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Niki Taylor: 'I Never Thought I'd Get Pregnant Again'

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It was 2 a.m. as Niki Taylor squinted under the dim light in her bathroom, hoping yet again for the two pink lines indicating “positive” on her latest pregnancy test.

For almost 18 months, the 33-year-old model and her new husband, race car driver Burney Lamar, 28, had been trying to conceive, only to be met with brutal disappointment. “Every month it wasn’t happening,” she recalls. “I was feeling more frantic. I needed to stop thinking about it — everybody was telling me this, including my doctor. I was so frustrated and worried.”

She and Burney each underwent testing — including having dye shot through her fallopian tubes to ensure that they were clear. Niki’s ob/gyn assured the couple that both were fine, and asked them to continue to try for another year.

“I just decided, ‘Whatever,’” the model says. “Clomid was going to be the next thing we tried, in a year. I talked about it with [my manager] and she said, ‘Women were made to have babies. You are still producing eggs. You need to relax. Everything has checked out.’”

Taking her advice, Niki tried her best to re-focus. She began eating and sleeping better, working out and lowering her stress level. Then, she realized “something just felt different” and the model reached for that early morning pregnancy test.

Read Niki’s story and see more photos below.

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Against all odds, Niki and Burney are now readying themselves for their first baby, a daughter due the first week of March. It’s only the latest example of Niki — who found fame at 17 as a Cover Girl model and last year hosted the Bravo reality show Make Me a Supermodel — defying medical expectations: In 2001, she spent six weeks in a coma after a near-fatal car accident that required more than 50 surgeries and procedures to rebuild her shattered body. “It is truly a miracle that pregnancy is possible for a woman who has been through so much,” says her Nashville-based ob/gyn, Roseann Maikis.

A baby is something Niki — who had identical twin sons Jake and Hunter, 14, with her ex-husband, Arena football player Matt Martinez — has longed for since marrying Burney in December 2006.

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By the end of the first date, “we knew we wanted to be together forever,” Niki says; a few days later they tattooed the date (8-15-06) on their ankles. Even that wasn’t permanent enough. “I wanted to put a ring on that finger,” Burney says with a laugh. Adds Niki: “I wanted to be pregnant on my honeymoon!”

Yet Niki knew that given her complicated health background, conceiving a child might be difficult. Having delivered her twins vaginally in December 1994 after being induced, Niki received the prescription painkiller Percocet to aid in her recovery. “I was 19. I was like, ‘I am woman, hear me roar. I can pop them out.’ I went past my due date, and it took a long time. I was in labor until the next day. They did not want to come out,” she recalls.

Although her body healed, Niki was still struggling emotionally. “I tried to breastfeed, but that was a whole other obstacle. I was trying to feed two. They didn’t have electric pumps back then, and I was pumping manually. My biceps got really strong,” she jokes.

More seriously, “I [nursed] for two or three months and then I couldn’t anymore.” With the help of her parents and a nanny, teenage Niki attempted to balance parenting with a return to modeling. “You are supposed to support the family, pay the bills. It was a lot of work,” Niki remembers. “It was emotionally draining, it was physically draining.”

Following the 1995 death of her beloved younger sister Krissy, then 17, from an undiagnosed heart condition and the subsequent break up of her marriage after only two years, Niki began abusing Percocet, first given to her after her boys’ birth. “Everything had started to hit me,” she explains, “and I found someone who would give me Percocet whenever I wanted. I couldn’t do anything without it.”

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A two-month stint in rehab left Niki feeling “good and clean” for the next two years or so. Then, in 2001, she was a passenger in a car that collided with a utility pole on a rainy Atlanta street.

The accident left Niki in a coma, with a lacerated liver and massive internal bleeding; doctors had to rebuild her back by implanting two steel rods to hold her spine together. But Niki says the years of physical trauma had a silver lining: “Now when something difficult comes my way, I can handle it.”

She will need that confidence in the delivery room: Because multiple surgeries left layers of scar tissue across her abdomen, if it becomes necessary to deliver via c-section, doctors may have trouble getting the baby out. (Dr. Maikis has been running tests to evaluate how best to perform such a procedure, including if a vertical or horizontal incision would be best.) “If the baby is breech and I have to have a c-section, I will need to be completely under,” Niki explains.

