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Update: Introducing Stella Doreen McDermott

Torispellingok27_cover_noupc_cbbUpdate: Additional quotations added.

Originally posted June 25th: When Stella Doreen McDermott came into the world on June 9th, mom Tori Spelling shared that she had two thoughts: "She is so beautiful" and "She has black hair! Where did that come from?!" Expecting another child to look like blonde, fair 15-month-old son Liam Aaron, Tori and husband Dean McDermott instead met the tan, dark-haired Stella. It was just another surprise their daughter had in store for them — even her conception was unexpected, the actress explained.

She’s a miracle. I was on one pill andwasn’t feeling well, so I went off of it. Two days later, the doctorput me on another, and on that one day, we conceived. It was meant tobe!

More from the interview and link to another photo below!

Dean, 41, echoed his wife’s statements of wonder and joy at thebirth, revealing that he "bawled his face off" when she arrived, "outof pure joy."

There is nothing like it — you feel it that moment. It hit me like aton of bricks. Little boys are awesome. They’re just like a little you.But having a little girl is something else. As a man, you just lose it.

Although Tori, 35, had a scheduled c-section to deliver Stella, now 2-weeks-old, she wants to make clear that it is not all sunshine and rainbows and certainly not her first choice. She "was more nervous" to deliver this time, knowing what to expect after Liam’s emergency c-section delivery in 2007, which occurred because of a failure to progress after hours of labor. Stressing that "it’s major surgery," Tori explained her thoughts on the topic.

Regular birth seems easier to me than having your whole stomach cutopen. I always read people are like, "Oh, C-sections are so Hollywood! Allactresses do them." Do you know what a C-section entails? They basically cutyou open, remove your insides to get the baby out and literally put youruterus on your stomach and then put it back in. It’s pretty crazy…

One of the downsides of the surgery is no physical activity or heavy lifting for six weeks — not being able to pick up Liam is "killing me," Tori said. She’s also not looking forward to losing the weight, although she did gain less than with her first pregnancy.

With my first pregnancy, I lost the weight on the NutriSystem program, and it was great. But I didn’t go right back [to my old shape]. It took me a good seven months. I did it the right way, but I hate working out. I’m breastfeeding right now, so that gives you a little time to say, "I don’t have to diet."

Since the birth of their daughter, there has been one small problem — Dean and Tori can’t decide which parent Stella looks like. Tori shared, "I think she looks exactly like Dean," but says, "he’ll tell you otherwise." This conundrum is nothing new for the pair, who went through the same questioning process 15 months ago.

That’s how we were with Liam too, though. I think it’s hard to see yourself in your child. Now I see a lot of Liam in me. Stella purses her lips like me. She has my lips, definitely. but I think from the nose up, it’s Dean. [laughs] Lips down is me.

Speaking of Liam, he’s not too excited about his new sister, Tori laughs. The day they brought Stella home, "he had this look on his face. And I could see his thought process: "Oh my god! She’s here, she’s ours, she’s staying!" However, her oldest brother, 9-year-old Jack, is more enthusiastic, despite their 3,000 mile distance. Tori shared, "It’s really hard for us and for him. He’s really excited. He loves Liam, so I’m excited for him to see Stella." "We talk on the phone everyday," Dean continued. "He’s always asking how Liam, Stella, and "T" are."

Geography plays a bigpart in it. Obviously, it’s hard being 3,000 miles away. But he’s mynumber one son, he always will be. I had a conversation with him theother day, and I said, "Thanks, buddy." He was like, "What are youthanking me for?" I said, "Thank you for teaching me how to be adad."   

Tori, who "never thought" she’d have a daughter, was convinced that"because I’m so girly-girly, I’ll have all boys." With the birth of herbaby girl, the actress is enjoying the new wardrobe choices, putting Stella inan array of dresses for her first photoshoot, featured in OK! this week! One choice that wasn’t so easy was choosing a name. Although they decided on Liam immediately after discovering the sex, settling on a girl’s name was a much tougher dilemma. "It took us forever," Tori explained. "We had one of those5,000 baby name books, went through it page by page. Nothing wasworking." Finally, success!

I used to be obsessed with the book Great Expectations, andEstella was the main character. So I told that to Dean and he was like,"That’s a great name." We were kind of playing back and forth, callingher Estella. It wasn’t fitting, though. And then one day, Dean waslike, "What about Stella?" I said, "That’s it!"

So is this it for Spelling-McDermott babies? The couple says we may be able to expect one more, because they "like making babies."

T: I always said I’d be happyhaving one of each, and I still maintain that. But I wouldn’t mind havingthree.

D: Definitely. Three seems to be the magic number. But you never knowwith us, because we’re that wacky and in love and can’t keep our hands offeach other. We may have a full hockey team…

See another image of Stella here!

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Source: OK! Weekly; Large cover and additional quotes for use on The Celebrity Baby Blog courtesy OK!.

Thanks to everyone who emailed!

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OMG she is GORGEOUS!!!! l baby What a beautiful baby girl!!!!

