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Mar 28 2007 09:15 AM ET
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Reverend Run and Justine Simmons speak about their late daughter

As reported in September, Reverend Run of Run DMC and his wife Justine lost their newborn daughter Victoria Anne shortly after she was born. Victoria was born with her organs outside her body, a condition known as omphalocele. More information about it can be found here.

In an interview with Essence, Rev and Justine spoke about their tragedy for the first time, why they wanted film the birth for their MTV series Run’s House, how and why they’ve kept their faith and their plans for their next child.

Victoria’s premature birth (she was a month early) and her condition were not entirely unexpected for the couple. At the start of Justine’s second trimester, their doctor informed them that there was a problem with the fetus’ development. The two sought a second opinion and were told the same thing. Undeterred, Rev and Justine believed their faith would carry them through the pregnancy and they would have a miracle baby. Rev says,

We heard the doctors’ reports, and then we heard God’s report in our minds. We are real saved, sanctified, crazy church people. God can do a job! That is the type of believers we are. Yes, it hurt some nights. I cried some nights, worried and wondered some nights. But don’t tell me God can’t make this right!

No one else was told of the news except for their bishop because they didn’t want anyone else to be concerned and they were still praying for their baby to be okay. Justine made no mention of the developmental issue to the hospital staff either (she couldn’t make it to her usual hospital in time) because, "I was still hoping for my miracle."

Unfortunately, that miracle never happened. Victoria passed away an hour after she was born. Justine is grateful for that short but sweet time she had with her daughter.

I got to hold her. They dressed her in pink. She was so beautiful, and she had this amazing little clear sac with all her organs inside.

The MTV crew was present to capture it all as Rev called them up to come to the hospital. Wanting to give the family privacy and time to grieve, Mike Powers, VP of series and production development at MTV, told the crew to shut down production. However, he soon had to reverse that order. Believing that he could use this opportunity to show how tragedy can unite people and test one’s faith, resolve and courage, Rev asked Mike to resume filming.

He felt like the show was about his family and he could use this to teach the viewer more than just how to deal with a daughter’s graduation or a son failing his driving test. He could also teach about getting through the unimaginable with grace and the power of faith and family.

Six months later, the couple is still healing, but is also looking to happier times ahead with their unwavering faith. Victoria’s nursery remains untouched as the two plan on making it a home for the child they will adopt. Justine says,

We take for granted that we can just have a baby. But I couldn’t. Maybe part of the reason God let this happen is because He wanted us to adopt.

Rev and Justine have been married for 12 years. Rev has three children from his first marriage, Vanessa, 23, Angela, 19, and Joseph "JoJo," 17, and two sons with Justine, Daniel "Diggy," 12, and Russell "Russy," 10.

The third season of Run’s House will premiere on April 9.

Source: Essence

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I love this family and admire they way they’ve handled this very difficult situation. I look forward to watching the next season of the show.

- Lissette on

It is inspiring to hear how they have accepted this tragedy as God’s will. I also love this family. They are funny and goofy but they are a solid, loving family as well. It’s great to see that they have come through this difficult time together.

- priscilla on

This family is truly GREAT in all aspects of the word.

- Amira on

I really love this show and this story hits close to home because my baby was also born with an omphalocele. They can range in size and the bigger they are (with more organs inside) the more likely it is that the baby will not make it. Babies with omphaloceles are also very likely to have other birth defects. My daughter was lucky, she had a small to medium omphalocele that the surgeons were able to fix after birth. For babies with extremely large ones, the odds are not especially good. The Simmons’ baby may have also had other defects at birth. I am so grateful for my daughter and that she was able to survive. I wish this great family all the best.

- Amanda on

wow – Look what God can do!!! It’s a pleasure to see this family stand strong. They always teach us something, don’t they?!

- G-Girl on

I love this family, so strong and so much faith,and such a blessing to have them on TV so that my son can see a strong successful family mith morals and great faith. I’m sure that it will be a blessing for the child that they adopt. God does not make mistakes, and I’m glad they are able to look at the situation with hope.

- Tara on

Wow. I watch their show and love the show and their family. The dynamics between Justine and Run DMC are so great. I’m really fond of their whole family. It’s wonderful to hear that they have notlost their faith and continue forth in the expansion of their family. I have nothing but respect for them.