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In addition, because her spine’s steel rods “are right in the area you would go in for an epidural,” Niki will have to deliver her daughter totally naturally — something she didn’t do the first time around.

Still, she remains optimistic. “You know what? I had the worst pain I could imagine after the accident and surgeries,” she says. “I can do natural childbirth! So many people have been encouraging me … and I’m feeling really strong and optimistic about it. “

Besides, Niki prefers to focus on the more fun aspects of expecting, like turning an office in her and Burney’s four-bedroom French colonial home in Brentwood, Tenn., into a nursery. And every night, Niki attaches a little drum-beat machine around her waist, then sits back and giggles as her daughter kicks.

“I am just really enjoying getting ready for the baby we have wanted so much,” she says. “I am a very blessed girl.”

Source: PEOPLE, January 19th issue, with excerpts exclusive to CBB

– Alicia Dennis

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I am so happy for her! I have always been a huge fan of Niki’s. She has been through so much in her life and it is great to see her so happy! Good for her!

- Tara on

I’m very happy for her. And I might add, that will be one cute baby :) I hope everything goes well with the delivery, and all parties are happy and healthy. Congrats to them.

- Mia on

I have a ton of respect for her, she has been through so much and still has such a great outlook on life. This baby girl is lucky to have her! She seems like a great mom to her boys.

- Jane on

I am so happy for them!

- Mary on

She looks so beautiful! I am so happy for all of them! What a gorgeous family they all are, and I’m sure they’ll get even more gorgeous when that little girl arrives soon! (I can’t believe her handsome boys are 14 already.. where did the time go?)

- Christina on

I must say that it’s always admirable to see someone stay strong and optimistic in the face of adversity. I’m happy for her. : )

But I must say, I wish more people were aware of the fact that not ALL breech babies have to be delivered via cesarean section. There are some instances were they can be safely delivered vaginally. It bothers me that doctors are so quick to offer up c-sections when there are ways around it. And before anyone gets defensive, no, I have nothing against women who have had c-sections. I don’t think it makes you “less of a woman”, but you cannot deny the fact that a c-section is a major abdominal surgery that should be used as a last resort.

Anyway, before I write a book, I’d just like to say congrats to the happy couple and Niki’s sons. This baby girl will be absolutely beautiful.

- Annabel on

I’m very happy for Niki and her family, especially after all the tragedy she has faced.

- SAR on

Wow, God Bless. I wish her the best.

- Sarah on

Wow! I can’t believe her boys are 14! I really did not remember that she was only 19 when she had the twins.

- Emily on

Congratulations to Niki and her family! It is refreshing to see a celebrity who openly discusses fertility issues. These problems are so common and while this is certainly a very personal issue, it would be inspiring if more celebrities were to open up about this and tell about what course of treatment worked for them. Best wishes to her on her expanding family!

- Jessica on

After everything she’d gone through over the years, more than a decade, this has to be a real treat to find out she’s finally pregnant, was able to become pregnant once again. A blessing for her family.

I hope all goes well for the duration, especially during delivery.

- FC on

She was my favorite model growing up-we are the same age. I am so happy for her and that it is a girl since she already has two beautiful and healthy boys. I will pray that her labor and delivery is free of complications and that she can deliver naturally.

- erin h on

As Niki basically says in the article the c-section will be the absoulte last resort due to the fact that it is very serious due to Niki situation.

- JC on

I highly recommend using a doula to help facilitate a natural birth. They really help you through both emotional and physical aspects of birth.

Hope you have a blessed birth…

- Kim on

Re: what Annabel said about breech babies

That’s true. Just because a baby is breech doesn’t mean it automatically has to be delivered via c-section. For instance, me. I was breech, and born vaginally. Obviously, I lived. I’m sure many breech babies were born live and healthy before c-sections were even invented.

If the baby is unusually big, it should probably be born via c-section, and of course if a baby won’t come out even after days of labor, which was the case with my sister’s son, a c-section is necessary.

- SAR on

Wow her sons are gorgeous! I can’t believe they are identical. I think thats so cool they are identical but have their own style and look so people probably never confuse the two. What a cute family. her husband is handsome too!

- bren on

Congrats on her miracle baby, and how wonderful after two sons she gets a little girl. I haven’t seen her sons in years, they really look so much like the dad and not much like Niki.