- tink1217 on

So Cute. She doesn’t look anything like Liam. Maybe when she gets a little older. I love the picture where Liam is kind of peeking around at them :)

- Melissa on

hmmm… sounds like tori (and ok magazine!) aren’t so sure of how the pill works. though every conception is a miracle, it is not surprising that it happened right after or during a pill switch :)

- k on

Awww, she’s cute! Liam looks like his mom, you can really see the resemblance. Stella doesn’t really look like anyone, but then, it’s hard to tell sometimes with newborns.

- SAR on

She is really cute but I don’t see this head full of beautiful black hair..absolutely not.

- Eleonora on

Elenora, the article says she had the hair when she was born, maybe it fell out within the last two weeks? Stella is very cute! I appreciate Tori’s honesty about her c-sections and her getting pregnant by accident – I’ve been there myself!

- SM on

Aww..Stella is so precious! What wonderful pics of the family. The one of Liam peeking around behind them is so cute!

- Kelly on

Oh my, SM calm down lol
I said she is a very cute baby but I just don’t see all these hair..That’s all.

- Eleonora on

What an adorable family….Stella is a cutie. I can see her being a girly-girl just like her Mom.

- jashmom on

Elenora, huh? I wasn’t not calm, I was saying what could have happened since the same did to both my boys. We can respond to each others comments, rights? I am confused as to your response…I was not being negative to you or in any way.

- SM on

K…I agree with you! Every baby is a miracle. Surprise or planned, either way! Stella is very cute though.

- Allison on

my uterus stayed inside me during the c section i believe. they make the incision and remove the baby and sew you back up? am i wrong?

- lele on

She is gorgeous! I’m so happy for Tori and her family.

- Stephany on

Does anyone know the make of that CUTE sundress the baby is wearing??

- elisabeth on

This sounds a lot like what my mom went through when she had me. She couldn’t believe I was born with a head of dark hair after having my brother 3 years earlier be born with very light strawberry blonde hair!! But I don’t know why it was such a shock considering my dad had very dark hair I guess she was just expecting me to come out looking like my brother (and her)!! But after about 9 months my hair started to fall out and I did end up getting a little bit lighter so it can still happen for Stella as well!! I also know a family whose one daughter looks like a spitting image of the father (dark hair, skin, brown eyes) and the daughter looks just like the mother (red hair, freckles, blue eyes) they don’t even look like they’re sisters! It’s fun to have mix of both parents in your children! Stella is beautiful but looks more like Dean in that photo.

- J.M. on

lele- They actually do remove your uterus and set it on your stomach. Both of our children had to be c-sectioned and for the first delivery my Mom went in the O.R. b/c my husband would’ve passed out. For the record he made it in the second time :) Anyway my Mom saw my uterus sitting on my stomach, lol! Ick. I wouldn’t have known they did that either if my Mom didn’t tell me about it.

It’s pretty crazy what all a c-section entails and so Tori is right. It’s tough and I was definitley more scared as she said the second time around. The first time I didn’t have to spend 9 months thinking about being sliced open, I had like 10 minutes to think about it, lol. The second I had 9 long months! I hope b/c of her comments this doesn’t turn into one of the infamous CBB vaginal vs. c-section debates.

I watched their reality show last year and I didn’t care much for them. It seemed like the nanny always had Liam, but in all fairness to them I only watched a handful of episodes. I’ve been watching their show this season and I love Tori and Dean! Last nights episode was so hilarious and even my husband was cracking up. I’m now a fan of these two! And I do NOT mean this in a nasty way, but in photos I never thought Liam was very cute. BUT after watching him on the show he’s so stinkin adorable!! Very cute little boy.

As far as her miracle comment all children are miracles. But for OK to call Stella a miracle baby girl is kind of a punch in the gut for those of us who’ve had to struggle with infertility for years and go through drugs and treatments and lots of heartbreaks and tears to finally conceive. I make get some backlash for saying that but that’s okay. I’m not saying it to dimiss that Tori got her little girl and for her that’s a tremendous blessing. I’m just referring to the conception itself with regards to it being called a miracle.

Congrats to Tori, Dean, Jack and Liam!! Love this family and I know Tori will not repeat the hurts from her childhood :)

- heather on

Awww i don’t like the second pic (on the people page) it looks like little liam is saying ‘Hey guys remember me??’. Kind of a perfect picture of new sibling envy! lol

- tabby on

may i suggest a basics birth control explanation as a follow up article to this? if she had sex while missing birth control pills she was not using contraception and could get pregnant. it shouldn’t be a surprise and i’d hate for other women to be confused on the issue.

