I agree there seems to be a real bias against men on here. Just because the woman carries the child and gives birth doesn’t always make her “right”. Should Matt marry Brynn just because she had his child? NO. Matt has a job and if Brynn went back to work (basketball), nobody would say anything against her. It looks like they worked out the details of custody between the two of them and Brynn obviously agreed to it. Of course Matt isn’t going to be able to spend as much time with the baby as Brynn. CUSTODY IS USUALLY AWARDED TO THE MOTHER. Should Matt just immediately quit his career and move closer to Brynn and the baby???

It’s the same with the Bridget/Tom situation. Everyone seems to be at fault except Bridget. How do you know she wasn’t hard to get a long with? And to those of you blaming Gisele, do you think Tom would have stayed with her if he didn’t want to? How do you know Tom hasn’t been supportive of her during her pregnancy? I just don’t understand all the man-hating on here.

A baby doesn’t fix a broken relationship.

I don’t feel bad for either parent. Sure, they’re inconvenienced, but the KID is going to be shuttled around like a piece of luggage.

I personally think in cases like this, the parents should buy a neutral home, and that’s the KID’S home. Then the PARENTS take turn shuffling in and out, so the KID actually has a HOME, not just houses to visit. Why should an innocent little kid be dragged around all over the place because his parents couldn’t get their act together before they had him?

Football practice is part of his job, people, don’t trash Matt for going to work and not being in court (when he probably wasn’t needed anyways).

I’m really surprised by the hatefulness (towards Matt) of the above comments. All he is trying to do is have more time with his son. It sounds like they worked things out nicely.

I really don’t like the whole “man= automatically bad, woman=automatically good” assumption here.

Actually, it seems he has been very careful not to say anything negative about Brynn – which I think is really important for the baby. I give him credit for that. I hate when parents “trash” each other in public – especially celebrities – since it will always be around for the child to read later in life. I’m glad they are working together for Cole’s sake.

So does this mean that when Brynn flies to Arizona on alternate weekends that she can’t even be around Cole unless Matt says so? That’s interesting. She did agreed to it though. I am glad that they seemed to have worked it out.

I personally think it sounds like they were very mature about it and just needed to make it official. Who knows why he wasn’t there, but how many celebrities actually show up at court things anyway?

They both sound like they want to do what’s best for there son, and they’re doing just that.

I guess 3 or so days a month is considered joint custody? Pfft! I feel bad for Brynn.

Why couldn’t his team let him go for a few days?

I am glad they have come to an agreement, but why couldn’t he be there? I agree, that it seems like football practice has come first for Matt, however, I hope it isn’t true. I hope both parents do what is right for the child.

Im sure football practice came first for him…