- purplelisa on

That is so touching. My heart aches for them.

- Jessica on

My thoughts and prayers are with the Simmons family. I have a son, Landon, that was stillborn on August 17, 2005. I am just so happy that this family can accept the pain and see the good in being able to be with their daughter for a short time. The time with their baby was short but the memories will live on forever and will be cherished.

- Susan Glenn on

When they do air the episode featuring the birth of Victoria, that’s definitely going to be a tearjerker. But I’m glad they’re showing this. They’re one of the best families with a reality TV show. They are the realest ones out there and aren’t afraid to show the pain, alongside the good times. I love them for that.

- FC on

AAH JUSTINE;

MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. YOUR SUCH A SWEET AND SPIRITED WOMAN.
I’M ALSO A PROPHETESS. THE LORD HAS SO MUCH IN STORE FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. THE HUXTABLES ARE OUT. BUT IT “IS” THE 21ST CENTURY.AND YOU GUYS ARE WHATS IN. ALL OF IT!
(MINUS BIG RUSSELS’ CHOICE WORDS!) MAY THE PEACE AND BLESSING OF OUR LORD BE WITH YOU. I LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING YOUR NEW EPISODES. AND I’M WAY OVER 40Y!

- LORETTA GRACE on

This is so sad!! I can imagine how that felt. I almost had the same problem. My daughter, also preemie, the same day, and sick was in the hospital for a week. They had told me she has a chance of dying, but she made it through. I wrote something just today about it when I saw the season premiere yesterday and learned about what had happened… I dont think it is offensive or mean. Life is short, we all know. They say high school will fly by fast, but we never realize it until graduation. They say kids grow up fast, but you never know until you have one. I know this is true. My high school graduation is just around the corner, and I am going to graduate with an eight month old daughter. My daughter is the love of my life. People may look down on me for having a baby at my age, but at least I am going to graduate. I remember the day I went into labor with my daughter, the beginning of senior year. Senior year, what happened to freshmen, sophomore, and junior year? The time flew by so fast. I was watching a show one night, a famous couple, or something, I don’t know. They had a baby the same day I did. Theirs in the morning, mine at night. Both babies were girls, both were sick. They had five children, this was our first. Their baby passed away, ours survived. God was looking down on us. He knew they already had children and knew they could handle it and letting our daughter survive. He let us have our chance of being parents. Watching that show is what helped me realize to never take life for granted. That could have been my daughter that had passed away. I would be graduating without my daughter. I wouldn’t be able to prove to the world that people can graduate having a baby. It is possible! Thank God my daughter survived, and sympathy to the other family. God truly is amazing! Thanks!

To my daughter Solana Leylen, In loving memory Victoria Ann

- Sunshine on

I echo some of the same sentiments that the other readers have posted, but I must say this, because it really pains me to hear ones say that God takes love ones from their families, which causes pain. In the bible at 1 Tim 1:11 it speaks of God as being “the happy God.” I personally would not want to serve a god that would intentionally take an innocent life and cause pain and sorrow to his faithful servants. There is so much senseless killing and crimes being committed, and the jails are packed, wouldn’t you think that if anyone was deserving of death would be these ones. In Romans 5:12 it says “That is why, just as through one man sin entered into the world and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men because they had all sinned.” So we die as a result of sin and imperfection. Also, think about this John 5:28,29 “Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice 29 and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life, those who practiced vile things to a resurrection of judgment.” Which category would that baby fall under, who has not had an opportunity to do good things or vile things? Not only that, why would God take your life just to resurrect you? The Bible is the most powerful life manual on the face of the earth and Romans 15:4 says “For all the things that were written aforetime were written for our instruction, that through our endurance and through the comfort from the Scriptures we might have hope.” Also 2 Tim 3:16 “All Scripture is inspired of God and beneficial for teaching, for reproving, for setting things straight…” And the Bible does just that, it sets matters straight so that their is no confusion. Titus 1:2 states that “…God cannot lie.” So we can trust and believe in Gods word the bible and know that God will not mislead us.