- meghan on

my hair was black when i was born and i was bruised so i looked really dark unlike my white-blonde haired sister. My mum was like ‘you sure this is my kid?’
Within a couple of weeks my colour was paler and my black hair had fallen out and grew back white-blonde like my sisters. – maybe this will happen to Stella.
She sure is cute

- Clair on

Heather, I think they said miracle baby because she thought for sure it would be a boy because she wants a girl so bad to not be like her mom to her daughter and because Dean only has boys so she didn’t think she would ever get her girl so I think maybe that’s what they were talking about but I see what your saying too, it’s not like they tried hard to conceive ;) and Tabby, I thought the same thing! It’s a cute picture of everyone but my first thought was aww, poor Liam, they are turning their back on him, which obviously is not true, it’s just how the picture appears. Anyway…Cute cute cute little girl! I am happy they got their little girl. Little girls are soooo much fun and I must ad…SO fun to dress!!

- Becky on

I find it sad and despicable that Dean is playing this off as his first daughter when he HAS a daughter with his first wife who he left for Tori right after their little (adopted) girl arrived. Some man. Some father.

- Amy on

They only take your uterus out occasionally. It’s not the standard. I’ve seen sections where they do take it out and others where they don’t. Most of the time they don’t.

- alexp on

Stella looks like a little doll. not as chubby as Liam was. they seem really happy.

i’m super glad for them and i like them a lot. they seem really silly and genuinely in love with each other.

- Abbey on

When I had my c-section, I had excessive bleeding so they took my uterus out to make sure that they hadn’t missed anything and then put it back in. My husband watched the whole thing.

- Shan on

Wow, she looks JUST like Dean… I know these little ones change all the time as they grow, but to me, her face, nose and how her eyes ar so close together reminds me of him.

- Keila on

Why can’t every baby be viewed as a miracle and a surprise?! The chances of getting pregnant each month even for fertile couples is only 20%. My husband and I recently found out that we were expecting and while it was our first month trying after having my IUD out, I am certainly surprised. Every baby is a miracle and a gift. And of course, it made be more special to those who have to try harder, but no more miraculous!

- Hannah on

Congrats…Stella is a cutie pie!

- tan on

It sounds like Tori & Dean need to take a refresher course in birth control if she really doesn’t understand how she was able to conceive during the pill switch. lol.

Also, while it’s good that little Stella was born whole and healthy, I can’t help but think about Dean’s first daughter (the one he gave up any claim to shortly after adopting her then leaving his wife for Tori.) I can almost understand the rationale of doing so because maybe this was something his ex-wife requested, BUT I can’t understand how any person can know of then have a baby for several weeks and decide to give her up because you decided to leave your marriage.

I know Tori and Dean are pretty popular on this site but I can’t help but think about Dean’s first family as well.

- Erica on

just watched mine… no uterus on my stomach. just an incision and baby out, placenta out, sewn back up.

- lele on

What I do not understand is the episode of there reality show when they are in Scottland Tori thinks she is pregnant, Liam is only like 3 months old and she takes a pregnancy test and starts crying when it is negative. She then says to Dean she wants another really soon because she does not want them far apart in age and he says lets start trying right now and she says “you promise?” so it seems this was not such a huge surprise as she was pregnant shortly after.

P.S glad she got her little girl she really wanted one.

- elisabeth on

Every tabloid out there seems to forget his other son. You don’t seem to hear about him much in their reality show which is about their everyday life. Quite sad. If I was famous I would be sheltering my kids from the camera not proudly showing them off. I guess to each his own and I wish them luck in “Hollywood”…. Just keep it real and remember what is really important in life.

- sue on

I wanted to say I agree with Heather, who posted above.

All children are miracles. No question. But missing a pill or switching pills does not equate a miraculous conception. It’s completely understandable how Tori might feel that way. But to those of us who are struggling to have children and battling infertility, it’s just not the same. To hear her say that is like a dagger to my heart. If only it could be that easy.

But Stella is adorable!

- fran on

ok, once and for all…somebody explain what happened with the adoption of the little girl between his ex wife and him??? I thought that was one of the reasons they split besides him falling for Tori? He did not want to adopt her? I haven’t heard the entire story.

I am so happy for Tori. I saw the new season of their show the other day and she was talking to her friend about her mom and their relationship and she was just so upset and crying. I know she feels so blessed to have had this baby girl. And to have her “monkey” Liam.

- tink1217 on

Tink from what I remember it was part of the divorce agreement that Dean would withdraw from the final adoption process. I don’t know if that was Dean or Mary Jo’s decision, or mutual. I imagine it was hard on everyone.

Stella is just so cute!

- SM on

she is gorgeous and so is liam they look NOTHING LIKE TORI

- naomi on

Stella is such a cuutiee!! Glad all went well and I love the photo of the family together. And yea..I agree with other posters that ALL children are miracles regardless.

- J.J. on

THX SM, that is what I thought too. I know Tori and Dean did not meet and fall in love under the best circumstances and that they were both married. BUT…something HAD TO be wrong with both their relationships for them to fall for each other. I don’t say it was right for either of them. Not at all, I know the feeling of being cheated on. Its awful and when there are children involved in Dean’s case…its even harder. It seems to me that Tori and Dean are made for each other, they seem to really love each other so much, and they have 2 gorgeous children together. Plus Dean has his older son too. I am really happy for them and I think they are a wonderful family.

