Comments on: Kelly Rutherford Belts Her Bump

By: SarahSings

SarahSings — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 23:55:45 +0000

I like Courtney Cox’s view on divorce. It’s not an option so she has to find a way to work out problems with David. When you don’t give yourself an easy out, you’re more likely to work through the hardships.

I think what’s bothersome about Kelly is that her first marriage lasted a few months and this one less than two years. She either doesn’t view marriage as a lasting commitment or has bad taste in men.

I am also bothered by how no one wants to judge someone for getting divorced while pregnant and after less than two years of marriage, YET they are comfortable judging people’s clothing, baby names, csections, and oh, don’t start a conversation about breastfeeding… It seems weird that CBB posters can’t put themselves in someone else’s shoes when it’s divorce but, if a celebrity doesn’t put a jacket on their kid, posters have no trouble complaining. Just a sign of the bizarre thought process of many posters.

By: Lis

Lis — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 19:43:33 +0000

Kendra, I completely agree with you. Divorce is just WAY, WAY, WAY too common anymore. I just don’t think anyone really takes marraige that seriously in today’s society, which makes me very, very sad.

And 99% of the time, people file using “irreconcilible differences” as the problem – which, to me, is just a fancy, more polite way of saying that you don’t want to work out your problems.

It just seems likes people give up too quickly. And I know that divorce is a touchy subject, and believe me, there certainly ARE cases that people definitely should get a divorce. But for the most part…I think people take the eay way out…

By: Terri

Terri — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 14:53:15 +0000

I hope that she’s holding up okay.

By: kaya

kaya — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 12:56:01 +0000

I agree it’s weird to make those assumption… who knows. it’s sad, but it’s not new either. She looks very pretty! I hope she’s doing well:)

By: Aya

Aya — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 11:22:54 +0000

I blame divorce after the holidays on all those visits/dinners from expanded family lol…For me Christmas is alawys fused with eggnog..presents and how much everyone wishes I had married a doctor or how attractive/slim I USED to be…lol

I understand wanting to work it out and I understand breaking up. Its what is best for the children and yourself.I always said I never wanted to be in a loveless marriage just keeping it together for the children and I never wanted to be in a marriae where I am too in love with the person to leave, even though I know they are bad for my kids.Its a balance that is sometimes so difficult to find.And i’m sure pregnnacy hormones and the scrutiny of the media is not helping.

Also (i’m not saying this is the case in this situation), I don’t understand why some couples think that when their marriage is on the rocks, having a baby will save it.

By: kendra

kendra — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 11:12:36 +0000

I didn’t mean to be judgemental. I don’t know anything about this particular couple as I tried to point out. This swarm of divorces and break-ups (and not only in Hollywood) just has made me think about the problems in general. People just don’t seem to commit. One big fight and you break up.

I’m not saying that every couple who ends up divorcing has just given up but everyone knows that divorces are becoming more and more common.

By: Hea

Hea — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 10:00:08 +0000

Oh please, people. Things happen. Bad things happen. She will be alright, he will be alright and the kids will be just fine. It is not the end of the world. It’s sad, yes, but we don’t know what happened. If it’s too much for them to deal with together, then they are absolutely right to go their separate ways. It will be the best for all of them and I’m sure happiness lies ahead.

By: gianna

gianna — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:56:04 +0000

Her first marriage lasted only a few months, too bad this 2nd one couldn’t last especially considering kids are involved, No celebrity divorce surprises me though, i’m more surprised when a couple last longer than 5 yrs married in hollywood.Oh well hopefully they can get along decent because 2 babies are involved.

By: katie

katie — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:49:05 +0000

Who is to say she didn’t think the relationship was stable? We don’t know the details so it is wrong to be so judgemental.

By: Patterson

Patterson — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:15:31 +0000

Having a baby isn’t a reason to stay together when it’s the only reason. I have no idea why anyone would assume they didn’t try to work it out. What a bizarre assumption on a stranger’s life.