- Stephanie on

I am so sorry for their loss. I am going through a difficult pregnancy. The courage, faith and love that this family has displayed sets a good example. Whether or not my situation ends up the same as theirs, I will look to them as how a family of faith deals with life.

God bless.

- Paula on

I was floored when I first heard of the passing of Rev Run’s and Justine baby. We can learn alot from this family. Their courage and strength and espically their faith in God. I think it was awesome that they let their viewers in on how they were handling the tragedy and how we can learn fom them. I love the show. I love the family and will continue watching them. May God continue blessing your family. Keep the faith and I to believe that something wonderful will come out of all of this.

- Tammy on

I too, lost my lil’ girl at six months, and watching Justin go through this tragedy made me stronger. Good Bless You!

- livebyfaithnotbyfeeling on

I would like to say my heart and prayers go out to the whole Simmons family especially Justine. I LOVE their show, I watch it faithfully every week and the reruns because they inspire me. I have 3kids that live with me are healthy 1 boy(17 yrs, from my 1st marriage), 2 girls(ages 7 1/2 and 2 years old from my 2nd & current Marriage). My husband and I have been married 11 years this year on my birthday New Year’s Eve. When we first got married I was pregnant with our first baby girl “Patricia Ann”(she was named after my mother. Patricia was born 3 months premature, she weighed 2lbs. at birth, no bigger than a carnish hen. She stayed in the hospital for 3 months, came home on a heart monitor for 2 months and she was considered fine. I stayed home with her until she was 11 months. I found her a home daycare to attend while I went back to work. She was going to the daycare only 4 days, when she came down with a bad cold(her first cold). I told the baby sitter “I fed her and gave her medicine at this time, and she will need another dose of medicine at this time.” It was about 3:15pm and I was at work(I worked at a Radio Station) and I received the call from the babysitter, I didn’t know it was her, I answered the phone and I heard screaming and real fast talking on the other end. I couldn’t make out what was being said, so I thought it was a contest winner, and I proceeded to tell her you have the wrong number call the studio line. Then I heard her say “Patricia, not breathing” and then I started to panick and I asked her what are you doing on the phone with me, she said My husband and I called 911 they are on their way and he is doing CPR, but she’s not responding. Well to get to the point my daughter did not make it(as I knew, If I could describe the scene that day and the clouds in the sky there was like an opening in the sky a ray of light that shined through, and I knew my little girl didn’t make it.) They said she passed away from SID’s, but I’m not sure SID’s or Neglect. The babysitter admitted she had my daughter in another room by herself, no baby monitor, the door was cracked and she had the other kids in the livingroom where she was watching them. I dropped my daughter off at 7:30AM and she didn’t check on my daughter until 2:45PM. She admits she never changed my daughters diaper, never fed her, and never gave her, her medicine. I call that neglect, but the police didn’t. Needless to say the babysitter never called me after that day, she never called to say I’m sorry, I have your baby’s diaper bag NOTHING. Yes I think about her and she will always be in my heart, but I believe God brought her into our lives for a reason, and the one thing I know is she made our family a real strong family. So I would like to say hold on to that love for their baby and it will make them much stronger!
Sincerely
Trish H.

- LaTricia Hodges on

I love watch the show. God is so amazing and he works in very mysterious ways. I had my son Ivion at 32 weeks pregnant. My son was born the same day your daughter Victoria was born. We went through alot with his birth because he only weighed 2pounds 11ounces. After about a week in the hospital he had to get a blood transfusion that was scary I cried alot and prayed I was thankful God helped us. I think you all are a beautiful family and will have much joy throughout the rest of ya’ll life. Sept.26,2006 is a day both of our families will always remember. Much love, Ivion is now 8 months and is full of life. You would never beleive he was born 2 months early by looking at him now. Keep praying and nothing will stand in your way.