- tink1217 on

It amazes me sometimes how cold-hearted some people can be! On a baby-related blog! Comments like “A dagger to my heart” and “a punch in the gut” in response to someone else’s happiness are really uncalled for and reek of bitterness and envy. What is wrong with Tori calling her little girl a miracle if she wants to? Jeez, ALL babies are miracles and it should be noted that parenthood is NOT an inalienable right guaranteed by the constitution!

I think the negativity expressed by a few of the commenters here, based on any couple’s ability to conceive, is misplaced and hurtful – and just maybe some positive energy would result in some “miraculous” happenings in your own life!

- Chicki on

I agree that the magazine & Tori & Dean need a refresher course on birth control pills. Your doctor will tell you to use a second form of contraception for a month when switching pills. If knowing that, they decided not to, how is her conception a “miracle”? It’s not like she had a hard time getting pregnant. I think that must be offending to those women who DO have trouble getting pregnant. The baby looks like a doll, not a real baby, in the picture on the cover.

- Tracy on

Yeah the miracle title on the mag through me for a loop too after I read it I was like wait why is she a miracle what happened? And I agree all children are miracles and it’s okay for Tori to think that but technically I think it’s more or less she’s just nice and fertile and there really was no miracle only in the fact that she ended up pregnant because she was off birth control!!

- J.M. on

I think you need to have experienced real infertility to fully understand the discomfort with the term “miracle baby girl” to describe Tori’s baby. That doesn’t mean you can’t be happy for her at the same time.

- paula on

Ah I was hoping Tori’s first baby pictures would appear in People magazine!! Oh well little Stella is just too precious and it’s probably too early to decide who she looks like yet :)

- Manda on

Of course she’s a miracle. Tori’s an actress, and actresses love drama. Every child is a “miracle”, every new lover is “the love of my life” or my personal favorite, my “soulmate” on and on and on.

I am not a Tori fan and like her husband even less. As for Dean’s comments “we can’t keep our hands off each other and are so in love..” Sorry, but I wouldn’t trust that guy as far as I could throw him. While whatever happened between him and his first wife is between them, giving up a child you originally agreed to adopt, well I think that speaks volumes for his character.

Made for each other, absolutely!

- Shay on

Tori can refer to her baby as a miracle if she so chooses. Stella is a beautiful little girl and congratulations to the whole family. And it is unusual to get pregnant after going off the pill for only one day, not impossible, but unusual. Especially since it usually takes a while after going off the period for it to be ready for conception. Again, not impossible, but unusual.

- terri on

Stella is a beautiful little baby girl. That’s sweet that they named her middle name after Dean’s mother. ♥

- SouthernBelle on

Oh my, we conceived our child in a way as unlikely as Stella was conceived !
I wa sput on “the pill” and after like 5 days my blood pressure reached alarming heights, so my Gyn told me to put them away and keep off them… ah well and just the night before that…. well, our 2nd son was definitely meant to be born (I had a very rough pregnancy with stress asthma, allergies and the loss of his undiagnosed twin in the 8th week…)

Congrats on your little miracle baby, Tori and Dean ! (I think she looks a bit like her daddy in that cover pic,… but then, so many newborns do lol)

- kiki on

AWW!!! Such a cute little baby!!! I can’t wait to see more pics of this beautiful family!!!

- Sarah on

She is absolutely gorgeous!! ♥ Can’t wait to get my hands on this issue! =)

- Erin on

Speaking as someone who had “real” fertility problems, meaning I had to see an RE, undergo invasive testing, and undergo treatment to get pregnant…

I’m not in the least bit offended by her calling her daughter her miracle baby.

- Kate on

Although I stated I am not offended by Tori saying her daughter was a miracle, I do find Chicki’s post rather insensitive.

I can see how some women/couples with fertility problems can be overly sensitive, but to call them bitter and to imply that being more positive and nice might help them get pregnant is offensive and more hurtful than any of the negative posts I have read here.

Until you’ve experience the pain and confusion of infertilty, it’s best to not judge any one woman’s experience or feelings as right or wrong.

- Kate on

Kate, ITA…I was thinking the same thing but was not able to put it quite so eloquently.

- paula on

Let me just say,Stella is SOOOO CUTE!!
I would like a little info though.I am pregnant with my 2nd child [miscarried on the first] but i have no idea which way to go with the birth. My mother had a c-section with me, and thinks that I should do it that way. Although I am terrified of getting cut open,not to mention it would be gross to look down and see my sewn up, to me, yet, and excuse me if you disagree, a c-section to me seems easier and not to mention faster. Yet I was reading some posts from above i doubt that I would be able to have a c-section know that they would take my uterus out.That would gross me out.
Yet while my mother is voting for the c-section, my mother-in-law thinks that i should have a vaginal birth. She had 5 boys, all vaginal, and said that she wouldn’t have had it any different.
I was just wondering if someone could give me a little info, because I have heard horror stories from both sides.
On a different note, Stella is beautiful.I’m so happy for all of them. Tori and Dean have their little girl and Liam has a little sister.

