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Joelle wrote: “My boyfriend and I have a 32 year age gap (yep thats correct!) and I met him at 17 and stated dating him at 19″

Ewwww! What kind of messed up 49 year old man would date a 17 year old?

My boyfriend and I have a 32 year age gap (yep thats correct!) and I met him at 17 and stated dating him at 19. All you jugemental people can believe what you want, and assume to “know” that he must be immature or a loser to be attracted to such a young woman, but its 101% wrong. Its been 6 years, Ive never been happier and you could think all the negative crap you want, but many people would kill to have the wonderful, caring passionate relationship we have. So I have zero problem with this relationship and I completely understand it. It is too bad that people cant get rid of their narrowminded views to

Ellen in turn you are saying you find my relationship distasteful.

I dont care what field you work in, it doesnt excuse lack of manners.

Talk about judgemental.

Renee I’m sorry you took my comments so negatively. I was merely trying to convey my personal experience. My fathers’ partners’ frequent outbursts and bizarre behavior caused me confusion on the roles of both men and women. Speaking of hurtful, when my father and I read you’re comments we both we’re tearful. To this day he admits having Robin in our house was not ideal for raising a daughter. And I’m sorry again if I offended you or any other gay person. That was not my intent.

I don’t think it matters if people are gay or straight, either way they can make bad parents. My parents are straight and they have to be the worst parents ever. So i think sexual preference has nothing to do with the ability to raise children.

I too was raised by gay parents and my experience is entirely different to Chloe’s. My upbringing was wonderful. I was brought up in a loving, secure family unit with parents I could talk to and respected. Myself and my three siblings are all well-rounded individuals. I am just pointing out that all experiences are different. My experience, just as Chloe’s, could easily occured within a heterosexual parenting unit. The upbringing comes from the people, not the sexuality.

Chloe, your statements are hurtful to every single gay and lesbian couple out there who want to adopt. Your statements aren’t mean, they are insulting. I wish you would have thought about the impact you statements can have on people. You’re not being respectful and it’s not fair to condemn all gay parents just because of your childhood. There are bad parents who are straight, where are your negative comments about them? Gay people should have the right to adopt.

I’ve been raised by a lesbian mother, and have had a wonderful childhood with people who have loved me. I think gays and straight people can make mistakes as parents, but it doesn’t mean they shouldn’t have that right to do so. There are lots of gay parents who are just great! Just like there are lots of straight parents who are also great too!

TR sounds like he is taking things slowly, so I’m sure he won’t just jump into anything, so he’ll probably have a good long think about it. Good luck to him if he does decide to adopt!

Chloe–I’m sorry to hear about your unhappy childhood. While I can’t personally relate to what you went through, I can tell you that my own mother’s childhood was also a living hell–alcoholic, sexually abusive parents who happened to be straight. I don’t doubt that there are some terrible gay parents, but I know for a fact that there are just as many bad straight ones as well. I can’t speak with authority on the subject but I honestly believe that the ability to be a good parent has nearly nothing to do with sexuality IMO.