- Gianna on

I’m not familiar with Niki, but after reading her story I’m so happy for her and her husband. This child is really a blessing!

I have to agree with other posters, a breech baby doesn’t automatically mean a C-section. My mother’s a midwife and they deliver breach babies vaginally all the time (or turn them in utero).

And I have to say I really don’t get this attitude most celebrities seem to have that giving birth without an epidural is impossible. Women have been doing it since humans have been on Earth and in most parts of the world it is still the norm (and I’m including most of Europe here) not a miracle like they are making it sound (of course every birth is a miracle).
I ’love’ it when they say ‘I couldn’t have done it naturally’. Of course you could have if there had been no other option! That’s what women have been created to do. Is it painful and hard? Sure! But not impossible!
(I just want to point out that I don’t have a problem with pain medicine, epidurals, etc. if the woman wants it. That’s what medicine is for, after all.)

- Sanja on

Annabel, my first daughter was breech and I had to deliver her via c-section. I was really upset at the time and I even tried to turn her ( a procedure that was more painful than the c-section itself ) and it didn’t work, so I had the surgery and everything was fine. The father of one of my friends who is an OBGYn and teaches at a major university hospital told me that unfortunately a lot of the new generation OBGYN are not taught how to deliver a breech baby vaginally because it is a little more difficult and can result in complications, and also there are insurance issues involved. So it is not only that people need to have c-section when the baby is breech but that there are not a lot of other options since the practice has changed.
Congrats to Niki Taylor

- Ali on

I hope Niki can deliver vaginally and that the delivery is easy and painless as possible too.

- robinepowell on

I love Niki, as a teenage mother myself, I looked up to her. I would tell myself “Wow, if she can do it with twins, I definitely can handle one!”

- Jasmine C. on

Niki is a very beautiful women. Congratulations to her and her husband. She has been through alot in life. Also is her husband racing this year? I sure hope he is I like him alot too. Seems like a nice guy. Hope to see you in Nascar.

- Debbie on

I am so happy for you. I have followed your career since you started modeling and you are just as beautiful on the inside. God bless you and your family!

- laura on

How cool that she delivered her twins vaginally years before her accident so now she won’t have the added stress (small, so but still with all the other stresses with this, they add up!) of pressuring herself to not have a c-section, not have an epidural, and also get through a VBAC. Most women I know don’t choose vaginal deliveries for twins, so it’s really cool that she did and now can hopefully have an easier delivery the second, no make that third time around!

- emily on

Well, Annabel, Im an OB/GYN herew in Atlanta, and we offer c-sections, because if the mother does deliver vaginally, but the baby’s head gets stuck, we only have about 10 minutes to perform a c-section before the baby suffers brain damage. But she’s been through a lot, and she is definately a strong person! good luck!

- Jackie on

holy moly….she still has so much to go through when it comes to childbirth! she is an amazingly strong and positive woman.

- gigi on

Certainly there are reasons why c-section is an important life-saving procedure. The world we exist in today offers us technology that can mean the difference between life and death. It is, however, overused and women are paying the price in many ways. The art of birth is quickly becoming a lost art, especially among modern women and their doctors. In many states home-birth midwives cannot even assist in delivery of twins, breech, or VBAC. Many of these types of births are safely done at home, and it is a midwife’s job to risk out candidates that could pose complications. There are, however, some remaining states that allow home delivery of breech, twins, and VBAC, and these births most often occur without any problems, saving babies, mothers, and families from unnecessary trauma, separation, and invasive testing. Unfortunately, lack of knowledge about home-birth and occasional misinformation spread by doctors, the media, and uninformed citizens has pushed home-birth to the fringes of normalcy among most circles.

There are many choices for women today who are willing to do the work involved in seeking them out. Unfortunately for some, natural home birth is becoming more and more difficult to attain, even downright illegal. We live in an age of choice and freewill and those choices should be afforded to all. If a woman wants pain medication, wants to birth in a hospital, feels safer with c-section when birth is different than the norm, then she is afforded those options. The same options to birth in the privacy of one’s home, without unnecessary (and sometimes dangerous) intervention should be afforded to women as well. We as women should be given the message that we are capable of birth, with or without drugs and excessive intervention! Our bodies were made for birth. We did not come into the world automatically dependent on obstetricians to birth our babies.