- abi on

I believe the comments to do with the pill and being surprised at getting pregnant have to do with the fact that while yes, most doctors and midwives will tell you to use a back up method just in case you miss a pill or switch pills, if you are on the pill and you want to try to conceive, most doctors and midwives will caution that it can take upwards of three months after going off the pill to conceive because your hormones are still trying to balance themselves out and your cycle may not be regular for a few months.

- Cait on

I have experienced pregnancy that came easily to me twice and now I am experiencing recurrent miscarriages and we are doing IVF hoping all the meds will help us. I have been on both ends of the spectrum and I didn’t think Tori had any less right to call her baby a miracle than someone who had fought long and hard to have a child and maybe had infertility problems. EVERY child is a miracle. We as women should be supportive of each other, not cutting each other down like I see so much here when it comes to certain topics. Its a shame IMO that we cannot celebrate babies like this site is meant to do.

- tink1217 on

Kate, I’m sorry that you disagree with me, and after posting I realized it sounds harsh but people’s negative comments on “happy, joyful” subjects regarding children and family really bother me sometimes.

I have known and heard of a LOT of women who find news of a close friend, family member or coworker’s pregnancy VERY difficult to take and allow these feelings of resentment (i.e. bitterness) overcome their emotions – all because they want children of their own. Whether you want to believe it or not, these feelings ARE based on envy and jealousy because people feel they are “entitled” to have children, and can’t understand why it’s not happening for them. I’ll reiterate my belief that all babies are miracles and that sometimes it may take one couple longer than another to achieve the desired result (if it happens at all), but hearing about someone else’s joy and internalizing it as your own sadness is counterproductive in my opinion. My whole point is that a positive attitude goes a long way in affecting your emotional and physical health; maybe letting go of some of the negativity and hurt will help in the long run.

- Chicki on

What a cutie pie!

My daughter was born with a full head of dark hair, but as it started to fall out, blonde hair started to come in!

- Ilovemybabies on

My son was born with very dark hair, not much but dark and 6 months later his hair turned a yellow blond and today as an adult, his hair is almost black. Figure that out!!!
Also, no marriage is guaranteed and if it doesn’t work out, then it is best to separate. Tori and Dean found each other and I believe a perfect match. Leave them be and wish them the best. They are a happy family and Dean hasn’t deserted his first son either.

- Suzianne on

Shay, I completely agree with you. It actually bothers me to read about Dean gushing over his new daughter when he willingly relinquished his rights to his first baby daughter. He agreed to raise little Lola as his own when he signed those adoption papers. And, IMO babies are non-returnable.

- Sarah on

shes a cutie

- Kelly on

Billy Bob did the same thing with his and Angelina’s son Maddox and as far as i know no one says anything about that. We don’t know the circumstances. Maybe he didn’t really know her, maybe he had moved out before they even got her home. Who knows? And I am sure it is his ex-wife’s request that he give up rights. I am sure they have a good reason why. He seems like a very loving father to his children.

- Becky on

Heather, again, there is nothing wrong with people discussing c-section vs vaginal delivery. It’s important for people to discuss these hings so they can learn from each other and get the most facts and decide then what they need to do. That’s why these discussions are for, so people can express their opinions and help each other (on top of aawhing over the babies)

- Nikka on

As for the pill, I don’t think that she has it straight. Missing one or two days dose doesn’t make a difference. Rather then that, it sounds like she was one of those few people who can get pregnant on a pill as well, that’s why she may have been feeling not well, she could have been pregnant already. A pill stops the eggs development (i hope i got it right, i am not very familiar with this kind of stuff), and two days should not make up for it, but if someone knows more please post

- Nikka on

Abi – Do you have a medical reason for needing a c-section? If not, then I would definitely recommend doing vaginal. A c-section is major surgery and should not be chosen lightly. I am no expert on c-sections because I have not had one…I delivered vaginally. I am pregnant with my second and am very much hoping to deliver vaginally again. It is no walk in the park, but the recovery is much faster, you are able to experience and interact with your baby immediately after it is born (instead of being strapped down to a table and having to wait). Before I delivered vaginally the thought of a c-section intrigued me because it seemed like a nice, quick option, but seriously after delivering vaginally I would never choose any other way. I am sure there are plenty of girls who had c-sections who would say the same thing about having a c-section too, so take my advice for what it’s worth…

- Amy on

Dean abandoned his adopted daughter and now he speaks about a profound relationship between a father and daughter. How about sharing that relationship with the other “daughter” you chose not to have such a relationship with.

- Pearl on

I’m not prone to saying corny things, but ALL babies are miracles simply for being the complex, amazing creatures that they are.

No matter how the baby is conceived (accidentally, intentionally, unknowingly, painstakingly) that has no alteration on the end result.

