I’m disappointed that Celebrity Baby Blog posts stories about cheating couples. I know it’s a fact that these things happen, but it is still a sad situation. I’m happy they have healthy children, but unimpressed with the ‘affair’.

I believe she’s talking about disciplining her stepkids.

My guess is that since she’s still not officially their stepmom, in addition to how often she sees them, not to mention then you add in their ages and not wanting to overstep their mother’s bounds by assuming she knows how SHE would handle it, she’s leaving primary discipline to Lloyd.

She did say she does the little things… a timeout or so, when she’s the only one there.

I really feel that it’s about the stepkids because her baby is too young for much in the way of a punishment and she’s probably just being sensible and not trying to be a parent to them yet.

Instead, she’s taking it slow and being more like a nice aunt would be and letting the relationship mature into them seeing her as a parent.

After all, no one wants to hear a child screaming that you can’t tell them what to do because they aren’t your mommy.

Better to set up a nice base of respect by having their biological parent support the step-parent in the behavior being wrong and then lead the way in how discipline for them is done and then go from there.

I’m a stepmom, and if my husband and his son’s mom are comfortable leaving their child alone with me, then they should be comfortable with me handling discipline in their absence. I’m not the babysitter. And I feel like it’s unfair to put issues on hold until my husband gets home to deal with them. It’s not fair to my husband, and it’s not fair to my stepson. To me, it would almost feel like I was sending the message that I didn’t care enough about my stepson to deal with the “bad” as well as the “good”.

I just have to say that I do not think it is appropriate for a step-parent to be the main disciplinarian; since those boys are Lloyd’s, he should take the lead in that area.
Lastly, according to Lloyd’s ex-wife, he told her that his relationship with Kristy began while they were still married and she was very much pregnant. Kristy has always maintained that Lloyd and his wife were separated when they got together so I guess you have a he said/she said situation. I choose to believe Lloyd’s ex-wife as Lloyd would not be the first man to hook up with his co-star while away from his wife and family.

Also, I read on the internet that a year or so ago, Kristy was arrested for assaulting Lloyd’s ex but the charges were later dropped so the rosy picture that Kristy is painting of herself and Lloyd’s relationship is far from accurate.

Just a note…it is spelled San Luis Obispo. There is no “o” in Luis. =) And it is a LOVELY part of CA.

From the comments his ex-wife made, she must have not known they were separated.

Tonya

Lloyd and his wife had already separated when he and Kristy started dating. His ex was pregnant when they separated…

Their wedding sounds very nice.

Becky, she is talking about her role is disciplining her stepsons. I agree with her – it’s not her place to take care of the major things. The boys already have a mom and a dad.

I still just can’t stomach these two. I guess it’s because I’m not fond of cheaters. I still feel sorry for his wife, showing up on the set of Skating with Celebrities to visit her husband all while he’s doing the deed with his skating partner.

Their son is adorable though.