Regarding Niki Taylor, it is possible her birth is better off in a hospital, due to her injuries. It is extremely unfortunate, however, that her doctor is forced to rule out breech delivery (whether by his own choice, lack of knowledge in performing breech, or constraints by insurance companies). A previous poster mentioned that most doctors today don’t even know how to perform breech delivery. It seems unwise to leave out such skills in medical school. There may be a situation where an emergency undetected vaginal breech delivery is necessary, and it seems important that a doctor should have some degree of knowledge in this area. The same would apply to delivering twins or VBAC. These are skills many home-birth midwives have because they don’t have the option of choosing surgery, although a good midwife will always transfer a woman in true need of c-section.

I know this is an excessively long post, however, I felt very strongly about the message. Women deserve more credit in their ability to birth! Once we demand that our caregivers give us choices, they will follow in their ability to offer them. It is not a hopeless situation, but rather one dependent on the voice of women.

- Therese Turner on

Regarding my previous post, I wanted to add:

“If a woman wants pain medication, wants to birth in a hospital, feels safer with c-section when birth is different than the norm, then she is afforded those options. The same options to birth in the privacy of one’s home, OR IN A HOSPITAL without unnecessary (and sometimes dangerous) intervention should be afforded to women as well. A WOMAN SHOULD FEEL COMFORTABLE IN HER DOCTOR’S (OR MIDWIFE’S) PRUDENT USE OF INTERVENTION AND HIS/HER ABILITY TO PERFORM BIRTHS DIFFERENT FROM THE NORM (BREECH, TWINS, VBAC). We as women should be given the message that we are capable of birth, with or without drugs and excessive intervention! We did not come into the world automatically dependent on obstetricians AND/OR INTERVENTIONS to birth our babies.”

- Therese Turner on

The OB/GYN in Atlanta posted that if a head gets stuck during breech delivery, there are only ten minutes remaining for c-section or brain damage will result. That is an example of scare tactics and failing to present all the information. There are instances where this scenario may be true, however, making such a statement is not hard and fast science. Performing episiotomy is an example of an intervention that can facilitate in delivery of the head in a breech baby that has become stuck, avoiding the more dramatic intervention of c-section. Breech delivery is an important part of maternal care in countries such as Canada, Germany, Norway, Belgium, United Kingdom, Netherlands, Australia and New Zealand, all of which have better maternal and infant mortality rates than the United States. They would not be promoting safe breech delivery where appropriate, if it were not safe!

- Therese Turner on

Seriously people–I came here expecting to see positive comments about Nikki–not when Csections are and aren’t okay, or home births, pain medications, and especially not the novel written by Terese. She’s had a whole lot happen to her in her 33 short years. How about a little congratulations and excitement for a woman who very clearly is thrilled to be expecting.

- Angie on

It is not my intention to offend anyone. I simply thought the article brought up some timely issues in the area of birth.

This is a joyous time for Niki Taylor, and I wish her the very best birth possible. I would think that my thoughts would indicate an interest for her and all women, not a desire to bring anyone down, or absence of joy over Niki’s impending birth.

My words were meant to address the (possibly) unnecessary concerns and restrictions she may be facing in the journey of birthing her baby, and how these same restrictions and shortcomings in U.S. maternal health care affect us all.

Nobody is forced to read these comments, or agree with them. I am not trying to incite anger, only thought.

- Therese Turner on

Thank you, Angie. I don’t understand why c-sections and breastfeeding comments automatically mean super long and cranky posts about how one way is better than the other. This isn’t a birthing or mommy site, but a celebrity site.

With that said, I hope everything works out for Nikki and her family.

- HeavenlySmiles on

I don’t know much about Niki Taylor but she has been through so much in her life and I am so happy she is getting this baby she so desperately wanted! She is a beautiful lady with some gorgeous sons and an equally gorgeous husband!

I hope everything goes well for her labor and delivery. It’s a scary thing to be faced with but Niki is a very strong individual and this baby is going to be extremely well-loved!

- Stephany on

I find Niki Taylor’s honesty refreshing. She has overcome so many obstacles. I remember her and her sister being on the covers of my old Seventeen magazines. I wish her the best of luck with her upcoming delivery.