- Stef on

however she was conceived or however she was born….she’s beautiful! and tori and dean have every right to gush over her! i would!

- gigi on

Nikka, the pill (not including the minipill) suppresses ovulation. If you miss one day you are supposed to take 2 pills the next day. If you miss 2 days you are supposed to use a backup method. This is because, depending on the woman, missing 2 pills can result in ovulation, making you fertile after missing the second pill. My friend had twins last August and is expecting another baby this September from missing 3 pills :)

- jenny on

Pearl- He never abandoned his adopted daughter, because Lola never WAS his adopted daughter. He and Mary Jo were in the process of adopting her when they split, and his name was removed from the adoption papers. Therefore, he never actually adopted her. Also, for the record, we have no idea how far along they were in the adoption proceedings when they split. Dean may never have even signed the adoption papers. Also they may not have even gotten Lola when they split. Just because they had started the adoption process doesn’t mean that they had brought her home yet. If they didn’t, then Dean most certainly did not abdanon her.

As Becky pointed out, Billy Bob did pretty much the same thing with Maddox when he and Angie split (although, in their case, I remember reading on People magazine’s website that Billy Bob’s name was never on the adoption papers to begin with. Only Angie’s name was.). He gave up his parental rights to Maddox and the “Thornton” in Maddox’s name (when he was first adopted, his name was Maddox Chivan Thortnon Jolie) was dropped (although that was probably more Angie’s choice).

Yet, I hardly ever see anybody criticizing Billy Bob for “abdanoning his son”. Also, although he hasn’t had another son, he did have a daughter with his current partner a year or two after he and Angie split, and he gushes about her quite a bit. Nobody says he shouldn’t gush about her and should have a relationship with Maddox instead. Why is there a double-standard with Dean?

- CelebBabyLover on

I also want to add that if the reason for the double-standard against Dean is that Dean is the only father Lola ever knew and she, unlike Maddox, doesn’t have an adoptive father in her life, I must point something out. Lola never really DID know Dean. I don’t know excatly how old she was when she was adopted, but I do know that she was a baby. Therefore, even if Dean and Mary Jo did bring her home before they split, odds are that she has no memory of Dean.

Unless and until Mary Jo tells her that Dean was almost her adoptive father, she’ll never even know that she almost had an adoptive father.

- CelebBabyLover on

I can’t believe there are people that can find negativity in the words “miracle baby girl”.

- Sarita on

Not sure where that babies full head of BLACK hair is…looks regular brown to me. Tori used to have dark hair-I remember her in Troop Beverly Hills when she was a young girl and her hair was dark brown-so why would she be so shocked at her baby having brown or dark hair? strange. but, i dont think that baby has black hair. I was born with red hair-it says it on my birth certificate and to this day my parents joke about how i was a redheaded baby when they have no redhaired people in the family-but it grew out and I gradually went from red-to light brown-blonde to dark brown as I grew up. My hair is now naturally dark brown. Hair color is so insignificant on an infant because it changes so much.

- Ryan on

stella is such a doll =) tori can call her child whatever she likes.it may be popular to suggest that she’s had an easy time having babies, but bear in mind she did miscarry before becoming pregnant with liam & during this pregnancy & she did have complications a few months ago(as documented in the preview clips of the reality show).i also read she was hospitalised,possibly around that time. it was probably very stressful for both tori & dean-my guess is that they’re simply relieved & that stella is here & she’s ok….

- ang on

see? lots of confusion over how the pill works!

if you miss 2 pills in a row, your chances of becoming pregnant increase significantly.

next time you see some birth control pills, check out the instructions. every pill will tell you that missing pills decreases the pill’s effectiveness.

- meghan on

“She’s a miracle. I was on one pill and wasn’t feeling well, so I went off of it. Two days later, the doctor put me on another, and on that one day, we conceived. It was meant to be!”

I don’t think it’s meant to be, if you’re taking the pill (=ruin further baby’s life). For me that means that you don’t want a baby!!! Yes, I’d rather say she’s a miracle! That’s a really dumb statement!

- Ana on

On a different note! Is Tori forgetting, after being Blonde so long that she is a natural brunette with olive toned skin! You only have to look back at pictures of her as a child with her family to see that. She always tans well too!!! I think she will be like Tori was when she was younger.
Mind you, I had black hair when younger and it lightened and darker skin which also lightened!

- Andrea on

Stella looks beautiful.

They look like such a happy family. I wish them all the best.

- Sylvana on

abi – Having experienced both a cesarean and vaginal births (VBACs), the recovery for the vaginal births was MUCH easier than the cesarean. Also, if you plan on having more than one or two children, the risks to you and your babies increase significantly the more cesareans you have. That’s why many OB’s don’t recommend elective primary cesareans without a medical indication.

FWIW, according to my medical records, my uterus was removed and cleaned out before they put it back in. :-P

- homefly on

There is no double-standard against Dean, nor is there negativity against the words “miracle baby girl.”