- Roxie on

first of all I would like to send my condolences and prayers go out to the whole Simmons family….Well my name is Anthony (mook)and I am a man 20 years old, who love’s the Simmons family,and the many differnt personalities that truely makes this a great show to enjoy……Sounds weird to me but to others maybe not….But what I wanted to say was that life swings it’s ups and downs,and if u feel like your at the bottom theres only one way to go….I myself am goin trough hard times….Where I’m from we are a’lil less fortunate ,Well alot of less fortunate…..lol…… Well feeling abandoned and unguided as a teen I looked to the streets for answers….as a result I’ll be goin off to federal prison very soon for about 5 years for on drug conspiracy charges…I also have a 1 year old son who I love very very much and I will miss very very much…..but when I found out I was goin to prison…I prayed and I asked God why’d he put me through such a hard life then send me to prison for five years. I did’nt understand…so I did’nt pray for a shorter sentence,I did’nt pray for a eraly release….I prayed for peace, all in all God has granted me peace trough my hardship,and also told me that when it was time to change,I did’nt,So now I face the consequences….but now I face them with a mind set that everythings going to be o.k…..Some things are just fate witch we have no control over,others are gods little lessons,Reminding us thats lifes to short to mess around ….The choices we will make will be better then some of the choices we’ve made,In hope’s for a brighter future…..but what I’m aiming to say is that…No mtter what life has in store for you theres light at the end of the tunnel….and eveyday I wake up no matter where I wake up…I am happy just to wake up……and because to live is to learn…..I have to learn the hard way but fortunately…. not the ultimate way….life is’nt so bad after all….but please enjoy those around you and know that you are blessed everyday you rise with the sun so recognize a lesson and appreciate the fact that u are still on this earth to learn it…..I thought I’ll share my personal experience to remind you all……….That life is…….. too short to mess around

- anthony lorenzo on

Sounds more like Denial than “Hoping for a Miracle”. This baby could have easily been saved with the right Doctor’s.

My Daughter was born with an Omphalocele and without the Expert Care and Miraculous Doctor’s at San Diego Children’s Hospital I believe she would have Died within 48 hours of being born.

That sounds like Gross Negligence not informing the Hospital that their baby had a “Fixable” congenital defect. I can’t believe that they are Hiding behind God to justify their actions. I believe in God and I believe he chose us (my wife and I) to bring out daughter into this world. He chose us because He knew we would provide her with the absolute BEST Medical Care available.

It is absolutely unthinkable that we would have taken our daughter to the WRONG hospital and then NOT TOLD THE STAFF of the babies problem….. I am just sickened by this news.

Anthony
Daddy to Shelby Born 1-19-2007 with a medium to large Omphalocele. Fixed the same day and she was home in 10 days.

- Anthony on

HI AS AN INDIVIDUAL I HAVE LEARNED TO APPRECIATE THE LIVING BECAUSE WHEN A LOVE ONE DIES THEY CANNOT BE TOUCHED,KISSED NOR EVEN LOVED. STAY AS SWEET AS YOU ALL ARE AS A FAMILY GOD BLESS.

- GISELLE on

justine i am truely so sorry for your lose . you are a great mother and a great wife and god will bless you with a little girl . i pray for you every day and i know that god has a specially little angle for you and your family . the love you have for every one is so amazeing to see god will not let you down and he will answer your prayers keep the faith god bless you all .

miriam

- miriam torresola on

I AM SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSE . YOU ARE IN MY MIND AND IN MY HEART AND IN MY PRAYERS KEEP THE FAITH GOD WILL GET YOU THREW IT GOD BLESS YOU ALL

FEELING YOUR PAIN
MIRIAM

- miriam torresola on

I really love watching Run’s House. This is one of the few reality shows that the whole family can watch together. It shows us how to have fun and enjoy each other and be there when times are tough. There is no profanity (except when Russel is on), they show that even though they (kids) are blessed (wealth) that they are shown how to give and are held accountable for their actions, which today many children and teens are not whether rich, middle class, or poor. They are also shown how to work for their money rather than have it handed to them. It will be nice to see a group of well rounded rich kids contribute to society rather than take away. I hope the media will report on the good that the Simmons Family does. And leaves people like Brittany and Jamie-Lyn Spears, and other’s the media loves to report about. Let’s start to focus on the positive and not the bad and the ugly.

- Lynn on

i absoulutely love runs house it is inspiring

- lala on

hey all i wanted to say is that im sorry for the baby and that i hate my baby girl victoria araxie on sep 27th 2006 i dont know if that means anything but i think its somthing

- kelly on

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