The ultimate goal for any mother giving birth should be a safe and healthy baby! I think many mothers today are over-focused on their birth experience that they forget that ultimate goal. Ms. Taylor has a complicated medical history and only her and her doctors know the details. I don’t think anyone on here can comment on whether or not she should or should not have a c-section. Like them or not, c-sections are necessary at times. And having one doesn’t make a woman less of a mother or less of a woman.

- JJS on

IT goes to show you that you can have children after having 2 medal
rods put in your spine.. and after several miscarriages.. The boys
look great in the band..!! Wonder if they are in a real one..

Their stepfather looks young.. who knew that she was only 33 years old..

- Jared Snyard on

I feel like some posters did not see what Niki was trying to say. She said that if she “should” need a c-section, it will be very difficult for the doctors due to the layers of scar tissue they will have to get through to reach the baby. And for a vaginal due to the rods in her back and epidural is not possible. Which would mean if she does need a c-section she will have to have general sedation. I am so happy for her, and I understand how hard it is when it takes a while to conceive.

- Dana on

What a fantastic story to hear she has been able to conceive naturally and hopefully the birth will be as relaxed as she seems to be be with this whole process
Now that its confirmed “girl” I wonder of she may cal her after her sister Krissy or something with using the Kris/Chris name?????

- Kellie from Qld,AUSTRALIA on

Congrats to Niki, hopefully everything goes well with her pregnancy and delivery.

I am almost afraid to open up CBB articles because I KNOW there will be a lecture on either breastfeeding or c-sections. I delivered my 9 lb breach baby by c-section. I was not going to take a risk of injuring him during delivery. I wish posters wouldn’t feel like they need to “educate” other CBB readers on the subject. There is plenty of info out there. If someone is capable of reading CBB, they are equally as capable of reading research related to the subject.

- Martina on

i have apparently been living under a rock because i had NO IDEA that she was the mother of twins, let alone 14 year old twins! bravo, niki, you’re doing well. i wish you a strong, powerful, positive birth. yes, you are woman & i can hear you roaring from here! you can do it, mama. in the small chance that your baby is breech, you can try external version or moxabustion to turn her head-down. or, you can deliver in warm water to keep the air off of baby’s skin, which stimulates the breathing reflex. good luck, mama!

- I-dra on

I can see both sides of the “argument” (if you can really call it that), here. My mother was breech, but was succesfully delivered vaginally (and the sole “complication”-if you can call it that, was that my grandmother ended up with at least one tear, which was, thankfully, quite minor. However, tears tend to happen even with non-breech vaginal deliveries.). Of course, she also weighed just over 5lbs at birth, so that probably made things easier as well!

I was also breech…But was born via C-section. In my case, my mother and I almost certainly would have died if not for the C-section. I was transverse (sideways) breech, the one type of breech that absolutly cannot be delivered vaginally. I am very pro-vaginal birth, but I’m also not against C-sections that are medically neccesary. Sometimes a breech baby DOES make a C-section medically neccesary.

- CelebBabyLover on

Congrats to Niki and Burney! She has been through so much emotionally and physically. This baby is a miracle. God bless them :)

- Cheryln Ayala on

I know of Niki by name only, and I vaguely remember hearing that she had twins (I recognised their names mainly), but I had no idea that she had been through so much. It never rains but it pours for some people! I would like to send my warmest congratulations to her and her family, they deserve a new ray of sunshine in their family. What an inspirational woman, a true fighter. I can’t wait to see her surely gorgeous little girl.

- phoebe on

I believe the reason american women are denied some of the home birth and other options noted by many of the posters is that America is a very lawsuit happy country, and doctors are trying to protect themselves.. their insurance rates are really high already so what would you have them do differently – if they don’t give you every scenario in the book, they might get sued.. so they protect themselves by having the expecting mom in a hospital with the options they feel least risky as the only options.

- Serilda on

Nikki, congratulations on your baby girl.
As a mother of 5 children, last 3 birthed naturally, my one and only piece of advice for the best start to labour is DO NOT get induced!! Please read everything you can on induction and how babies are all made differently and they all chose their own irthdays. Be as patient as you can, treasure each day she is inside you. She will pick the day that suits her best, when she is ready.

All the best :)

- Grace on

i wish u luck with your family :)

- jordan on

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