The point is not whether Dean signed papers or not. I find it difficult to believe that he is excused from that commitment because he didn’t sign on the dotted line. By starting the adoption process, he made a commitment to this child-one that he didn’t fulfill. His wife couldn’t “MAKE” him give up anything. Please don’t excuse him by saying Lola is too young to remember him or that they weren’t far along in the adoption process. He was going to be her father, and then he wasn’t. That, to me, says something about the man’s character, or lack thereof. And I certainly don’t recall anyone holding up Billy Boy Thornton, of all people, as a bastion of fatherhood.

Obviously, Dean and Tori wanted what THEY wanted when THEY wanted it. Yes, it happens, but let’s not make this couple into a fairy-tale romance.

Having said that, Stella is a beautiful little girl and every child is a miracle. But Lola was, and is, a miracle too.

- Shay on

Well said, Shay. And for the record, from what I’ve read, Lola was at home with Dean’s ex for several weeks while the adoption was being finalized, but Dean was off making a movie with Tori at that time. We all know how the story ends.

- paula on

These two are my least favorite “Celebrity” couple. While neither one of them is really that good at acting, they traipse all around Hollywood courting the press and even have an agreement with one of the paparazzi companies to pose for pictures and get paid for doing so. Maybe if they did something other than look for attention, I would like them.

As for the baby, she is cute.

As for the term “Miracle” baby, every time I think that my sons were fully intact inside of me one minute and then were sitting on my chest a minute later, I think that birth is the real miracle. We don’t lay eggs and sit on them for months while the baby grows in it and then hatches. The real miracle is that we grow our babies inside us and they come out fully cooked, so to say. Miraculous. So I guess, technically every one of us is a miracle.

I guess it bothers me that Tori thinks that getting pregnant was a miracle for her and not for everyone else too. The only way to guarantee not getting pregnant is to not have sex, and it’s certainly not surprising for someone to get pregnant when switching pills if they don’t use another method of contraception. A true “miracle” would be getting pregnant without having sex, or having sextuplets naturally, not what Tori did.

I wish Tori and Dean would just stop seeking attention all the time. I wouldn’t be surprised for Tori to be pregnant again soon, because she got a lot of paparazzi attention during this pregnancy and made a lot of money off their pictures. As long as she’s fertile, they could have a steady paycheck as long as people buy her pictures. I, for one, am not impressed at all with them.

- Beverley on

congratulations dean, tori, jack, and liam!! stella is a very cute!! she is your miracle and that’s all that matters, don’t pay attention to some of the other people on this blog. as for some of the posters – wow, people definitely have a lot to say. there really is no need to pick apart every aspect of their interview and their lives. just share in their joy, which is abundant from look of it.

- kate on

What a beautiful little baby girl! She is just precious.

- Namesake Treasures Personalized Gifts on

Am I just dreaming or does Tori’s smile in that other photo remind me of Robin Antin ?

- Nikka on

Can’t even call your own baby a miracle without half the world jumping down your throat. She’s your mircale, Tori, don’t let anyone tell you different. :)

- Jay] on

Cute babies.

But, what has she done to be famous? Had a famous rich dad? Did some sub-par acting forever ago? Cheated on her husband with a married man? He had young children too, nice. Publicized how ‘broke’ she was, even though she lived better than many I know? What else can I say- I guess I am not a fan, lol.
I think he is the scum of the earth and Tori is a Class A IDIOT for falling for such a schmarmy gold-digger. I hope she never gets the millions from her family, just so he doesn’t get it.

- jacq on

Wow i read through all of the comments…

All i have to say is i wish we weren’t so judgemental, and i’m quite sad that i found some negative posts when the topic is about a birth of a healthy baby and two happy parents.

I mean all pregnancies are miracles in itself. You know each conception is a blessing, and for those who suffer from infertility problems its even more of an amazing ‘miracle’ because you never thought it would happen. As I was reading the comments some people are baffled that she called her conception a miracle, i feel a little disgusted that people would say such negative comments.

- Laurie on

She is a miracle. How could anyone argue with that? She just perfect. And her parents love her so much their hearts could just burst. I know the feeling.

- Melanie on

So much nastiness in one post, especially towards someone none of us have met. She can call her daughter a miracle if she likes! I sure as heck know that is I was in the adoption process and my husband found someone else, I would want him off the papers and out of my new adopted kid’s life. There is nothing wrong with that. I would want my new adopted kid’s life as simple as easy, without any complicated explanations of “well, this was going to be your dad, but then not.” There is just a lot of cattiness and meanness here instead of just celebrating that a life has been brought into the world. Congrats to Tori & family!

- cindy on

“Yet, I hardly ever see anybody criticizing Billy Bob for “abdanoning his son”. Why is there a double-standard with Dean?”

CelebBabyLover, there isn’t a double standard but those are two different situations. Angelina left Billy Bob and took Maddox because they split up. Dean abandoned Mary Jo and Lola to be with Tori.

- Caroline on

WELL SAID CINDY!

