girl, it’s perfectly normal, I only have one son but I’d like another baby, preferably a girl! It’s just nice to have a child from each gender, that’s all. I understand there are people who are sensitive to these things for various reasons, but at the end of the day, that’s life. We’re all humans and have to deal with life as it is- no matter how hard it is.

- babyboopie on

From the sound of it, the Schreiber-Watts household sounds a lot like my own, love-chaos-love :)

PS: I agree, some posters need a hug! Poor things

- Kelpy on

I love Naomi soooo much! i bet her & leiv make wonderful parents! & dont u think Alex/Sacha is the spitting image of hes mother?! hes gorgeous! i wonder who sammy is going to end up lookin like? lol. I really want Naomi to have a little girl! i can see it coming! i reckon Naomi will break Leiv and make him want one in the end! be funny if she had another one this year lol. Valentines day is coming up soon Naomi tehee!
ahh ive gota do a film with this woman its a dream that needs to be fulfilled! lol

- erin on

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