I may not have made myself clear so I will try one more time.

What I am really saying here, is I think everything would be ok and settle down if Tom would just put out 1 only 1 picture of Suri for the public to see.

That is all it would take. One picture of the 3 of them together. And the price should not matter cos Tom is very rich anyway.

He could give the money to some charity. The idea would be to Respect Your Fans!!!!!

Tom has a career here and Fans abound. I think he OWES his fans the RESPECT of at least 1 photo of Suri.

What is the big friggin deal!!! It’s just a picture! Then everyone can go home and shut-up!

He could keep Suri locked up till he thinks she is old enough to fight germs and pollution, but at least the Fans and the Public would have seen Suri and this fiasco would end!!

NEVA

As for friends not having seen the baby; I think that is total bull-shit! The press loves to add to everything. (To sell magazines)

I believe friends of Tom’s have seen the child but, not the public. I think this is very selfish on Tom’s part but, then again I believe Tom is sick and simply can’t put things in perspective.

His daughter comes first, to him, I’m sure so, the public can think whatever they want of him. All he cares about it protecting Suri.

I think Tom has Control Issues and Obcessive Compulsive Issues. I know, cos I’ve been there and it is NOT fun.

But there is help. Only the sick person must first realize (FOR HIMSELF) that he is sick, before he can get help and be at peace.

Neva

It’s like people who homeschool their kids.

They don’t want them touched by the world. They want to keep them safe and pure. Of course, this is not reasonable but, obcessive, controling people, don’t understand this. The think they have the power and money to do as they please, for whatever reason.

I truly think Tom is a sick man. No joke here. I am serious. Tom has become over-protective of his new daughter, Suri.

I feel for this poor child. She more than likely will never have a free moment in her life. Unless Tom gets some help for his controlling issues, this situation will get worse before it get better.

These are only my opinions but, I mean them sincerely from my heart.

I read somewhere, what I would call the best explaination yet, as to why we haven’t seen Suri.

Tom Cruise has gone paranoid (no joke here)

Think about it. He is a control freak to begin with, and loves publisity, but is so in awe of his first bio) child, that he is protecting her from the world in paranoea perportions!!

His control is backfiring on him! He is afraid she may get germs or hurt or anything! I’m serious here.

People who control; are always obcessive by nature. Why people think Katie was never pregos is beyond me!! All you had to do was look at her face and the rest of her body to see she had gained plenty of weight.

my opinion is Tom has gone off the deep-end. It happens all the time.

I believe Tom has become obcessed about this child!!

I left my daughter alone for the first time when I went back to school and she was 4months old. She stayed with her grandparents.
As far as the cruise crew goes. I find it weird that he was so excited and telling everyone about the birth and then when the baby is born no one sees the little one. Maybe he was happy about the baby but he doesnt want the baby to be a part of the public eye. I dont blame then the Papparazzi can be vicious when it comes to taking pictures.

I have never considered that the baby does not exist but now….. I have a few concerns/question. One, Miss Holmes has never really been seen with a baby. Two, Couch- Jumping Cruise on the Ellen Degeneres show actually included sideburns in “drawing” what the baby looks like. Hmm..Hmm… I now have my doubts. But on the other hand, it might just be an attempt to protect the baby cause truly folks if there is no baby, there are two people who needs to be committed and institutionalised. And the optimist in me refuse to actually believe that such a charade could actually be carried out in the public eye. It would be like a house of cards likely to crumble at any time. Nothing like that would actually stay a secret in Hollywood for long. Therefore perhaps there is a baby belonging to Tom and Katy and it is their biological child. Cause if this is not the case- the guys in the white coats need to be called pronto!

Mystique, Katie made her first appearance two weeks after Suri’s birth. She was at the premier of Mission Impossible III with Tom.

Everyone was just as curious as to when we’d see pictures of Violet Affleck, but we didn’t see Jennifer around (atleast not at public places like the park and premiers) as much as Katie has been. I think that’s where the difference comes in.

As for the timetable of when Tom will be releasing photos of Suri, it’s only been rumored that he’s selling them for a million dollars. I’m not sure if that’s changed over the past few weeks or not.

I personally think it is perfectly acceptable for Katie and Tom to leave Suri at home. We have only seen Katie about 5 or 6 times since the birth and each time i think she would only have been out for 2 hours max. So little Suri was probably asleep.

Everyone is probably just anticipating over the pictures of Suri that they want to see. We didn’t see Jen Garner out with Violet until around February, i think.

I guess it just depends on each mother and what number child it is. My mum said she didn’t leave my older sister until she was 6 months old, but then her youngest, my brother, who was the 4th child, she left after a week to go shopping and then to a friends 30th. I also guess it depends on the amount of anxiety you have (that is not meant to be offensive at all – just alot of people worry).

I looked after my godson for the night when he was 3 weeks old because his parents were absolutley exhausted. He came and slept at my house in his Bugaboo basket/stroller and i got up and fed him the 4 times during the night and had him all the next day. So from 3pm one day til 7pm the next day. Both his parents just needed a break and i guess they were more laid back because this was their 3rd child. And they even trusted a 16 year old with him!!

Brooke I can bet will not be taking her child to the IVY, paparazzi central, if her pregnancy was as closely watched as Angelina’s or Katie’s.

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That was me Muff and I said the above because she did take her baby to the Ivy which made me wonder. And thats why I said if her baby was as closely watched as Katie’s or Angelina she would have thought twice.

I cant find the post right now, but someone said they keep the baby out of the spotlight as long as possible. THAT i agree with. however the person went on to say something like “you dont see Brooke Shields going to a paparazzi filled place like the IVY with her baby, do you?”.

I know you meant well to use Brooke as an example, But Brooke WAS seen at the Ivy with Grier a week or so ago. Paparazzi were all over her, trying to get a picture of the baby.

just wanted to clear that up.