It seems like JEALOUSY is the reason for all the nasty comments. Yes, I said jealousy. Why can’t you just comment about the new baby in Tori’s and Dean’s life. Do you really think they care if you are a fan or not. I don’t think so. Is MARY JO commenting about Dean leaving her for Tori? So, why must some of you comment about it?

- LALA on

Cute kids! I think that Liam looks alot like Tori’s brother.

- Dana on

Beverely- Tori said a few months ago that, after being pregnant for almost two years straight, she wants wait awhile before getting pregnant again. Therefore, I don’t think we’ll see her pregnant again for at least a year.

Cindy and Laila- I couldn’t have said it better myself. In fact, I wanted to say the exact same thing you did, Cindy, but couldn’t figure out how to properly word it. Thank you! I also want to add to what Cindy said.

By taking Dean’s name off the adoption papers (I’m with the majority who strongly believe that doing so was Mary Jo’s decision. In which case, rather than Dean abandoning his daughter, it was Mary Jo deciding not to have him in HER daughter’s life), Mary Jo spared Lola a childhood of being shuttled back and forth between her parents. Do you really think it would have been better for Lola if Dean’s name had stayed on the adoption papers? At least now, unless Mary Jo ever meets and marries someone else and that guy adopts her, Lola will never have to be a “child of divorce”.

I have to say that the only couple I see getting this type of criticism (the man leaving his wife for another woman, the woman being a “homewrecker”, etc.) is Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie….and in their case, there weren’t children involved (well, at least not in the same way is with Tori and Dean. Brad did not leave or abandon any kids when he and Jen divorced). This criticism was especially bad right after Shiloh was born. I can only hope that they won’t get that same critcism after the twins’ birth!

- CelebBabyLover on

Abi
After having 3 csections(first baby breech and 9 lbs 4oz, second baby 13 hour labor – 1cm dilated and third transverse lie would not turn I would not elect to have a csection if the baby could be born vaginally. It is major surgery and definitely has a recovery period. I also happened to have a horrible spinal headache with my third. Abi, I’m sure you’ll make the best decision for you. Also wishing Tori, Dean, and Liam the best with the newest member of the family.

- Lorelei on

Dean bouncing on his wife was really messed up, but that’s water under the bridge now people. Hopefully he’s learned his lesson.

Tori and Dean are now happily married with two beautiful babies. Congrats to them! I love Tori!

As for the comment about the dark hair…I was surprised by that comment too. Isn’t Tori Jewish? That’s not exactly Swedish…

- m-dot on

how could mary jo possibly have “forced” dean out of lola’s life if that’s not what he wanted? to be honest, i find that defense laughable. in what divorce court would a father be stripped of his parental rights to one child (lola) and maintain rights to the other (jack) if that’s not what he wanted? he could have remained lola’s dad but he CHOSE not to. saying that mary jo forced him out is a flimsy excuse.

and, how has lola been spared anything? dean is still in her big brother’s life and isn’t in her’s. when she grows up she’ll probably find out the circumstances of her adoption. do you think she won’t be hurt that dean chose not to proceed with adopting her?

oh well, i truly hope all four kids grow up happy despite everything that has happened.

- Sarah on

Now that Tori has had two kids, maybe she now knows a bit more about the birds and the bees, lol!

With her irst pregnancy she put on tons of weight, probably under the assumption, it would go away after the she gave birth. A missconception that many women seem to have.

As for Stella being a “miracle”, it only takes one time to get pregnant. So cleary Tori & Dean didn’t abstain for a few days and didn’t think about alternative birth control methods.

Either way, congrats to Tori on her little girl, which is what she always wanted. She and Dean make very cute babies. :o )

- Robin on

Stella looks like her daddy.

both kids are adorable.

- Mia on

Did anyone buy this magazine? I had to wait somewhere for awhile so decided to get a magazine to pass the time. The last picture of the article Stella has on a really cute little bracelet (it is a beaded fashion bracelet, not anything silver or gold. I was wondering if anyone knew where this was from or where to get one that is similar? Thanks!

- Audrey on

Stella is absolutely adorable! She looks like a baby doll! I am so happy for Dean and Tori. They are down to earth and real. I love watching them on Oxygen. Liam is such a neat little guy. I bet they just adore him, I know I would. I hope he doesn’t have a hard time adjusting to sharing Dad and Mom. He seems very smart, I think he will rock as a big brother!
Congratulations! I am so happy for you!

- Connie on

Yes, Tori’s father was Jewish. I’m not sure about her mother, but she’s blonde and blue-eyed. Tori’s already had one blonde and blue-eyed child, so I’m not sure why it’s strange to some that she imagined her second child to look similar to the first.

- terri on

I read in excerpt of her book “Stori Telling” that both of her parents are Jewish. As for the bracelet Stella is sporting it may be from Tori’s jewelry line.
I never liked Tori until I started watching her show on Oxygen and now I am obsessed. I just love finding out information about this couple. I hope they continue to do reality shows or find an outlet to keep all of us fans informed.

- Rachel on

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